What do you think? Do you think would still have sex with me? I need informative advice! From a "guy" perceptive?

Long story short, there's this guy he came up to me in the hallway randomly asking me to do his homework for him freshmen year. He plays lacrosse. Sophomore year comes and I become a lacrosse manager so we started seeing each other a lot. He was constantly asking to see my boobs and have sex and everything. Junior year comes same stuff during lacrosse season he would say suck my d*ick I know you want too and everything I never say anything when he would talk to me like this I felt kinda pressured though at first but, I started to want him a lot it's weird. And we were suppose to hookup in his car after a game, and to keep in mind he has a gf through all of this basically. So I faked on hooking up with him bc he would be my first kiss and everything he's experienced and I'm not. So we would text about hooking up, we would snapchat. He would be like I know you wanna have sex with me and I admitted it to him. So summer comes (rising seniors) he snapchatted me saying text me you still haven't showed me (my boobs) he was like text me. I texted him he was like what's up I said something then I get a text saying "who is this" I was like it's me you told me to text you. No reply. I have no idea what that was about because you contacted me first lol. So a month later this month. I snapchat him saying "I guess.. you'll never fuck me" with a sad face and a broken heart and he didn't snapchat back. But he Views allllll my stories. Does he still want to have sex with me? Like would he still do it? Like what is he thinking? Would he still hookup? Basically do you think he still wants to like do stuff with me?
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  • I think over the years, he's tired of playing games PLUS, and possibly more importantly, he can easily be in a more situated position with his GF (or a new one).

    Don't be obsessed about him. He may be playing a game to make you want it finally (which it IS working) -- but don't expect anything to happen any time soon. Just explore your options with other boys and set him aside. Let him come to you -- there's nothing much you can do at this point. He reads your stories, he at least has you in the back of his mind... let him approach you when his time is right. Again, nothing more you can do.

    In the meantime, look to mingle/engage with other guys... and learn from this experience. You're entering senior year -- you're not just a "girl" anymore -- let off the emotional crap about sex, etc. by playing games. Fine for a freshman, not so good for a sophmore, bad for a junior, and no-excuse for a senior. Go out on some dates with a boy this summer and into early senior year -- and if you're not seeing a guy and that guy hits you up -- sure, roll with it -- but don't let him play games with you in return!

    • THANK YOU SO MUCH your advice helped sooo much <3333

  • Can you read the role question but you should have wondered about that if you want to have sex there's plenty of men you can always approach that again and then it wouldn't be so weird help you out with that if you would like

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  • First thing that comes to my head is maybe he got busted by his girlfriend. That or he might be in the closet. This ones a bit odd.

  • It sounds like his girlfriend got a hold of his phone and wanted to know who you were or at least saw the text and he played dumb?

    In general, it takes a lot for guys to say no to sex so he probably still does.

  • if given the opportunity he probably would, but it would seem he has given up on trying.

  • he's prolly just a playa, you wanna hit that?

  • You're under 18. Stop having sex and study.

  • he is playing with u... forget it n move on...

  • Do not ask the same question twice in a row