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How to convince my girlfriend to not have kids?

It's her lifelong dream to raise a family. But I don't want kids. The main reason is I need sex at least twice a day. I didn't lose my virginity until 20. So she has to help me make up for lost time. I also work a lot and enjoy travelling and going out on the weekend and my personal space and alone time. But I need sex that's her job as my girlfriend. Her vagina is my best friend and I need it everyday. I also have mental problems and don't want to run the risk of having a child born with them. How can I convince her not to have kids
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  • Yeah, it's not her JOB to have sex with you because you have some unfulfilled whatever early in life to "make up" for lost time. Seriously... not cool. And if she wants to have kids, that isn't going to go away, EVER. Doesn't matter how much you tell her that it's not a good idea, she wants them, she will eventually have them, either that or regret you because she never got the chance to be a Mom (i've seen it happen, complete bitterness, and that leads to... NO SEX, like, at all.) I can see that you may be nervous about your kids having problems, however, that's what genetic testing is for. You can talk with her, but you're not going to get her to change her mind. Stay with her and talk about it, or let her go so she can be with someone who wants kids as much as she does.

  • You sound like an awfully egocentric person and I hope you either change your perspective on relationships or that she breaks up with you. I mean, do you even care about her? It's her lifelong dream and you're denying her that for your own selfish reasons. It's normal not to want kids yet, but your reasons are stupid and very very selfish.

    • He really cares about that vagina though...

  • I wish I could meet her and tell her you're using her as a sex toy. You make her sound like an employee. wtf,"her job as a girlfriend" ? . Just tell her what you said in the description, I'm sure she won't be planning any more sex or children... with you. She deserves someone who doesn't want her only for a vagina.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Please don't have kids.. we don't need more mental retards like you in this world.

    #2 leave the girl so she can find a guy that WANTS what she also wants. You obviously are a sore loser who couldn't find a girl because you were a sorry ass loser with no respect for women. You lucked out and I hope now you get your ass handed to you!

    Peace out homie!

    • Word.

  • If u dont want kids , just pussy each day. U are hurting her feminine existance. How can u stop that lady from not having kids. Every girl dreams it. If u are mentally sick then are u sick for kids only. Amazing.. Ifeel u dont want to take responsibility of family. If such is the case better knock the door of some prostitute. Yours will have some other fit guy.

    • Not every woman does want kids, he should leave her and find one that doesn't and is prepared to be 'employed' as his girlfriend and sacrifice her vagina to him... guy's a jerk!

    • I agree with u. But u should understand the circumstances that asker has given. he wants to convince her girlfriend. that means his girlfriend wants kids.

    • Sorry, I was trying to agree with you but to make him aware that there is the possibility of meeting a woman who doesn't want children, there are quite a few of us out there!

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  • Leave her and her vagina, let her get on with her life and meet someone who isn't some sad loser who thinks she owes him her pussy. She doesn't owe you shit, sex twice a day 'because I missed out' well that isn't her problem, plenty of people don't lose their virginity until later on in life, much later than 20 too, so stop crying over that. You don't seem mature enough to be over 20, grow up and stop acting like a horny spoilt child.

  • Let me play you the song of my people.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TNHW2WJTU50

  • Uhhhh, you two sound wildly incompatible.
    And it is so not her "job" as your girlfriend, and she's under no obligation to have sex at all. The woman is not the useless skin that surrounds a vagina.
    I didn't lose my virginity until either, and I prefer to have sex twice a day too, but you know what? If fucking deal like an adult when I can't get it.

    • I* no if.

  • Yeah... you're not suited for each other. She should dump you. You sound like a real douche.

  • ok ur an asshole….

    'i need sex and thats her job as my girlfriend'? WHO THE FUCK DO U THINK U ARE?

    leave her man, seriously. she deserves so much better than u. spare her the misery and let her live her dreams, and u go to some place where u can live ur own sad one.

    how dare u objectify a woman like that. disgusting.

  • Break up with her because you don't deserve her. Good luck finding a girl who's willing to be your sex slave or whatever. You clearly have problems.

  • Find another girlfriend who wants the same things as you.
    Nothing bothers me more than when a guy or girl wants different thing in life than their partner and they think it's ok to try and convince the other person to change.
    This isn't deciding where to go out to dinner these are life decisions.
    Grow up and realize you two aren't compatible.

  • You're not likely to convince her of anything. Women run on hormones and chemicals, which makes them immune to logic. You can never change the way she "feels".

    • I know right, all of us women are just blubbering idiots who are incapable of thoughts or having goals in life, and who are just here to serve men until they toss us aside like trash. You really don't know how the brain works, right?

  • 1. Her job is not to give you sex
    2. She doesn't have to make up the sex you didn't get since you were virgin
    3. She is supposed to be your best friend, not her vagina

    4. You sound like dog
    5. You can't convince her not to have kids. You want different things in life so you should break up.

    And yeah you would be a bad father, you are already a bad boyfriend

    • Oooh, I wouldn't insult dogs by comparing them to this guy.

    • Yeah. That may have been too mean for dogs

  • First of all, it's not her job to be your cum bucket. Secondly, you have no right to take away her dream to raise a child jsut because you want to travel. Thirdly, just because you you have a child, does not mean your world will crash and burn.

    Grow the fuck up or stop dating her.

  • If you're dead-set against kids, and her lifelong dream is to have 'em, then it'll never work.

  • "I also have mental problems"

    Yeah, I can see that. I'm not even going to argue, this question has no human value to it at all. Congratulations. I hope you're just trolling.

  • I understand, because I don't want kids either. You'll probably have to break up with her and find someone who shares the same views.

  • why not be frank with her, tell her you're afraid of this risk.
    and you shouldn't date her just because you wanna have sex with her, that's very rude
    and why not tell her to wait a while while you decide. w8 4 a few years maybe say you wanna save up some money first

  • Find another gf.

    • You're trolling :)

  • dude its not her fault you were still virgin if its her dream to have a family do you really wanna ruin it. its her body aswell as yours she has a choice.

  • You shouldn't convince her of anything. She wants kids, you don't. You are completely incompatible for a long term relationship.

    I would say to go find a woman with a high sex drive who doesn't want kids, but it would be unfair to her, since you think that she would be OBLIGATED to have sex with you whenever you feel like it. That's just an unhealthy relationship for ANYONE.

  • It's not her job to have sex with you and you two shouldn't be together. If it's her lifelong dream to have children why do you want to take that away from her? She needs to find a good man that wants to have a family and you need to just not procreate.

  • This post is screaming troll for attention. "I need sex, that's her job." If it's legit, she needs to just dump your psycho ass. It's very selfish to take away someones dream of having a family.

  • First of all she is not guilty if you didn't get laid early on, so don't use that as an excuse. You sound very selfish thinking about your needs only not hers. Now if you don't give her what she wants, she will find someone who would. Hope she does. Your mental problems don't excuse you from using her as a sexual object.

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