How to you bring foreplay up with a shy girl?

[loxagos_snake]

Alright, before anything else, let me be perfectly clear about something: while my new girlfriend is quite new, we share a very special connection -and I would know since I've been in a long relationship- and we are deeply in love with each other. I'm even starting to believe I love her. She is a very mature girl and we communicate very well. We are together for about two months now and she is 18 while I'm 22. There's a bit of a technical problem, though: I've had sex and the rest while she is a virgin in every aspect. Again, I don't give a damn as long as we are happy together, and I'll wait as much as it takes, so please, don't give me the "you just want her for sex" speech, girls. The thing is, our making out has started getting more complicated and she often tries to turn me on with seemingly innocent facts, like telling me about her underwear (in a not-slutty fashion) and smiling when she gets me turned on. As I said, she is totally inexperienced and a bit... naive when it comes to sex (although she is a very intelligent person) and I even doubt she has ever touched herself! Anyway, today she is coming to my place. She insisted she wanted us to be alone. I'm not hoping for sex or anything, but I know we'll make out like crazy. I'd normally know what to do, but my ex wasn't shy at all and helped a lot with the process; this time, it's gonna be me who has to initiate things and I'm afraid of making the wrong move. Again, it might not be today that we'll take it to the next level, so I'm asking in general: how would I bring this up? I don't mean in a chat, that's totally unromantic. But how do I proceed carefully in case she is interested? Thank you!

[SumomoSummer1]

I read in and older comment that you said you were going to massage her, which I agree is a good idea, but how are you going to get her clothes off. If she is shy like you say she is I don't think she will just take them off. So I suggest that while you guys are making out just slid you hand up her shirt or something and rub you hands up and down her sides and her hips, take it slow and go from there. And whenever you guys do have sex make sure she know ps that you love her body. That could give her a boost of confidence and help her to be more comfortable around you in a sexual way.

[loxagos_snake]

Oh, trust me, she already knows that I love her body. I was even surprised that, when I accidentally admitted I liked her butt from the first time I saw her, she didn't take it bad and instead accepted the compliment. As for her taking her clothes off, I have already seen (and touched her) in a bikini, so that probably won't be a problem. Add in that she trusts me and I think we are all set!

[SumomoSummer1]

That's lovely. You shouldn't have a problem making love to her.

[LukaChan]

All I can say is, take it slowly. If she's a shy girl, she might be daunted. Take it slow, touch softly, ask her if certain stuff is okay, that kind of stuff.
It's all you really can do
I hope this helped. C:

[loxagos_snake]

I was thinking massage, with special oil and everything. I even brought it up once and she just said "massage? Hmm...", not denying it. What's your take on that?

[LukaChan]

That's an interesting and romantic idea. I like it. It's a good idea. Like I said, remember to go nice and slowly and softly. And talk during it. It might seem to ruin the moment, but girls like that guys worry about their comfort and how their speed is. Good luck mate.