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Gave my girlfriend the BELT!!! To keep her in check. Now she says she respects me more?

Me n my girlfriend got into an argument, n I lost my cool n took off my belt n turned her over, pulled down her pants n went crazy!!! I don't know why, but suddenly seeing her Ass n hearing her say she's sorry got me in the mood. So I started giving her the doggy style n she was Cumming like crazy. I regret losing my cool, but my girlfriend told me she's glad I lost it n wish I would do it more often when she misbehave. Why did she like what I did? Is something wrong with her?
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  • Obviously some girls get turned on by that... it's part of like BDSM fantasies and rough play. But that doesn't mean she condones things like abuse so keep that in mind. There's obviously a fine line between what is pleasurable in the moment and in general. There was likely also a surprise factor to it which excited her. Like you doing something totally unexpected to her. However there's a point where it might not be so exciting for her anymore like you starting to hit her or do other violent acts. Best to just talk about what is OK and what not otherwise you might risk losing her. If a bf goes too far and starts doing abusive things to me then I'd be out and will probably get him arrested cause it's not OK.

  • well, firstly, I don't think it's cool to beat someone without their consent, but secondly, it just sounds like you both found something that you enjoy... run with it, I bet you have sooooo much fun finding out what else gets you this excited. My boyfriend spanks me with his belt, over his knee, it drives me crazy!

  • Definitely not. Some girls, myself included, like things like that... It shows you're dominant.. HOWEVER, even though the kinky stuff like that is great, there IS a boundary between kinky and abuse.. Talk to HER if you want to know what her boundaries are in that aspect..

    • Why do girls like dominant men?

    • it makes them feel desired, very very desired. You want us so much you can't control yourself, also, you know what you want and have a strong mind and know how to both take and give in equal measure.

    • It kind of depends on the person a bit... I like it because for a long time it was the only "love" I was ever shown by partners... but... in all honesty, it's just REALLY attractive to a lot of women.

  • you sound like a lunatic. she's clearly into rough sex and dominance, so good for her. but don't abuse her when you're angry. if you guys are having sex then go ahead and do it rough, out of love. but not out of anger.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You got lucky. Sometimes you shock a chick in the right way. She saw the man in you and came from it. Just don't try it again for awhile. Now you gotta show her the sensual lover when she doesn't expect it. After that get's old try this one. One day come in from work and say hi honey I'm home. Walk right up to her grab her and rip her shirt off and suck the shikaboobs out of those boobies. Pick her up throw her on the couch and get in there and give her some mean spread eagle missionary... slow and hard. Be aware through she will either call you big daddy for a week or knee you in the nuts.

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  • of course not she just likes it kinky! ;)

    • Kinky? But I was so angry. Felt like I was in a trance

    • yeah well maybe she likes knowing that her man knows how to take control

    • a guy taking control is a turn on for women? why?

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  • Some chicks are into that. I personally would have punched you in the dick and spat on you on my way out the door.

    • Not before I gave u the good ol one two combo with the belt ;) c this is the problem. Girls think they can get away with murder. Someone has to hold u girls accountable

    • hahahaahaahahhaah omg whatta legend

  • she likes being dominated

  • Cave man you, sounds like she is into domination. Something wrong with her, I don't think so. It is just her thing I reckon :)

  • Idk. I wouldn't like that. I'd probably call the police.

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    cool fantasy tho

  • Is something wrong with YOU? There is nothing normal about this situation! Why anyone gets off on being hit or hurt, or doing the hurt is beyond me. Violence & sex, can you say variables of rape!

    • he shouldn't have done it without asking and he shouldn't have done it out of anger, but just mixing sex and spanking is definitely not rape.

    • Getting angry with a girl then using violence is a variable of how rape begins to grow in the mind of the attacker. They get off on the sexual and powerful feelings. I said it was a variable of rape; And it is.

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