About sex... urgent?

[Anonymous]

Well I'm 17, a cute, bit taller than average height, quite smart and a bit shy girl. I've never have an official boyfriend I did a few flings before think I have kinda a commitment issue because I fall for people too fast and I fall out of love too fast. I just get bored easily and move on the next target. One thing I've always been interested in is sex, these days I've been watching p*rn too much like I'm questioning myself is it even healthy But nah I can't stop myself I've been thinking about sex almost all day everyday unless I'm reading or watching movies or writing. I never dated anyone at school because I'm kind of the unpopular crowd who reads too much/have my head off the clouds. So I meet guys outside school but next year will be my senior year so I don't think I could meet anyone new but I seriously crave for sex like I really wanna do it and feel like my youth is burning inside me and if I don't have it now feel like I'm wasting my body and youth and whatever God gave me. This sounds really desperate yeah but of course I won't lose to the hookups in the club however hot they might be, i really wanna have somebody I truly love and a steady boyfriend until I have sex, (or I'll regret for the rest of my life, that's what everyone says) but ugh I just don't find myself attracted to anybody this way before. The most I've felt was omg he's so hot/charismatic I wanna get him, then I get him and I dump him when i get bored. This sounds bitchy yeah but I just can't stand hanging out with someone for so long BUT I STILL WANNA HAVE SEX YEAH PLS HELP ME :D

[MaskofInsanity]

Well, on the plus side, you want to have sex for pleasure rather than to interest a guy or something like most girls your age.

However, you don't seem to care about guys feelings either. It sounds like it's not intentional, and I certainly know I've been guilty of playing with a heart or two, but I think you need to be aware of how you're effecting the people around you.

Do you masturbate? That may take the itch off if you want to wait for someone who really catches your attention and keeps you interested. Otherwise, if you want to sleep with someone, be responsible and make it clear to him that you don't want more.

[Asker]

uh well how do girls even masturbate? like do u stick fingers in your vag? -that sounds disgusting to me...

[MaskofInsanity]

Lol well you figure out what feels good for you. Usually it's just rubbing your clit until you reach climax. You can always explore the option of vibrators/etc as well. I had an awful sex life until I was able to pleasure myself and figure out what I do and don't like. If you can explore your body before another person does, it will be a lot more enjoyable in the long run (of course don't do anything you're not comfortable with, I'm merely giving you my opinion).

[Anonymous]

Just find a hot as fuck guy & have sex with him then you'll never regret it. I was in the same position you are in & I just hooked up with a guy I knew for a couple weeks good guy fucking sexy just not a guy I want a relationship with so were just friends with benefits now. (:

[Anonymous]

That's not how this works.

If I read you correctly, you want relationship sex, but you REALLY want sex.

The answer: Either you have the mental discipline and wait for your morals to apply, or you start hooking up.

It doesn't work both ways.

[Opinion Owner]

Mesofielde makes a decent point I'm afraid.

[Mesonfielde]

"The most I've felt was omg he's so hot/charismatic I wanna get him, then I get him and I dump him when i get bored."

I guess you're currently incapable of valuing a person for being a person and need to mature a bit. Good luck.