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Can I have sex with my girlfriend with the condom on? What do girls think about condoms?

Recently, my sexual libido is very high so I can't constrain it enough. Actually I masturbate myself to get rid of orgasm but I need to have sex with my girlfriend. She's virgin, meaning I've never had vaginal sex with her but blowjob, hand-job realised, I cummed her face, tits and her belly. There were nice and we'd received pleasure and felt in orgasm so much... But the fact is that I want to have sex via vaginal orgasm so I'll use condom because I don't believe in accuracy of pills and b-control tablets. Condom sounds the best contraceptive method of all. Besides, she's not ready to get pregnant so we should provide ultra safety. But the problem is deficiency of orgasm during the sex with condom. Is anyone here who had tried sex with condom? Girl or guy there's no matter, did you be satisfied to wear condom? What do girls usually feel when a guy penetrates with condom? Do girls feel guy's cum as the condom on? Please give me some ideas and knowledges about condoms and give me the best condom brand... I will try according your ideas... Thanks...
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Is she ready to have sex? I don't know if unrestrained sexual tension and virginity ho well together. Virginia sex is the opposite if unrestrained. You have to be supremely restrained bc it's very painful for her even when you are gentle. You realize sec won't feel good for her for quite a while and her orgadmibv from vaginal penetration is hugely unlikely ATM also probably not going to be remotely a priority.

    I know this isn't what you ate asking about but I just wanted to make sure you get that the way you are feeling hs not going to be relieved by the kind of sex you'll have to have for the next period if time until her busy adjusts to having a foreign object in it.

    Also just b. you're super horny doesn't mean she's ready.

    Maybe you talked it over and she's ready it's just you never mentioned anything other thsn your own feelings so though if mention hers.

    Havinv drx bc of One person wanting sex isn't the best ingredient for good sex if healthy relationship.

    Virgin sex plus inability to control yourself will also affect both sex and relationship quite negatively.

    I rounding stay with a guy who'd hurt me physically just bc he's hot by when I'm already getting him off whenever he wants.

    She's the virgin not you. She should say when you have sex- not you. . Of course you want sex that's a given. its also a given you won't be the one in pain.

    does she want sex?

    Can you be gentle?

    Consider these things first.

  • I don't like the texture of condoms, it feels weird and uncomfortable. If you want to keep the sensations, just get extra thin ones.

    Seeing as me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time, I have opted into getting Nexplanon. It has 0.05% failure rate, so it trumps condoms in both efficiency and convenience. You can believe whatever you want, but you can't argue against facts and the implant is currently THE most effective birth control in the world.

    Though it won't protect you from STDs and such, so you need to make sure you know your partner well enough, before switching from rubbers to birth control.

    • Hmmm I heard nexplanon first... Is it type of contraceptive? Yes I should use thin condoms but it doesn't keep our sensation and warmth during the sex. I had tried Durex Pleasuremax and elite models before but I didn't like their performence... Can you suggest the thinnest condom brand? and explain Nexplanon?

    • I can't suggest any brands as I haven't used condoms all that often in general. We used to have glow in the dark ones just for laughs.

      Nexplanon is an implant that is inserted into a girl's (usually) left arm and it stays there for 3 years preventing pregnancy. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nexplanon

      I've had it for 2 years now, never had to worry about getting pregnant since I had it inserted as it starts working straight away.

    • Does this prevent pregnancy or terminate the fetus before it can develop? I'm pro life so I was curious because this sounds great

  • Have you guys had anal? I do anal without a condom (if I know the guy's clean) so that he gets similar pleasure and can release inside me without the condom. I know it's a bit weird of an idea, but I'm a virgin too, so I feel that's my most accurate alternative.

  • This is something you need to talk to your partner about.
    Personally I find it sexy when a man mentions using a condom because it shows he cares about us and me not getting pregnant!
    For me it's protected sex or No sex, unless we want a baby.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Any method is only as good as it's users. If you want maximum safety, use two methods at once: BC (pill or patch or injection or implant or Nuvaring, IUD) AND condom. Don't mix two hormonal methods, of course.
    Keep plan B in the house. It might be difficult to buy on a long weekend and accidents happen on Friday evenings too.

  • You still feel penetrating when you wear the condom as a guy, you just don't feel the wetness that comes from your girlfriend. When you cum, you might also find holding the condom and pulling out much more effective than cumming, because the pressurized air bubble of the condom may burst.

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  • A condom doesn't bother me, however my boyfriend said it's like having a shower with your clothes on... Hope this helps

    • good description from him I like it :) does he wear condom?

  • If she's your girlfriend you won't use condom at all. These are not your problems. She's either go on pill or she'll ask you to cum out of her. But condom Wil not be used

  • Condoms ruin the moment for me , by the time he's put it on I don't want sex anymore

  • I can't speak for all girls, but personally, i hate condoms.. i like the skin to skin contact of raw sex... it's much more intimate

    • yeah but thin condoms can do this. At least you are fully protected.

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