You can't move too fast up and down, he'll be fine.
Unless you pull the skin too high or too low and he sort of... bends. That can sting.
Hard and fast is the best way to go, but what you need to understand is that if you slow down, he loses that excitement. So think of it like a marathon - you could start of sprinting, but if you run out of stamina half way through he's going to get bored, so you need to pace yourself.
And you need to grip just enough to hold him comfortably. Don't squeeze. I think this is something some girls do when they get carried away and go really fast.
Is hope this is useful.
To add to what I said about pacing - Start at whichever speed you like, but the rule is that you can only speed up. You can't slow down unless you're deliberately trying to prolong the experience.
Thanks for the tip. That's interesting, I didn't know that. Sometimes I switch up the pace to make things more interesting - fast, slow, fast, slow.. But I don't want him to be bored.
You're welcome. 'Bored' may have been the wrong word. He'll still be having fun, I just mean if you were aiming for him to cum, you're losing progress. It's hard to describe.
the penis is very senisitive and wi get tender as you go. make sure it is lubricated with lotion or better yet your saliva. ask him if he wants a tighter or looser grip as well. He will let you know. . some times i like it in fast rythem up and down other times nice an slow. pay most attention to stroking the head.
if you really want to drive hi. m crazy. after he cumms continue stroking him. but this time use is cumm as lube. and ho reay slow and stroke his shaft and head.. do this gently tho he is in limbo and really sensitive..
Thanks for the tips. Can guys still feel sexual pleasure *after* orgasm?
oh hell yes. re read the part after yo make him cumm. :). oh and your welcum
definitely play with his balls during and after. just be gentle
A definite indicator of your grip being too hard is when he starts cumming but nothing's coming out...
On a more serious note, you should definitely not use all your strength. Try to use more of a sensual kind of grip.
If his dick pops... I would be concerned at that point.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!As hard as possible is probably not the best way to go about it. Just make sure your palm and fingers have a good grip on the outer skin below the head, squeeze relatively hard to maintain that grip, then stroke it up and down. Either find a nice flow (ask him what feels nice) or pretend it's an air pump and you're trying to pump air into a balloon as fast as possible.
It can hurt if over done. One girl was practically trying to create sparks with the amount of friction. Gentle, slow and teasing can be good and can create more powerful orgasms.
When I was uncircumcised I liked it fast and a tight grip using the foreskin.
Since circumcision with lube tight and fast does feel best.
Without lube needs to be loose enough hand can slide over the glans. Just. And fairly fast is good.
Why did you get circumcised? I heard it decreases sexual pleasure for guys...
some women think they can hurt the penis. honest, unless you are a body builder you an grab it and squeeze as hard as you can and your not likely to hurt the main guy. it is the 2 little friends that can be hurt. he will usually tell you faster or slower. usually at the end you want to go faster ad make sure your stroking the tip mostly since the shaft has little to do with it...
Ya exactly. Man feels aroused when a girl or woman strokes his penis. Dont do it hard and fast do it slow. ur touch is enough to make his penis stand to salute your pussy. When it is erect. just open ur legs and start rubbing penis on ur labia (pussy lips ). Rest leave on the RAT (penis ) . It is expert in finding holes. U will be fucked nicely so that u will be satisfied.
hard and fast at the end is good, yes. Your having small hands shouldn't matter. And don't forget to play with his balls.
I never know what to do with the balls.. lol. I just rub them slightly.. I'm scared of hurting them. How do guys like their balls to be played with?
They're not THAT fragile. Gentle massage is good, and rolling them back and forth between your fingers is great too. Cupping both of them in your hand and just gently closing your hand on them is good, and what I really like is when a girl takes one and gently tugs downward on it, away from the body.
When she snaps the banjo string and blood gushes everywhere.
It won't hurt him harder is better
its always painful we just do it for you
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