Would you ever have oral sex on first date? Girl I went out with pressured me into going down on her and then returned the favour on our first date?

[Anonymous]

We've been flirting quite a bit recently on Facebook and in the street. The other day she texted asking to go to the movies which was basically our first date and when we came back she took me straight into her bedroom and asked me to go down on her which really shocked me. She was staring into my eyes and groping me so I felt incredibly pressurised into performing. I went down on her then she gave me a blow job in return. She told me she hasn't had any sexual relations in over a year which is why she wanted it so bad. She's also 6 years older than me and started working at my old high school when I was 17 so i sort of already knew her. I noticed her making a bit too much eye contact back then even. Well earlier today she texted me asking if I wanted to come over to watch a film tonight and 'stay over'. Do you think it's likely she will want/expect sex on the second date because I am nervous?

[truthbeknown]

That is a little quick, but as long as you both are comfortable I see no problem. It isn't like yesterday you two where complete strangers, you have known her for a while now. Like you said, she was horny for you and couldn't wait anymore. I would be flattered by that. If things are moving faster than you like, just tell her you really like her, last time was great and you want to do more, but just need some time to get more comfortable with each other. I am sure she will understand. She sounds like a fun sexual partner. Lucky you!

[Tractorbeam]

Take condoms with you. You're likely to need them.
I've never got oral on a first date. Sex yes, but not oral. That usuallly comes later.

[jessicarhv]

Yes, she will absolutely be expecting the same.

Honestly, it sounds like this has been some kind of fantasy thing for her, so I would be cautious... especially if you are feeling pressured to do these things. If you want to go over to try to just hang out but I have no doubt she will want the same.

Don't be afraid to let her know where your head is at. If you guys can go down on each other, you can be down to talk about it ;)

Be careful. Best wishes

[StrawberryCream]

I would never do anything sexual at all on a first date. Only kiss.

And yeah, she propably expects sex on a second date too but if you dont want, dont agree to it. Dont do anything you aren't ready for or aren't comfortable with

[stonedpisces]

Yes sounds like she's definetly expecting the D just like she was expecting u to eat her out and especially because she said 'stay over' I would suggest to not go if ur nervous and don't have a good vibe about it

[FourStar]

I dont go down on girls... ever

[MysteriousFlower]

Honestly? first date I would probably be a little dirty but no sex. I've never been on one yet, but I know myself well.
I would think you would of enjoyed it, if you feel nervous just don't go. Might as well have much fun as possible ;)

[elizamichale1]

Sure i wouldn't mind

[RebeccaSJ]

I had intercourse on a first date. Now he's my hubby.

[JennieF]

Yeah.