Really strong gag reflex, deal breaker? How to make it weaker?

I have a REALLY strong gag reflex. I can't put my finger more than an inch into my mouth without struggling and/or gagging. And Im scared I won't be able to go down on my boyfriend when we get to that and he'll break up with me or something.. Just the thought of putting something far into my mouth makes my throat uncomfortable. Can you suppress your gag reflex? Make it weaker?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Are you completely stupid. Something you feel THAT uncomfortable with and even thinking about, buy you'll do it anyway to keep your man? LMAO!!! This is fuckin hilarious. Can you imagine what you're gonna end up doing when he ends up meeting somebody who fucks better sucks better looks better etc... Cos he clearly doesn't love you or even like you all that much.

    Lmao, the biggest joke is, you won't even know him in a few years and he'll be telling stories about this good girl he had who did things she hated just for him lmao... What's he doing to keep you? I see you panicking over keeping him, what does he do extra for you? Ohhh yea, he let's you lick the lollipop! :p

  • You don't have to deep throat him to make it pleasurable when going a blowjob. Focus on the head and licking the shaft and use your hands on the parts of his cock you can't get into your mouth

  • You sound just like me. I can't dp or swallow but my bf has no complaints about bj's I give him

Most Helpful Guys

  • Talk to your boyfriend about this, Be wise. Do you really want a guy who would force you to do this even when he knows that it will hurt you? Talk to him. Trust me :) And did you know that guys actually think of those girls who refuse to that as classy and as much as no one would admit it, they'd never tell the girl to do it, it will happen only if SHE wants to. The BJ i mean. I hope this helped. Make good choices :)

  • You can train it a little bit by trying to empty your mind and trying that again instead. If you do it real slowly it helps too. But it helps adjust for a less-responsive one. And why do you want to go 'Down on your Boyfriend'? All honesty, Sex is really overrated.

    • I want to pleasure him like he pleasures me. Yaknow, to be fair.. and doing something good.

    • Eh... I found Wet Humping give's more pleasure to both side's better than Sex ever could.

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  • If it's a real relationship, it should not be a big deal just because you can't suck his c0ck. There are plenty of other things to do.

  • You poor thing, when you get older and you want to practice that's for you to decide. But this shit with you feeling forced, is not ok. It's not a deal breaker.

  • Get a banana and stick it down your throat, if your boyfriend breaks up with you because you won't suck his dick then his is a twat.

  • all it takes is practice and an interest in succeeding. If I were you I would start with bananas. Swallow larger and larger 'chunks' of them at a time, then try sticking the whole thing down your throat and pulling it back out. WARNING: before you attempt this be sure to take a DEEP breath and hold it. That way if it goes 'down the wrong tube' you can easily cough it back out.

  • The important thing is for both of you to be honest in your relationship. My gf has the same problem. If he really cares about you, the two of you will find a way to work around it. While, if you really want to, you can learn to relax your gag reflex, he should also be understanding of how this affects you.

  • You shouldn't be doing that under 18 anyway