What to do after he cums/goes limp? (Hand job)

After my boyfriend cums from a handjob, I have no clue what to do. Well first off, I have to give him hjs in the pants because it's too risky for parents to walk in. So I give him hjs a few minutes before he has to go home so he can change his pants when he gets home. He cums in his pants and I think we're suppose to use a tissue or something to clean up but he never asks for one and doesn't seem to have an issue with cumming in his pants. Anyway, after he cums, I usually take my hand out immediately and we just kiss and cuddle. But should I keep my hand in and massage his penis with his cum or just massage it or what? We're seniors in HS but we're each others first relationship so I'm a noob when it comes to these things... Please help
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Nope. You are doing what you can. When he comes, it's over. We don't need after play. When "we" were in this phase, I bought several cheap facecloths at the dollar store and brought one with me. If there was time, she'd wipe up before I zipped up. If not (often the case when people were in the next room) she'd cover my penis and the wet area and then I'd pull up my undies over it and zip up. Eliminates a visible wet spot.

    Things to remember.
    1. He takes the face cloth with him if you wiped up with it. He already has it if you covered and he zipped.
    2. Wash your hands if you got semen on them. It has an instantly recognizable smell to people around you.
    3. The room will smell like sex. Ventilate.

  • Ask him what he wants! Ask him what feels good. Sex is about communication. Also, lick his cum from your fingers and make him taste it. Trust me... you'll both find it hot.

    • Okay I might taste it but I feel like making him is a little weird haha! But thank you for the advice!

Most Helpful Girls

  • It can be nice for him if you keep going after he cums. But it isn't that big of a deal

  • You fold his penis like a shirt, and put it away

    • lol 😂

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  • Nope, he's done. Personally i don't like when my gf keeps going after I've... uuh... ahem.. reached my destination...

  • Lick him and your hand clean While telling him how much you like the taste of it

  • Take your hand out and lick it off. I would say there's no need to touch his dick afterwards. Then kissing and cuddling would be nice after that.

  • I would not recommend touching a guy's penis after he ejaculates. It can actually be quite painful for him. I'm pretty sure women get very very sensitive after having an orgasm, so it's like fingering yourself RIGHT after you cum. It's very sensitive, isn't it? Cuddle and kiss, by all means, but you could hurt him if you touch his penis after. Not seriously, just uncomfortable.

  • if you do that he will think it will lead to something more than just a hj

  • I bet he would love it if you don't move you hand after and played with it and it would be hot if you got your hand covered in cum even hotter if you ate it off of your hand

  • You don't do anything. You're done. :)