Taking a shower with each other? What's it like?

[Codysmith95]

Ok, so a fantasy of mine is to take a shower with my girlfriend, but is that something a lot of couples really do? We have never been naked in front of each other but we do NOT want sex. How does it come into conversation? Do you slowly undress in front of each other? Girls, what goes through your mind when you see him naked and his penis pointed towards you? Guys what's it like seeing her naked and her boobs just out in the open? When you guys enter, what happens first? Do you guys just touch each other? If somebody could explain this in EVERY DETAIL it would be much appreciated! From the time it "comes into conversation" to the time you guys dry off. I'd love to do this too but have no idea what it's like or where to start haha

[Anonymous]

I've only done it once with my guy, but it was actually really fun. I had slept over his house and we had to get ready to go out, so he asked if I wanted to take a shower with him. We just took off our clothes at the speed we normally do to shower, he got in then I did. We had to take turns directly under the water because there's only so much that the shower head can cover, and if we both tried to squeeze under it at the same time, we couldn't open our eyes because we had water flowing in our faces. He let me use some shampoo and body wash and stuff, and we pretty much washed each other (besides the hair because I wanted to wash my own hair since it's curly and gets knotted easily). There was definitely a lot of touching and kissing, but for us it didn't lead to sex. At one point we were just standing there making out while the water attacked us lol. I was mostly touching his arm/shoulders and his face, and he kept touching my boobs/grabbing my butt. He got out of the shower a few seconds before me because I wanted to soak my hair again in the water.

I suggest that you two try getting naked with each other before you start taking showers together, as it could be a little awkward standing there and seeing her naked for the first time while you're also freezing your ass off because you aren't under the hot water lol. Save water, shower with a friend! =P

[Codysmith95]

Well damn! That's EXACTLY what I'm looking for! No sex, but everything else I wouldn't mind haha just the thought of washing each other and seeing her with her hair down and the water running down her body, now I think I'm getting ahead of myself haha but this is literally one of my biggest fantasies to try with a girl! But wait, when you say get naked with each other first, what do you mean? Just lie on the bed naked with her? Remember I'm looking for no sex, but I'll do everything else. What do you suggest?

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm... my guy saw me naked before we ever had sex lol and vice versa. I think mainly just start by her in her bra and underwear and you in your underwear to get comfortable around each others bodies and maybe take her bra off or something. You could always just go straight for seeing each others bodies in the shower for the first time!

[Codysmith95]

One idea that I had was this, but getting all the way naked and just exploring each others bodies. No sex, just feeling each other up and talking about our bodies, like what we have and don't have, and compare ;) but that's also a good idea, taking it slow! Any other suggestions? And how did you see each other naked? By accident?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeha that's a really good idea! And I don't know it just kind of happened one day haha we were sitting there in our bra and underwear (luckily he was not wearing a bra) and did what you said with the exploring each other's bodies. Before I knew it, my bra was on the floor lol I felt uncomfortable at first because he was the first guy to ever see my boobs, but then after a while I got used to it. I can't think of any other suggestions, but since its the summer you can use the heat outside as an excuse to have to take your clothes off or cool down with a shower lol

[Codysmith95]

Haha that's very true :) and oohhh I'm so jealous of you right now! I'd LOVE to just be sitting with my girlfriend on the couch with her bra and panties, just casual laying together! I love just being close to girls that I love, holding them, cuddling with them, etc. but only had it ONCE :( you're lucky though haha and I'd be nervous as well becasue no girl has ever seen my penis :D haha but it's this kind of feeling that I can't WAIT to experience! Where both of us are nervous and it's just overcome by the love for each others bodies and exploring around, sort of testing the waters ;P can't wait for my day to come hehe so you guys didn't have sex, just feels around each others different body parts? Oohh that's a HUGE fantasy of mine!

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah haha I love it! Nope, we didn't have sex because I was a virgin at the time (I mean I lost it to him a few months later but still). We still lay there in our undergarments without having sex because his room is always so hot and humid lol yeah we were basically feeling each other up the whole time, but we kissed and made out too lol

[Codysmith95]

Wow... just wow... jeal... ous... ;P haha well it is summer and hopefully I can get something like this before I head back to college! It was nice talking to you and I might have more questions later haha but thanks for answering! Feel free to message me!

[Anonymous]

well i do it a lot with my bf, it started with him just casually asking me if i wanted a bath with him (showers are cramped) before we went out. We undressed each other with some touching/fondling and kissing, just normal foreplay before him climbing in the bath first and me climbing in on top of him. I find it nice when there are some good smelling body scrubs etc to use on each other (this can be sexual or just sweet and romantic) cause they can help make it less awkward and set the mood. With me this did lead to sex but it doesn't have to if you don't want it to, just do what you are comfortable with ;-)

[Codysmith95]

Well I'm not in a relationship at the moment but when I am I think it'll be difficult to overcome the question. "Want to take a bath with me?" Something like that hehe but yes when the actual time comes, it'll be the best time of my life, just being with her in the bathtub or shower. I'd love to have somebody close to me like that especially in that environment when both of us are wet.

[Opinion Owner]

yeah and by the end you will be wet not just from the water ;-)

[Opinion Owner]

Also you asked what goes through a girls mind when she first sees the guys dick pointing straight at her. Well in my experience is just arouses me and makes something stir in my down low. Also they notice the size and colour and often imagine sucking it off when you cum. Hope that helped

[Codysmith95]

I think something's stirring down below for me just reading that comment 0_o hahaha Jk but great advice! How have you done this since you're under 18 though if I may ask? Jealous!

[Opinion Owner]

well i know that i am starting to feel something stirring (i might have to fetch my vibrator ;-)) I have done this cause i have had some bf's who are very keen and accommodating i guess

[Codysmith95]

Well damn haha and oh ok. I'm VERY picky with girls I choose, I guess that's why I've had so few experience with this haha but can't wait for the actual time to come! It won't lead to sex but everything else for me is ok! EVERYTHING 0_o

[Opinion Owner]

well have fun with it ;-)

[Codysmith95]

Sure thing! :) thanks for the advice!

[Opinion Owner]

your welcome

[Weedwalker]

I took showers with my ex a lot. I don't like shower, sex, so I tried to avoid that by wearing panties in the shower (that was also because I didn't like being totally naked).

It's pretty normal. It's like taking a shower by yourself, except you have someone who'll help you wash your back and shampoo your hair. It's a little crowded I suppose, and there's usually kissing. But it's relatively normal, and saves time (unless you decide to have sex, it's a whole different story then).

[MaskedSanity]

You wear panties in the shower... :B

[DandelionSeed]

who wears panties in the shower? Don't you wash your lady parts?

[Weedwalker]

Me. I wore panties in the shower. Um, of course I do. It's possible with panties on. But when my boyfriend's in the shower, that tends to become less of a priority.

[Codysmith95]

Haha panty war ;) Jk but I'd love it if a girl didn't wear panties in the shower, I'd love us both to be naked. I'd respect her by not having sex and she wouldn't have to worry about it because I'm saving myself, but it'd be nice to feel each other up or something like that! Has anybody done this as well?

[Weedwalker]

I just wear panties because I don't like my vagina exposed. I know how weird that sounds :)

[Codysmith95]

No you're good and I understand :) I was just razzing you haha but if I was with a girl who didn't want her vagina exposed I wouldn't pressure her into taking them off. Did your boyfriend have his boxers off?

[Codysmith95]

Just so if I was in this situation would I leave mine on?

[Weedwalker]

Yeah, he never wore boxers. I don't think you'd have to. Panties sort of just stick to your skin but boxers are really loose and stuff, so I don't think they'd be as comfortable in the shower.

[Codysmith95]

Yeah you're probably right. In my opinion it'd just be awkward for me to have my downstairs exposed and her not to, but I wouldn't pressure to take them off. In your case do you just feel uncomfortable with your boyfriend seeing it? Sorry if I keep bugging you ;P

[Weedwalker]

It's cool :) I don't have anything better to do than talk to strangers on the internet. Yeah I think it would be a more intimate experience for you both if you don't wear underwear.

[Prilee1992]

It comes naturally whether you want to have bath with each other. It's intimate, showing you care for her body.
However, having erection while bathing together doesn't mean ultimately getting into intercourse. You might have some foreplay but controlling yourself, lol

[Tokana]

Just make sure you muscle her away from the water. #alphamale

[CMar007]

I literally just laughed out loud :) that's funny hahahah

[Codysmith95]

Bahaha yes! Girls like to see those biceps!

[DandelionSeed]

"a true alpha does not feel the need to announce that he's an alpha" -. ordinary girl who despise people who call themselves alpha this and alpha that

[Tokana]

dat feel when a joke is taken too serious.

[MaskedSanity]

Had showers and baths with my boyfriend.

Lots of kissing and touching involved while we wash each other. I think it's adorable. :3

[Codysmith95]

Something to look forward to! :D can't wait for my time! Was yours special and what all went down? If you don't mind me asking. I just can't wait for my time to come when it happens!

[MaskedSanity]

It's very sweet and feels nice to touch someone who's really soapy.

[Codysmith95]

True that ;P haha dang all of these responses are really making me jealous towards the people that have done this, but anyway you're lucky! Can't wait to do it with my future girlfriend or wife!

[ItsNotShaved]

It can be real fun. You get to wash the body parts on the other person that you don't have on your own. I've noticed that the guy always wants his penis washed very, very thoroughly. lol. Sex does usually follow.

[Codysmith95]

Haha yes our penis is definitely something that takes thorough washing ;) hehe but thanks for the advice! Looking forward to couple showers now!

[tokioangel95]

Some of my past boyfriends and I used to love showering together. If we had the time we would also take baths together. It's so romantic and helps one to relax. If we are in a hurry but still want to be intimate, we shower together, and lather and shampoo each other up! It's great fun.

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[tokioangel95]

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[Codysmith95]

Baths are another fantasy of mine and I cannot WAIT to have one with a girl I love! Just feeling the weight of her on me and rubbing her body from behind! :) oohhh why can't I have a girlfriend yet?

[KBob93]

Yeah I'd like to take a bath with a guy too, but start out with nurse/patient play, where I bathe him and then I "fall in"...

[tokioangel95]

That sounds like a lot of fun

[KBob93]

One time when my buddy and I were about to shower together (because he wanted to), before we stepped in, I grabbed his junk, pulled it and said "PEE-PEE!" Lol. He puts up with so much of my crap, he's a good guy.

[TheNewClassic]

Those answers are so sexy, I wanna shower with someone too! <3

[Blacklonewolf]

I would love to share a shower/bath with my future bf/husband. It's something I've always wanted to do as well but I'm still single.

[Just_A_Guy2018]

It is a terrific bonding experience. The main objective is to clean oneself, but also assist the other in completing their cleaning...

[COCOCHANEL]

it's kinda fun. guys often suggest it when i one of us is about to take a shower.

[nickstaa]

It makes cleaning yourself fun lol

[JennieF]

Very fun.

[DonJuan2014]

do it. get soapy. go down on each other.

[Anonymous]

It is sexy Do it

[Anonymous]

I shower with my boyfriend when he stays the night at my house usually. We just get in normally (although one at a time). He usually stands outside of the water while I wash my hair and we switch so he can do his. We do wash each other though. Usually after that's all finished we kiss/do things (we haven't had sex so it doesn't lead to that in the shower) until the hot water runs out.

[Codysmith95]

Wow I wish that was the case for me too, but I guess I'm not old enough yet :( I'm 19 and at college, but looking forward to dating someone so that we have our own houses and stuff! Glad to hear that women like to do this!

[Opinion Owner]

I'm 19 lol I'll be 20 on Wednesday. It was my boyfriend's idea and I was reluctant to try it at first because I'm self conscious about my body but I'm comfortable with him so we did. And we still do. Unfortunately we don't live together yet, that would make life so much easier.

[Anonymous]

I've always fantasized about this too! XD But doing it with my future husband of course. :P

[Codysmith95]

Sweet! And same here with my future wife but it'll be hard to bring it up in convo

[Anonymous]

Showers are actually really awkward because someone is always left out of the water

[Shadow-Wolf]

It works out though kinda since that means you can let the shampoo soak and stuff without letting it get washed out. Also, it allows for the other to sensually wash down the other person. Just gotta know how to make the most of it.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but then you're left out in the cold lol

[Anonymous]

Ask if she want's to take a bath with you? Yea, it's something a lot of couples do together. Mostly you just wash each other or/and have sex, you could just keep touching if you don't wan't sex tho. Just relax, it's just a bath, where there also happens to be another person.
Girls like it, if you show them how much you love their body.