My first ex-g/f had an orgasm from doggystyle. But, my second (also my last) ex-g/f could never have an orgasm from doggystyle. My first ex could never orgasm from cowgirl, but my last ex had an orgasm almost every time from cowgirl. I simply could not do the missionary position with my first ex because I'm 6'4" and she was 5'2" - it just didn't work, but my last ex had an orgasm many times from missionary. My first ex was 27 when I met her and I was 31. My last ex was 23 when I met her and I was 33. Every position works differently for different girls. I think the only sure-fire way to give a girl an orgasm is to go down on her, and unfortunately not all guys know what they're doing down there. So when your guy goes down on you, or if he hasn't yet, speak to him while he's doing it. Maybe even have a talk before you do it that you'll be telling him what you like and want him to do more of and what isn't really working for you. That way when he goes down on you and maybe you like more attention on the clit or less on the clit and more in the vagina, then he can keep changing around until he gets it right. It will take practice if he hasn't already made you cum from going down on you. Good luck!
Every woman is different and experiences the most pleasure from different positions. If the man's penis curves a bit in one direction, that can also make a big difference.
If you're flexible enough, though, these positions grand deeper penetration and make him feel larger. They have never served me wrong. The higher you can lift your knees, the better.
Just a warning, these are photos, not diagrams. No special parts are exposed, though
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You'll probably get deleted at some point, but #2 is the best "missionary" for me.
This is my undisputed favorite, though.
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I did not think those would show the pictures. Thought it would just be a link. I am deeply sorry to anyone that these offend.
I am lucky and my gspot it really sensitive. If you dont know where yours is just google it lol, you'll prolly be able to find it with your fingers pretty easily. My bf knows where it is, and he's able to make me have incredible orgasms by fingering me and playing with my gspot while he uses his tongue on my clit. The best positions for me for the guy to hit my gspot are missionary, helps if I have a pillow or something under my butt so my hips are raised and he can be at the right angle to hit my gspot. Also when I'm on top I can make sure I hit it. And doggystyle works really well for us, usually if I'm like full-on face down ass up he can get at the perfect angle. With any of these positions either me or my man will be playing with my clit a lot of the time too and that in itself can lead to an orgasm.
You need a man who knows how to go down on you. I've been with a few guys who are really good at making me orgasm using just their tongues and fingers. And I can make myself orgasm just by rubbing my clit or playing with my gspot, usually with a toy
Hmmmm... For me, only one guy has made me come through penetration and that's because we kept trying lots and lots of different positions. I find taking it from behind the best. It's like doggy style, but you're not on your hands and knees, you're standing up, bent slightly forward, hands on the wall, and him standing behind you. The taller you stand, the more intense the feeling is because in that position, he jabs into your g-spot over and over.
I meant your body is bent slightly over, not bending your legs, by the way.
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My gf often comes in my arms after I had my orgasm, and she'll do it touching herself, as often as not. It works quite well for us.
You may not be able to or sometimes it happens to girls as they get a little older. From my experience missionary and cow girl works the best. I find each girl likes different spots hit in different ways.
statistically there is a good number of women who have never had an orgasm in their life. Really unfair yes, but its nature and thats what was decided. if you could make an real attempt then I suggest all of em! wear socks, use lots of foreplay, smoke a little weed if thats your thing or even drink a little to calm the mind. And have the entire room full of incense and scented candled to really make the atmosphere calm and seductive. Then try pretty much all the positions you are comfortable with. If none of that works, then you might fall under that category of women.
This happened to me. I worked a lot of hours, spent a lot of efforts. Made oral sex for hours, used allparts of my body to give pleasure but then whispering and making some violence, biting making blood and hitting really hard in doggy and giving more pain made her orgasm. It depends on pscyology and thoughts, fantesies, every body has different spots.
Body has full of pleasure spots, it is not so easy to reach them.
guy must be strong for this position which iwill tell.. its kind a doggy style.. you will be near table. and your hands will be behind of you. and he will take your hands. he will pull and push you with hands and his boy:)
I think it's something like twenty per cent of women are able to come via penetration, hell even a noticeable percentage of guys can't either. Fingering and oral is the most efficent way to do so.
Have him bring you off by hand/oral. On your back, him below looking upward at you. His hands can work your boobs or take part in oral with spreading your lips or fingering. He should be able to bring you off this way, but you may need to do something my lover does, I have had prior lovers do and I sometimes do myself.
When the moment approaches, he will have to sit up. Close your legs and cross your ankles tightly. Have him finish by fingering your clit and the area around it fast and strong. I don't know why this works, but it does and it is hot to watch her have an orgasm.
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