Girls, have you ever done a more extreme / long term experiment in bdsm or power exchange?

[Anonymous]

A few months ago, a close friend of mine became my sex slave for a fewweeks before she moved out of state. Since she was moving anyway, she gave up her job and apartment and moved in with me. I took possession of all of her stuff and locked it away. I put a collar on her, and she slept on the ground in my walk-in closet. She never referred to me by name, just "Master". I varied between calling her Pet and Toy. We took care of each other. We both cooked, although she did more cooking and I designed meal plans around optimal nutrition. I gave her an exercise and fitness regimen to follow. The one time she deviated from it, I punished her with a caning and didn't fuck her for 2 days. No problems ever again. We had some wild sex. She was expected to be totally obedient unless she was in genuine psychological distress. We didn't have a safe word, I just paid attention to her and backed off if she needed it. Only happened once or twice. We did lots of long term (several hours) bondage sessions, very long blowjobs, one lasting about 4 hours. Even after I came, she kept my cock in her mouth and gently sucked until I was hard again. Rules were strict and we both adhered to them. I set one time that she couldn't walk in my house, only crawl, unless otherwise specified. She broke this a few times, and even when I didn't care or want to, I punished her, so that she could have the experience of a consistent master that she could rely upon to do what he said he would. Does that idea appeal to a lot of women? How many if you have had the good fortune of trying it?

[prettylittlemynx]

While I would definitely love an experience like this, I wouldn't want it for so long. My master usually dominates me every night and through every morning, but then we'd have to break out and back into our every day lives. I personally think it's more fun if we break it into bursts so the fun will contrast with the norms our work and social routines. Sex and kinks are a lot of fun but I wouldn't want them to be everything. The most I could do is 3 nights 2 days straight, but then I would need a reality check.

[CandyandPinkCats]

Would you let her do vice versa? Also, I wouldn't do this because I hate pain.

[Carveredlund]

couldn't do it for so long and would need a safe word

[Asker]

Yea, it was kind of pushing it for me, as well. Like... a weekend vacation or soon meeting would be ideal. We just wanted to try taking it really far and see how it unfolded.

[Plato]

Well, that was one of the most interesting Question's I've ever read. Though, I don't think I will ever get enjoyment from women being degraded as sex slaves. It just doesn't make me feel better, I mean, as a kid perhaps, but now, I don't even give a shit what people think about me, so I guess it was just an insecurity - I know I'm my own master, so I guess I have had to fortune of keeping my vices in check, though nothing sexual.

[Asker]

It wasn't even really degrading. It was about me having choice and her complying. It was about both of us taking care of each other in specific ways. There was no animosity. It was a team effort. It's just that I was the captain of the team, and it was my job to keep order. ;)

[Plato]

I know it was consensual, I meant degrading by a different light, you weren't being a bad guy, but it's not the kind of relationship I would feel good about.

[ldrccarter]

i want to try it! i loveee being dominated! but my heritage kinda has a past like that... so i wouldn't want to call you master and nothing referring to race.

[Anonymous]

Wow! Where are the feminists? A woman who respects herself would never do this.

[Asker]

You may respect yourself and never do this, but you're not everyone. I wouldn't universalize your own values, it damages your ability to understand and relate to others.

[ldrccarter]

psh I respect myself this just seems fun;)

[Opinion Owner]

I can easily relate to others. Most people who do this had traumatic experiences as childs. We all know this is in not normal deep inside but some people are such idiots and do this stuff to seem open-minded eventhough they are not really mazochists nor sadists.

[Asker]

The trauma thing is a common misconception, but it isn't at all true. Humans are evolved creatures, and tbh, nearly all of us are descendants of people who conquered and raped others. Violent sex, hierarchical control, and so on are all part of our collective history. Obviously, we don't want to go back to those roots, but that doesn't mean those impulses went away. It just means we turn them into a consensual form of play.

[Opinion Owner]

I have to disagree. Don't make it so complicated.