Do grown men still like getting handjobs?

Would a guy in his late 30s still enjoy making out/ getting a handjob or is that just teenage boys? I'm 19 and dating a 37 year old guy, we've been together for four months.. I'm not ready for sex yet, but I wouldn't mind giving him a handjob.. Would that not satisfy him? He's had sex with 11 women before.. i'm a virgin
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes, older men like getting handjobs. Why would you think because
    a man turns a certain age he is no longer interested in getting handjobs/
    blowjobs? I don't want girl to do something that she's uncomfortable
    doing cause i highly respect girls , i only let a girl do it to me if she
    understands that I'm letting her do it out of love! Also, i would love to
    make up with a girl , I'm age 46 but i totally like the thought of it
    i just haven't met the right girl, I do anything to have a new life

  • Who knows. Just ask him. With a man that age, I feel like you need to make a choice: have sex or find another bf. He'll get very frustrated before long. He may be getting sex somewhere else but who know?

    • This crossed my mind. 4 months completely chaste seems... very unusual for a late 30's guy who has slept with 11 women. But who knows.

    • I think she needs to sing or get away from the piano.

Most Helpful Girl

  • A good, skilled handjob can be a very exciting thing, and I feel sorry for any man who doesn't know or believe that.

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  • I'm pretty sure he'd rather get a handjob than not get a handjob.

  • You should be asking him, not us. He won't bite you if you offer.
    I'd take a hand job if there was no sex being offered. He might prefer to wait for the real thing, but I'd be surprised if he did.

  • He should welcome the hand job. Any sex act with a sexy partner is fun.
    How is it that you know how many girls he has been with? Does it matter to you?

  • Absolutely yes. Do it. Coming by a girl's hand is always in season and far better than nothing. If you are not confident of your technique, look at Amateur or Asian AV to get some pointers. Have dollar store lotion nearby and have a hand towel nearby for wipe up. He is experienced, older and will like your pre-planning. Get your mind around adding oral when you are ready. Notice my age.

  • believe me babe guys any age love a hand job, im a young 54 and still have a high sex drive I love kissing and getting a hand job while we kiss , or being wanked off while I finger my wife at the same time , these are pleasures for life babe

  • Hmmm, in my mid-50s and the need for regular release of sperm (via handjobs) has not decreased one bit.

  • Do you even need to ask? We're simple creatures, of course we still don't mind them!

  • No, it's just teenagers.

    Look, you get handjobs when the girl won't give oral or full sex
    But for the most part, girls suck at giving hand jobs. They don't have the practice.
    Their arms get tired too soon.

    The fact that you're dating a creepy 37 year old means he may be an exception to this.

    • You're exactly the kind of guy I was referring to in my answer. :)

    • When you were young, guys lied to you about how awesome your technique was. Shame you never figured that out by now.

    • I have NEVER heard a guy brag about how good of a handjob a girl gave him! SaVes, you have NO idea what you're talking. :)

  • "I'm 19 and dating a 37 year old guy"
    This relationship is doomed. When you were a little kid, he was in college XD

  • Someone's got daddy issues. But, yes blowjob/handjob whateverjob, it's still a job... you're giving him some sort of sexual stimulation