Hmm, not sure if it's the safest alternative to sex, but it is an option.
HPV and herpes can still be contracted this way... I'd imagine the likelihood may even be higher than intercourse, since they're spread by skin to skin contact.
Also, it's not something I'd recommend to just anyone because a lot of guys are going to really push to penetrate (instinctively?) in that situation and you'd have to really trust your partner if you were avoiding sex.0 0 0 0Actually. My research suggests you can only get sexually transmitted diseases from those kind of way's by intercourse. Though Herpes, I think you can still get IF the person is infected. but let's face it, A LOT OF DISEASES you can STILL get if you have it with any sort of contact. And that'st rue at the end. Very very true. Most guy's have no self-control (Thankfully I do. I can still say NO to any sexual relationships if I don't want one. Especially if someone tries to make me cheat on my girlfriend).
I used to do it with my ex. He would rub his penis just like he would thrust me during sex. Alternating pace and speed. It felt great to us! We used to do it in 2 positions. I would be laying down and wrapping his waist with my legs, or I would be on top. We came by just doing that couple of times.
0 0 0 0Nice. All depends on position mostly huh? XD. Yeah. I'm waiting for marriage for Sex. People tell me often it's overrated (The one's that do it) so it's like "I might as well wait I don't miss out on much."
I've let my guy do that a couple of times when I'm way too tired for sex, gotta be up way too early for work, and he's way too horny to sleep.
I can just chill out, and he gets his pleasure.
It doesn't feel all that to me. Not what you describe anyways, I don't know maybe he does it wrong.0 0 0 0There's time's Guy's suck at that stuff trust me on that bit. It takes guys A WHILE to learn how to do this stuff.
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I just tried googling this and got, like dry humping except in the shower? Is this what you are referring to?
0 0 0 0No Wet Humping is when you rub your Penis on a girl's Vagina (Vaginal Lip's.
Without actual penetration? I love it, but haven't had the pleasure of doing it too often. For either me or the girl, the excitement of the penis being that close to the vagina is too much and we just stick it in.
Oh. Eh. Well when you're adamant about NOT losing your Virginity until after Marriage you can wait pretty well. And I take it it feels really good then? I never did it hard so I really am curious about it.
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5 0Nope. Sperm will do whatever it takes to complete it's mission of finding an egg.
And I'm not getting pregnant if i was i might as well just have actual sex.0 1 0 0Eh. I'll stick to Wet Humping. I want to stay a Virgin until Marriage.
But what if you get her pregnant? You and your gf will be the only ones that know or believe you never actually had sex before. Dry humping is your best/safest bet.
Wet Humping feels amazingly better. But if the Guy is careful or the girl tells the guy she doesn't want to get pregnant (Nor lose her Virginity), then yes... They'd be careful about where they Cum on each other.
I suggest using a condom while doing that...
0 0 0 0Uhhhmm... What's the point of it then? That'd ruin the feeling a bit.
I am sorry but, if you feel you are responsable enough to do any sexual thing... then be responsable enough to use protection.
Why need protection if you aren't even having sex? Let alone even attempting to cum in her of any sort?
... or we could just have sex...
0 1 0 0Nah.
My BF has recently started to do this a lot more... the first time it happened I was sort of confused... I didn't understand why he was doing it... for me it didn't really feel good... was just ok... not really any feeling at all.
0 0 0 0Huh... Strange. Was he doing it hard at all?
You mean was his penis erect? Yes... it was the whole time... maybe he was getting something from it... I wasn't though
No no no. I mean was he rubbing really hard?
It feels good but there's a possibility of pregnancy
0 0 0 0Well not really... Even if he Cum's on the Vagina, it won't happen. It CAN NOT just get in like that. He has to cum inside for it to do anything.
It's hard to avoid the tip getting in. My boyfriend and I were doing this and the tip was in like half an inch and he didn't cum but I stil got worried of precum
Precum can't cause Pregnancy it has no Sperm. Precum is called Semen btw. But anyway's... Wet Humping ISN'T putting it in anyway at all... It's just rubbing it. Across the penis... Not the other way. Wet Humping feels best to a guy, though, when the girl is on top... Because then she can rub it on his G-Spot. At the same time, a girl get's her's rubbed too.
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