Guys/Girls: How many people have you hooked up with?

Question

Watched 'Clerks' at my bf's friend's house last night and the scene where the girl tells her man she's sucked 37 dicks (lol) lead to all of us in the room telling our number of partners. Mine was a little higher than everyone else's, I've been with 14 guys (like 19 if we're counting bjs too) and I'm 22 years old. 

I've been with 4 girls too, but he didn't care about that at all lol he wouldve been happier if I'd said 14 girls and 0 guys lol

My man has been like totally hung up on this ever since I told him. He's just playin, but he's refusing to believe that this isn't like some crazy number for girls my age. I know girls who have hooked up with more guys than me but he like refuses to believe this

witzelsucht · Accepted Answer

Only in a place where my identity is secret would I reveal my number: Over fifty. I have been fortunate to have good looks, personality, and verbal skills and lots of direct contact with women. But now I'm married and no longer play the game. Your story interested me in your unabashed willingness to reveal your number to your boyfriend, and now I wonder how much further down the road of romance you will travel with him because this is "too much information" and can lead to nothing positive. I am not not not saying quit having sex, which harms no one, is good for self-esteem, is good for health, and is lots of fun (always use a condom).

Let me say this, though, for practicality and without false morality or sermonizing.. Your sex life is no one's business but your own and should never be discussed with anyone. You should choose only partners who will never tell they bonked you.

ElHenaut · Accepted Answer

For a 22 year old 19 guys an 4 girls is a lot. Let's just assume you started having sex at 16. That means on average you have fucked 4 people each year for the past 6 years. That's a lot.

Jennielovesyou · Accepted Answer

I've hooked up with 6 guys and 2 girls after losing my virginity two years ago I just wished I found more guys I was willing to fuck cause it feels really good

MaskofInsanity · Accepted Answer

18. Pretty normal amount from what other girls around me have said. My SO has never asked and I've never asked him.

playdates · Accepted Answer

No, it's not a crazy number at all. To me, "the number" doesn't even matter to me.

YoIDoWhatIWantAight · Answer

Wow. Seriously you guys... I've only been with three. :( Oh well, sucks for me.

Anonymous · Answer

Zero, and my girlfriend will be my first when we get married. I had crippling insecurity over my size, which led me to be a bitter, angry loner for over half of my life.