I don't think there's any need to "confront" her about it.
If I were you, I'd tell her that you want to talk, take her some place completely private, as assure her that her secret is safe with you, and that you will support her 100% and love her unconditionally.
You could also tell her that you were a little hurt that she didn't tell you before, but phrase it in a way that says "I just love you so much and I'd love for you to feel comfortable coming to me and talking to me, because I will always support you no matter what".
Whatever you do, don't shame her and don't berate her for not telling you. I'm sure she has reasons, and right now she probably just needs your support.0 2 0 1Thanks for MH! Good luck with this! :-)
just let it ride. your boyfriend needs yoj to help erase those images. but good lucvk on thst. .. but wow. i like this post
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There's no reason to confront her.
Don't make this about you. It's obviously something she wasn't comfortable talking about yet. Which has nothing to do with her trust in you.
She might be a lesbian, she might be bi, she might just be experimenting. Either way, until she's ready to express that, it's none of your business. Wait for her to be the one yo speak out first. She's probably feeling way more uncomfortable than you at the moment.1 2 0 1this is best answer I think
I think you are over reacting that's her business if she wants to talk about it wait until she is comfortable enough to come to you.
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4 6Support her, keep a sense of humor and rest should work itself out.
0 1 0 0I Dont thnk she's lesbian... she was probally... erm.. experimenting...
0 0 1 0Simple. Don't. There's no reason to "confront" her, is there? Then why do it?
0 1 0 0Your bf verbally: "wow I think your sister is a lesbian"
Your bf mentally: "wow, I'm about to fap to this memory later"
Whether you accept it or not, your sister is who she is. I suppose it's best to support her.0 2 0 0let your sister have her pleasure
0 0 0 1You don’t have any right to “ confront” her at all, her sexual partners are her business, miss nosey.
0 0 0 0She may be a lesbian or she may be just expierementing
1 1 0 0She's a lesbian
Nothing you can do about it0 0 0 0Tell her you are mad for not inviting you for the daisy chain
1 1 0 1maybe she is bisexual?
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