I am a guy that masterbates whenever I'm horny and now I'm doing it over my friend (girl)?

I am this girls best friend and she is mine and now I know for a simple fact on her but she has a bf. I masterbate when I'm horny and now I can't help myself think of her when I do! I think of her rubbing her wet clit over me and having an orgasm from masterbating. I don't know why I think of this but I do and it turns me on so much. It makes me feel bad that I think of her like this but like I said I just can't stop. My question is do I need help? Should I threaten our amazing friendship and tell her? Or should I just carry on? Which by the way I doubt is a good idea!
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I would just like to say, thanks for your help but It will no longer be needed. She dumped her ex bf and when we were watching netflix at hers I went for it and made my move! I no longer need to masterbate over her when I can masterbate OVER her! :3
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  • Dude you just cracked me up with this one. I think your plight here is funny as hell.

    " My question is do I need help?" -

    Yeah, help gettin' laid. Heheh.

    "Or should I just carry on?" -

    Dude as long as you can keep it to yourself and don't tell ANYONE then your fine. What you are experiencing couldn't be more natural if it had to be. However, it might be a good idea to throw some p*rn in the mix there or fantasize about other females.

    The more you do this the more you'll become attached to the idea of sexually fantasizing about this girl. And that's okay, but eventually it will drive you crazy-if it hasn't already- to be around this girl and not be physical with her.

    • Well like I said we are BEST friends. We have been since we were very young and I have never felt this way towards her especially. I see her in her underwear when she wants to know if it looks okay on her and we are super comfortable around each other. Just today I went to accompany her when she was shopping for a new bikini. When we got back to hers she showed me it on her and I got a major boner but luckily I managed to hide it well enough! I just don't want that stuff to carry on

    • Now you're really crackin' me up asker. I'm gettin' a good a laugh outta this one. You're checkin' out this broad in biki and underwear-who happens to be your best friend- you're poppin' boners and you're not havin' sex with her. Ouch bro! This one hurts. I wouldn't wanna be in your shoes right now. Especially if you're not gettin' laid anywhere else. No offense, I'm sypathetic to your situation. I'm with Growstrong on this one, hopefully you get over it soon man. If not I wish you the best of luck just the same.

  • Fuck no. You're fine. Keep your mouth shut about it while she has a boyfriend. When they break up (and they most likely will), wait a little while and then make your move.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Every guy thinks about having sex with all of his females friends at one point. It's nature. Just don't get your lust mixed up in feelings. You want her sexually, that's it u don't want her relationship wise. So keep it on the down low and just hit her with a smirk 😏 when u see her (not creepy tho)

  • If you have feelings for her maybe don't tell her unless you're willing to put your friendship on the line. But if you don't and you simply just like to think of her when you masterbate there is no harm in telling her. If a guy told me that I think it would be the biggest compliment in the world.

  • Lol from a female perspective, that is weird and I would not tell her. At all.
    My boyfriend masterbates to me sometimes (Ex, pics of me etc). But that's the ONLY person I'm okay with having those thoughts and doing those things at the thought of me.

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  • nah its normal, you'll probs get ovr it after a month or so

  • Don't tell her, especially if she has a boyfriend.

  • Don't f***ing tell her.