Holy smokes I can't believe the comments below. You can tell the women that are controlling. I think the best way is patience and honesty with your intentions. I have found it has to work equally both ways and it can't be just one person doing it for the other person because then it's used as an argument that 'oh I did this for you". It has to be natural and organic. What are the ways to handle it is to go to a swingers club. All swingers clubs main area is fully clothed with no sex visible. You can interact with anyone you want or not want as long as you're polite about it. Some clubs have separate rooms were people play in and you can choose to or choose to not go in. My point is that you could go there just for the sake of checking it out without any pressure of swinging at all and you can feel the sexual tension for the first time it's quite exhilarating. Maybe you'll have to do that a couple times until you're both comfortable. Your mindset has to be that you're free spirits. And no matter what you have to be in the understanding that you have to accept what happens happens and that you talk it through afterwards as well. There can never be a fight in front of other people as it's just awful. One other thing is that it cannot consume the relationship it has to be something that is a quick spice up for a night or two here and there it cannot consume you both.
I would be ever so careful about going near this. It has the potential go blow up your marriage and I doubt that's what you want. If I felt compelled to pursue it, I think I'd explore having the other wife bring it up to her, just between girls. If she would take responsibility for the idea, i. e. be your beard on this, that would be ideal. If your wife reacts very badly and asks you about it, you can say it's come up but you decided to not mention it.
Thanks for the selection. Let me know how it goes.
Is this type of relationship something you have ever discussed with her before? Seems like something that should have already been talked about. . . my guy and I discussed matters of 'sharing' when we'd only been together a couple months. I think that's an important thing to work out before making a serious commitment, so that you know you're going to be with someone who wants a similar type of relationship.
Since I've already discussed this a long time ago with my partner, I would be deeply upset and hurt if he asked me to do this now. I would feel like I wasn't enough for him sexually and it would be a huge hit on my self worth and confidence in our relationship.
This us a bad idea why are you married in the first place, you should get a divorce. Or better yet seens the deed is done, spice things between yourselves. Men are so evil
Ask her, if she is interested she will say yes. If not you need to accept that. Suggest other things. Prolly should have thought about this before getting married. Lol
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I would divorce/dump my SO if he suggested this. Just sayin'.
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