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What does it mean when a guy rubs his boner on you?

So i have this guy friend, and i recently told him i liked him. well we hung out since and he doesn't act weird just more I don't know lovey? and we were holding hands and then we started cuddling the position i was in i could feel his boner. We werent spooning , but i was laying on his chest. When i got up and went into my room and he follows me and comes up behind me and wraps his arms around me while i check my phone and he like pressed his boner in my back. then i turn around and start to walk out of my room and he just stops and hugs me, and i could feel his boner again and we just stand there and hug for a long long time. after he done that he done it several times more (hugging me) with an erection. once i didn't say anything but i could like feel him rubbing it on me? i dont know what this means or what i should do if it happens again! thanks
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  • of course it means he finds you attractive and is interested in having his boner taken care of but at the same time he is hesitant of speaking it and is giving physical hints. he is afraid that it might spoil the relationship you have. if you are interested you can reciprocate and if not just convey it to him in the same manner without speaking it, he will understand. taking care of his boner doesn't imply having sex straight away, u can let him rub it or give a blowjob/handjob/footjob so his tension is relieved. hugging, touching caressing or rubbing is a common way of showing affection by men to women he is attracted to and likes.

  • I am not sure I understand what you are asking here. It is plain he finds you attractive and wants to have sex with you. If it is something you are ok with them show him its ok with you. There are a lot of ways to do this, some are direct and others are suttle. Are you asking how to let him know you are ok with it? And if you do not want to have sex with him, there are ways to let him know this too. But first off I would reccomend not teasing him anymore by laying on him and things. Are you asking how to tell him no without hurting the closeness? If you could clearify I am sure we could help out a little better.

    • I've never teased him, he always have initiated the cuddling or holding hands, he pulls me closer and always make the first move.. I understood that it means that he is sexually attracted to me, but he's a virgin and i guess knowing the type of person he was i never really though of it that way. l mean i dont know i guess i didn't put much thought into it.

    • I am sorry I didn't mean to imply you were a tease. I was trying to point out that he may be feeling you want him but not willing to follow through is all.

    • You stated he is a virgin. The question would be are you also a virgin (no you do not need to ask that). If the answer is yes then and you do like him but you are not ready for that type of commitment then you need to sit down and have a conversation with him on the direction you see your relationship going and whether or not your are ready to take that next step. However if you are not a virgin and you are also attracted to him, then he is probably shy to a point. He is trying to let you know as discreet as he can that he is wanting to be with you. However he may not be willing to be more dominant about it for fear of rejection since he is a virgin. So he is trying to let you make that final decision on whether or not to take your relationship to a more intimate level.

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  • He definitely wants to have sex with you. If you dont like it tell him.

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  • He wants to have sex with you... plain and simple here.

  • It means he is a crass, crude, morally devoid pervert.

  • You should drop to your knees and worship his cock! Duh! He wants a piece of ass!

  • maybe he just wanna hug you? boner happens to guys and it's hard conceal it especially when hugging. maybe it wasn't intentional

  • He is hoping you'll do something about it. That way, if nothing happens, he didn't make a move and get rejected. He's putting the "ball" in your court to make it happen. If you are ok with it, don't do anything. I'm guessing, though, that you are not ok with it. If you have no interest in him, you can tell him you're just friends and you like things the way they are, and what he is doing is making it awkward for you.

  • He obviously wants to have sex with you, but if you don't like him then kick him in his dick and tell him to piss off, if you do like him, kick him in his dick and tell him that if he wants to get with you he needs to show how much he cares about you

  • He wants sex with you but if he's just friend that means he is sexually harassing you

  • He could have a rare condition called boneritis. It requires some fast firm friction along the shaft to release the impending pressure. If not treated it has known men to do crazy things. If you care about him you will help him avoid this dangerous condition.

    On a serious note - do you really not know what this means? I mean c'mon.

  • He wants to bump uglies, obvz.

  • He wanted to stick that boner in you.

  • obviously he is attractived to u. Maybe he thought he was gonna get sum or showing u he wanted sum

  • Probably that he wants to bone u

  • it means he wonbt oyu

  • I usually only do that when I'm in the shower some times

  • He wants to do nasty things to your body.

  • I don't know

  • That he wants that boner inside you.

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