Have some questions about my recent blowjob experience?

[Anonymous]

1. I gave my new guy a blowjob last night and I had never experienced this before but he played with my hair the entire time to the point of making it difficult to brush through, do any other guys like to play with hair while you receive a blowjob? 2. While I was working on him he kept talking to me, and it made the experience less fun for me because I kept having to answer his questions. Does this mean that he was bored and was thinking about other things or was he sending me a message that he wanted me to talk dirty to him. Does it help guys to talk to them? 3. He kept bringing me up to suck on his nipples and use my hands on his member does this mean that he didn't like my mouth or does he just like the feeling of nipple play. Has anyone else had a situation like this?

[MrHitch]

1- Yes, but not like that, usually just grab a fist full of hair and make you gag on my cock or control the motion
2- Probably, what was he talking about? what sort of questions? and how did he finish? then i will tell you if he was bored or into it...
3- Either your blowjob was toothy or he liked your hand better or he likes his nipples played with... either way not a good sign.

I am gonna put this out there for all the ladies reading- HOW to tell if you are giving a PERFECT BJ-

The guy will start by playing with your tits within the first minute, then he will lay back and go quiet, all you will hear is his grunting, he will gently caress your arm or shoulder, he will blow within 2 mins and right after he will pull you in for a kiss... he won't care about grossness of his cum... thats when you know ladies, you have given the most perfect blowjob... You are Welcome!

[Asker]

He asked me if I ever use toys, and asked how big they were. He told me no one owns his d*ck so right now I do. It was my first time and he is pretty big so my teeth grazed him LIGHTLY a few times is that ever an ok thing to do? He finished with me holding him and him pumping.

[MrHitch]

NOOOO teeth are NEVER okay... ever! From your answer, I wouldn't say bored, but he wasn't WOW'd by it for sure. Huh? I am confused... how did he finish? I don't get it, did you cum as you were blowing him in your mouth or did he have to do it himself to cum?

[Asker]

Essentially he finished himself. He's told me several times since then that he liked it and "I knew what I was doing". I didn't tell him how awful he was so I'm guessing that he's telling me I was great to make me feel better. I specifically told him that I wanted to watch him have fun but he didn't understand and played with himself a little but not for very long.

[MrHitch]

Well, you said it girl, ofcourse no guy will upset a blowjob, good or bad, especially if he is fuckin you, in that case def not. From the sounds of it, he wasn't really feeling your bj... but then again, sounds like its more of a problem on his side than yours, so I would just move on from him if I was you, doesn't seem like worth it.

[Anonymous]

1) Perfectly normal and quite common

2) Yup, he wanted you to talk dirty

3) He loved both

[Finditout]

Unfortunately I can only answer question 2. He is obviously not bored when you're giving him head, he loves it. But he is trying to hint to you to talk dirty to him. To get him more "happy." He might think that you feel awkward and is trying to make it more comfortable for you. Don't overthink too much about it.

[FourStar]

LOOL just from the nipple part you can tell that he likes kinky stuff and wanted you to talk dirty, only time i touch a girls head when i am getting a BJ is when i am trying to get her to deep throat.