I'm in a really awkward situation right now and I can't stop thinking about it. PLEASE HELP!?

[Anonymous]

Right. So my mums boyfriend has a nephew. He's 24 years old and he is GORGEOUS and when i mean gorgeous, i actually mean it, all the girls literally stare at him and start drooling everytime he walks past. he has a nice car, good job and is just the full package.. He can get any girl he wants. Literally. I'm only 17 and i always see him at like family bbqs and stuff (we're not related in any way) he always gives me this look, and we just have this sexual chemistry between us, he's always complimenting me etc, and playfully touches me whenever he gets the chance, So yeah a month ago i got a little drunk and a bbq and we ended up kissing, and his hands went up my skirt.. After, i went into the living room and he kept following me in and kept kissing me more, he was completely sober and i could tell he wanted to do this for ages. I told my mum and she told me if his uncle found out (my mums boyfriend) he would go mad! I haven't seen him since and we never text/message eachother. He doesn't really pop up first and neither do i.. I was a little infatuated with him at first but later on i found out he has an STD and also found out that he always has one night stands whilst he's had girlfriends, he's slept with like over 100 girls and he's cheated before and even worse he has like 6, 7 girls who he could take out for dinner then fuck them when they get home. He is literally the biggest player ever. I wasn't that surprised seeing as he's extremely attractive but now i feel like he only wants me for sex. He probably does. I dont know what to do or think. I'd never have sex with him now. If he tries kissing me again what do i say? And should i stay away from him? Or act as if us kissing has never happend? It would be really hard to resist though as he's so hot, and i'm seriously sexually attracted to him..

[MrTeddybear615]

Stay away. You biggest reason being he has an STD and you don't know what it is or if it's one that can't be cured. Second being you are 7 years younger than him. Be smart and don't allow yourself to be dragged into the drama he has revolving around him. If he shows up, keep your distance. Don't ever be anywhere near him along and if you are and he tries something, tell someone immediately. Don't get caught up and have your life ruined for a guy who apparently gives too shits about you.

[26ukdude]

You feel like he only wants you for sex, but you never mentioned anything about his personality or liking him for him, only his looks and material posessions which doesn't make you any better.

Yes he only wants you for sex, yes he will cheat if you start going out with him. He has an STD because 100 girls is a huge number to sleep with, leave him alone and move on, he is no good for you.

[Asker]

LOL don't even THINK about trying to say i only want him for his looks, and possesions, ofcourse i like his personality otherwise i wouldn't of been attracted to him at all. I mentioned that he has the 'full package' meaning he has good looks and a good personality. So fuck you. :)

[26ukdude]

yeh if you like, at least I dont have STD's

[Asker]

You're lucky loser because i dont have them either :D

[26ukdude]

actually you are under 18 so no, im not into that.

[kittykatg]

Just walk away or stay close to your moms boyfriend in situations that you feel might lead to him trying to get some. STDs suck and you definitely don't want one. If you avoid being alone with him you'll probably avoid ever having to talk about what happened and never have to tell him no directly. Also if he hasn't contacted you then yeah he just wants you for sex.

[Asker]

You're absolutely right. But i HAVE to be polite and at least say hi. It's just going to be so hard keeping distance now :( thankyou !

[kittykatg]

Trust me I understand. My mom was best friends with my attempted rapists mom, so I had to continue going to their house and making nice. By staying close to our parents though it significantly cut down on the number of times he'd try to attack me.

[Mark1998]

You're joking right? Of course you should stay away from him. You want to get an STD?

[BertMacklinFBI]

don't do anything with him! its so not worth the STD hahaa. just burn the bridge now!

[lovestolikit]

you have to ask !! tell him your not interested and to leave you alone , he's a walking std spreader and should be put down