There're a few things that jump to mind: 1) He's got a little dominant and sexual sadist in him and it turned him on to know that his cock is so big it hurts, 2) he got so focused on what he was doing that he didn't process what he was hearing, or 3) he's a cad about sex.
#1 is only somewhat likely but there are those of us that are that way. I say that with confidence since I'm one of them. When a woman is highly aroused, her body releases endorphins that act as an anesthetic, turning what is usually negative pain into erotic pain, in which case ow is good. I know: it's convoluted but sex is never simple.
#2 is the most likely IMHO. He was feeling all The Man and having his way with his woman and went a little cave man on you.
#3 sounds unlikely given that you say he's considerate otherwise.
Talk to him about it.
Sounds like he is only concerned with getting himself off. I guess since you didn't tell him to stop, he thought he should keep going.
The secret to a good lover is the open communication between you two. Each of you should be telling, showing and teaching each other what is good.
Tell him either he pays attention to what you are telling him, or no more sex.
If you said "ow" a few times, you could have said it quietly and he didn't hear you. Maybe you say "ow" often during sex as part of your moaning noises, so he didn't think anything of it?
Were you persistent in the fact that you were hurting?
Guys are not blind, they can see if you're feeling discomfort or pain. You know you don't HAVE to let him finish, right? Consenting to sex is fine and dandy, but if you want to stop due to pain or whatever other reason, you're not obligated to let him dump his load in you before you address the problem.
Have you actually asked him to stop?
If you're in a pain and he keeps on going after you told him to stop, I think that very much warrants a punch. He's deliberately causing you pain, so punching him would be self defence.
He probably didn't take you seriously from the way you were saying it... he may have been underestimating the pain you were in, or figured you would get used to it or something. Whatever the case, if it happens again just speak up! Tell him to slow down and listen to you, and that you aren't enjoying yourself. I guess if you felt like it you could always establish a safe word as well.
Fuck that he did hear you shit. Guy's are always listening. And it's sex you're all up on each other he'd hear everything. He didn't care. Guy's act like they care to get some. That's what he did. Because if he did care he'd constantly be watching you & asking you 'are you alright'? Any guy who says otherwise is full of shit. Gtfo.
Fuck that He didn't hear you shit*
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!As some guys were saying, you must be more vocal during sex. If there is something that is hurting you, you have to speak up. There are a lot of girls that say "ow" but it means they are enjoying it. Weird, but true. He could have easily mistaken your "ow" as a pleasure "ow" and wanted to keep giving it to you. Next time just say "hey, this hurts" or "slow down baby". Anything will get him to ease the pressure he's giving you but nothing that will completely ruin the mode.
try saying Ouch! and looking at him, then saying That Hurt!. Ow and Oh can be very similar in the heat of the moment, my guy has been with me seven years and he still gets them mixed up sometimes!
Good coverup - "did I hurt you?" to self-satisfying behavior that trumps your pain
Either because he didn't hear you or he was being a selfish butt-face. Maybe be more stern about it the next time and tell him to adjust himself so he doesn't hurt you.
Selfish in bed like most guys, I know people are saying 'guys aren't telepathic'... but seriously who the hell doesn't know what 'Ow' means? I mean unless you indicate that you're into any kind of rough sex i'd take that as a sign it hurts.
um... because he wants to finish. Just say stop, not hope he will notice your oblique way of saying stop...
Giving him the benefit of the doubt here maybe he didn't realize that you wanted him to stop. Next time be a bit more aggressive with the "it hurts thing"! Unless he is quite the asshole I am sure he would instantly back off and also want you to enjoy the sex.
He probably had an idea of what you may have been saying. But really, do you want him to stop every 30 seconds because there's a chance something you indicated means you're in discomfort. Be a little more direct if you expect instant results.
Because, in that moment, all he cared about was busting his nut.
Because most guys are going to be like that unless you seriously just get up and be a bitch lol no offense. We're all little bastards like that, we enjoy inflicting some pain in the bedroom, it's like a dominance thing. If he keeps going and you don't want him to stop just wait till the retard is done, get dressed and leave.. like fast and he'll question himself then you can lecture him.. I got this text the first time me and my gf had sex and I was a little bit drunk.. so that's my opinion.
That's not cool at all. Swap "ow" for STOP. "That hurts."
Because you didn't indicate that you didn't like the pain. If you want people to respect you, you need to be a little less passive. Next time say "I don't like that, it hurts... please stop"
He probably didn't realize you were actually in pain. Sexuality is tricky. If it hurts, say so.
I would stop immediately and ask questions, even if orgasm was starting or in process. If I was already coming, I'd pull out and finish.
depends really,
Could have miss interpreted ow for oh?
He was close to cumming?
He is a d*ck
Next time tell him it hurts and to slow
He should be the one, you ask this question... He needs to know, that he hurt you and that it wasn't pleasurable for you. Sometimes in the heat of the moment his brain might be a bit distracted so maybe he understood "ohh" instead of "ow".
guys are no telepaths
You mew to say after his cum?
i've known a lot of boys who do this. self-proclaimed sadists...
Just use the word "stop". "Ow" could just mean 'you bumped something but it's fine now' or it could mean 'slow down' or 'try a slightly different position/angle' or it could mean 'let it get a bit wetter/more-well-lubed first' .. he probably just assumed that given you didn't say 'stop' that you didn't mean that he should stop.
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