What are girls supposed to do on bottom? During sex?

[Anonymous]

I try to touch him and run my hands through his hair and grab his butt and everything, but other than that what am I supposed to do? I feel like there's not much I can do since he's the one thrusting into me. Should I be trying to push up into him? Or tightening muscles? Or swiveling my hips? What's the best thing to do? Also when i'm on top what am I supposed to do? Do I just go up and down, cause I feel like that would get boring for them. Can I swivel my hips so i'm moving in circles or will that just hurt him?

[MrOracle]

So far, so good. The most important thing is that you are ENTHUSIASTIC and that he knows (because you are finding ways to communicate it to him) that you are enjoying what he's doing.

Things you can do:

- eye contact
- facial expressions
- nod your head
- make noise/dirty talk
- spread your legs wide for him
- thrust your hips up to him (even just a tiny bit as he thrusts in - it doesn't have to be huge)
- rub your hands on his chest, arms, back, butt, head/hair, etc.
- squeeze your vaginal muscles just after he thrusts/bottoms out, and relax as he thrusts in.
- and of course, HAVE BIG ORGASMS.

All of those things show participation and enthusiasm, and I cannot stress how important (and sexy) enthusiasm is for a guy. Guys' egos are really helped when they know they are sexually desired by their girl, and when they know they can please her.

[SomeOtherGuy]

You can actually use your legs in a number of ways. Wrap them around him to elevate your hips, which may alter how his penis thrusts into you. Or move your body around, or thrust upwards. You can use your hands to pleasure yourself, by grabbing your nipples, or guide him with your hands. Arch your back. Run your finger tips down his back, finger nails optional. Run your hands through his hair.

There's not a ton you can do, but there are a few things.

[Anonymous]

I push up my hips and grind into his motions as well as grab on his ass run my hands all over him you can even kiss his neck bite his ear lobe the more details to add the better it is both for you and him and on top just play around with it you can swivel and then alternate to grinding up and down and add running your nails down his chest talk dirty to him they love that like I said the more you do the more sensations the more turned on he will be just have fun with it.

[Outpost31]

Enjoy it. Do whatever comes naturally.

[Chany77]

thrust up & down I guess.