How do you blow a BJ? What makes it a bad one?

[AlwaysBeCurious]

OK, there are a lot of information about things to try during a blow job and I will list my research below, but on occasion guys mentioned bad BJs. What makes a BJ bad? Summary of what makes a BJ good (according to research and experience). The BJ giver should: (in no particular order) - enjoy it - go slow, build anticipation - slobber a little - softly play (using your tongue) with the hole at the end of penis - play with the ridge at bottom of the head of the penis - if you can't take the whole penis in you mouth the put your tongue to the top of your palate and you hand around the base of his penis - it'll feel like you are way deeper than you are - use your body, wriggle, let him play with your nipples / clit - set yourself up that he can see you in a mirror - be naked - lick (everything) - pay attention to his balls & ball sack, massage, lick, suck, tickle - trace his penis down to where it disappear into his body just above his anus - lick the spot between his balls and penis - lick the spot between his balls and anus - put his balls (one or both) in your mouth, twirl it around with your tongue - massage / play with his balls with your hands / fingers - rub his balls and own is with your face (like a cat) - don't be afraid to gag - don't hide it if your eyes and nose gets runny - swallow what you can handle - enjoy the taste of his pre-cum (it's like sweet nectar) - enjoy the taste of his cum (taste slightly salty) - change the shape of your tongue (flat, enquiring, hard, soft) - some guys like more pressure than others, experiment! - pull his balls away from his body - look him in the eyes - COVER YOUR TEETH! - lie on the bed, drop your head off the side, put your head back, straighten your throat, his penis can go all the way in this way, and he will have a great few and access to your body - take your time - this could just be play, he needs not climax - have fun, let him know you are having fun - anytime is a good BJ

[Orion1084]

Well, just speaking from personal experience, a blowjob can he considered "bad" through something that is no fault of the girl.

I have the (mis) fortune of a large girth, and so it's generally difficult for a girl to give me a proper blowjob, as it requires them to open their jaw quite wide in order to take me. I know, from conversations, that it can put a strain on their jaw to do so, to the point where it is uncomfortable, or even painful for them.

Sex (and blowjobs) are supposed to be fun and enjoyable, and the knowledge that I am causing pain/discomfort pretty much kills any enjoyment that I might otherwise get from oral sex. If it's difficult for a girl to give me oral, then I'd just as soon not get some at all. There are plenty of other ways for her to stimulate me, if she is so inclined, and I'd take a handjob over a blowjob if it spares her unneccesary discomfort.

Most of the time, when a girl decides to go down on me, they just lick it, or play with just the head, which I am perfectly fine with. As soon as they try to take it in their mouth, though, I get apprehensive, because I don't want to hurt her. If she looks like she's struggling, that's pretty much an instant mood killer for me.

That would pretty much be my definition of a bad blowjob.

[witzelsucht]

What a lucky guy you have! Some things in the list repel me, for example the salivary parts. If you want lubrication in that area olive oil would do better, in my opinion. I think you could develop your own style by focusing on the penis at hand. When your guy responds to a certain caress, make a mental note to repeat that movement often. You can try lip locking around the coronal sulcus, sucking hard then soft, vary the rhythm like five hard and fast sucks followed by 10 slow ones, and so on. Experiment with everything, though, and try to observe and rate his response, then go with that. He would have a "bespoke" blowjob, that is, one tailor-made for him, and so would be at least briefly the happiest guy on the planet. Finally, if you do it too well you will of course end up masturbating as he recovers.

[iscream4icecream]

What is the coronal sulcus? Is that the ridge that goes around the penis head?

[witzelsucht]

That's right. Create a suction there. The most sensitive part of the penis, where most nerve endings are, lies in that first 1 or 2 inches under the glans penis, or the knob. Don't worry, though, there are no bad blow jobs unless you bite or scrape with your teeth, which scares hell out of me, but which some dudes on GaG state they enjoy. So preferences vary. Here, at least, experience is the best teacher.

[TadCurious]

This should be required reading for. . . something. Make it part of the Common Core.

[Anonymous]

good list. just enjoy your self, don't hurt his head, don't forget his balls and do not stop at first spurt of cum and that's it

[Anonymous]

teeth scraping and not sucking make them bad.