Girls: What do you like more when it comes to receiving oral sex?

[Sysmunky]

For the ladies: when you are receiving oral from your partner, do you prefer to be laying on your back and comfy, taking a bit more control and having your partner lay down while you straddle/mount/sit on their face, bending over something or on all fours having your partner going to it from behind you? Bonus questions: Do you like to take charge and be dominant while on the receiving end of oral sex? Just how dominant do you typically like to be? Have you ever had a partner lick your back door, and if so did you enjoy it more or less than having your vag played with? Is there any particular thing that just absolutely sends you over the and drives you wild? What advice would you pass along to my fiance who has never had an organ and always stops me, saying she can't and she just feels really tense. She is ttypically slightly shaky and ! I'm hoping to see if I can't bring my partner over the edge at last and I'm hoping that with input from everyone here I can accomplish it in a manner that she will love and enjoy, to prove to her that she can.

[musicbrain5]

I prefer being on my back with a pillow or two under my butt, since that is easier on his neck. I love to let my SO do all the work down there because he definitely knows what he's doing!

Your other questions:

1) Like I said, I like to let him do the work, but I let him know what feels good/not so good.
2) I've never been rimmed.
3) When he's right into it, like it's absolutely the only thing he wants to do and just cares about how good I feel. That's hot.
4) She is feeling tense because that's the feeling you get right before an orgasm. Don't stop! Just keep going and carry her right through it. Pay attention to how she's reacting and to anything she says, but don't let her stop you when she is on the edge of her orgasm.

Don't drink too much over your dinner. Alcohol works against you when you try to have sex. And yes, definitely use all the time you have.

[Sysmunky]

I've learned that in that exact moment of tension, despite me being able to tell she is wound tighter than a jack in the box and ready to pop, there really isn't any super good way to hang on and get her through it. I'm hoping by going a bit slower and letting it really build up over time she will be beterminated able to enjoy it, I just hope that it doesn't make it harder for her to peak.

[Dcosse]

Depends on what kind of sex we're having. If we're being kinky and I'm being a bit dominant, I sit on his face. If he's being dominant, I'm on all fours, and if it's sweet love making, I'm just on my back. As for the questions, I'm not a huge fan of me being dominant, I'd rather my partner take that role. & yes I've had a partner lick me there haha, it felt great but him fucking you from behind while playing with your clit is definitely the icing on the cake.

[jmmmfi]

Any tips on how to do it well?

[Sysmunky]

My ultimate goal is for my fiance of 6 years to finally have an orgasm, as Im apparently not hitting the right buttons during sex whether it 8 an issue with my size, motion, stamina or whatever else, but when going down on her I have no problem getting her to the edge but she always stops me because she says it feels weird and she gets pretty tense. I'm unsure if she has ever had an orgasm before in life, but based on my experience I'm reasonably confident that she is pretty much right on the edge of one when she stops me because 90 the tension, and she doesn't seem to be afraid of any thrashing and noise isn't an issue, so I want to fi g urethane out how to keep her relaxed and show her thst there is nothing that would happen if she let's herself orgasm to worry about, no matter what. I just can't figure I out how to get her to telax and cum. Perhaps some dom/ sub play or roleplay will help get her in the mindset. Thank you for the input and openness to help a stranger out :)

[Freidrich4444]

Buddy, the problem is psychological - she needs to talk to someone. You're not doing anything wrong, but you might be too close to see it.

[Dcosse]

Next time when she's asking you to stop, don't. She's probably a squirter honestly and is a bit embarrassed of it. Dom/sub role-play would be perfect for that situation because if she's asking you to stop and you're the dom, saying something like "Your body is my fucking body don't tell me what to do with it you little slut" would do the trick if she's into that sort of thing haha. Good luck man!

[Sysmunky]

How to do what well? If you're referring to providing a pleasant oral experience for her, and I'm guessing your not sure where to start l, first and foremost make sure you're both in comfortable position and that you're both open to communicating. Dedicate a decent chunk of time to it, because the first time or two is kinda like exoring. I've never found two woman who lived the exact same thing. Start slow, keep your tongue soft and work your in, see what she enjoys most and if she will tell you what feels better and guide. Play with her clit lightly at first and if you can get your fingers in her puss try fingerings her and running on your fingers inside almost directly behind her clit wile you keep your lips and tongue working your way around the happy spota. My go lives it as I finger her fast and lightly sick on her clit. Just keep building speed and intensity until she is squirming and jumping around and can't take it anymore. Just have to experiment and have her guide you a bit.

[Jennifer2048]

That is kind of and all of the above, but I have found lately that I am really getting off to being bent over and receiving it from behind.

[Sysmunky]

Lately we have discussed dominant and submissive types of roles and experimenting with bondage, Would you say that being bent over like that would be a more submissive position? If you've had anyone lick your backdoor, does it delay your orgasm or is it possible to orgasm from stimulation there? I'm kind of thinking some light bondage just to give the impression and perhaps keeping my fingers inside her while kind of going between both holes, but don't want to get her close and then kill her orgasm by switching it up. It's not an issue of her not enjoying being locked there but she doesn't get it often enough for me to know if it is likely stimulating enough to bring her over the edge finally have an orgasm.

[Jennifer2048]

I suppose being bent over would be a more submissive position. When he is licking me, he is usually focused on my vagina but he does lick me all over, including my backdoor. It does feel good but usually his tongue in my vagina and sucking on my clit is what pushes me over. He sometimes inserts a lubricated finger in my backdoor while going down on my vagina. And that feels really good too. But once he has me going licking me he does not stop until I am flooding his mouth. My advice from someone who has been gone down on a lot, once you have her close, don't stop or change doing whatever it is that you are doing.

[katiesmuff]

Always best when you are comfortable and not much can be more comfortable than laying on your back in a comfy bed with legs spread wide open.