Should I feel embarrassed when I got a boner while I was making out with my girlfriend?

I was making out with my girlfriend and I started to pop a boner, and I tried to hide it from her because I didn't know what she would think.. But as we really started to get into it, I slipped up and it brushed her leg.. And I quickly pulled back without breaking contact between are lips, and she started to hold me tighter... But im afraid it scared her, I just wanted to know what she might have been thinking... And what should I do?
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Should I talk to her about it, because we are open with each other.. And she's told me that she wants to wait till we get married, I just want her to know that I can wait.. We've been going out for a couple years now.. I was just a little worried..
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I want to wait till marriage to have sex.
    But I'd still love it if my boyfriend (if I had one) got a boner while making out with me!

    Would she be scared? No - you didn't try to have sex with her, even though you had an erection. In fact, you showed her you have self-control and respect for her. That's cool, man.

    • Thanks for MH 😃

  • No i don't think it scared her, especially if she held you tighter. She was probably happy that she turned you on that much, i mean i would be happy if i had that effect. If she was scared she probably would have pulled away, but she definitely wasn't, so your good.

  • Girls like it. It feels strange or weird for you to bring it up to her later - as it's happening you can say something like "you really know how to turn me on". I guarantee that will work out better than bringing it up randomly.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Any girl who understands how a penis works will probably know that you'll get a boner when getting intimate (even just making out), and that it's a good thing because it means you're enjoying yourself.

  • Uh, no. She liked it. never heard of a girl that didn't like knowing she turned her man on.

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  • Lesson for life:

    Girlfriends wants to see boyfriends' bones. We love them.

  • I had something like happen to me when i was making out with my boyfriend at the time and i didn't feel scared of his boner at all! I was actually glad that he was so into it and that I was turning him on.

  • How old is your girlfriend... hhaha
    I doubt your boner scared her... when my boyfriend gets boners it turns me on 0_0

  • Why would any girl get scared of a boner? It means she's doing something right lol.

  • no its natural

  • Your boner scared her? Wow.

  • Unless you're groping him, how would you even know?

  • Be proud of it. I guarantee she liked it.

  • No. It's natural.

  • All girls are scared of boners. 5 stars buddy

  • You spelled mom wrong

    • Are you serious?

  • No. It's expected sometimes girls appreciate knowing she's turning you on. PLUS she was pulling you tighter which meant she was definitely turned on too.