Is it normal for me to use a sybian to achieve orgasam that my Boyfriend can't five me?

[Joselyn4ever]

Sybian-masturbation toys for girls..

[Phantasm01]

Okay I am not ashamed to admit I had to look up what kind of toy that was... LOL So with that piece of knowledge now... I think that company should market more towards Military spouses for when their husbands are deployed. Maybe they wouldn't cheat on them while they are gone.

On the topic of what you are asking, to be honest I would be really surprised if my husband wasn't offended if I chose the machine over him. I do not see where that device could be a two person experience. My goodness it is comes with attachments so your boobs can be suctioned.

If you are using that machine all the time then more then likely you have desensitize your body from human touch. All that vibration there is no realistic way the human body could mimic that and give the same pleasure. Personally I would say to quit using it or start limiting yourself from using it, give yourself a month or so to see if you can regain any of normal sensations back without the need for such high powered vibrations. I would also suggest purchasing some hand help vibrators and letting your boyfriend use them on you so he can at least interact with you and not just watch you getting off on a machine.

I can see the appeal especially since my husband is deployed. However with that price tag that comes with it I am okay with being celibate until he comes home. I would not want to risk me becoming desensitized to his touch.

Just my opinion and what I know would work well in my marriage/relationship. However if your boyfriend is okay with it and you are happy then do what is best for your relationship. It is no one business but yours and his. Good Luck.

[Iron_Pounder91]

I'm sorry but this has got to be a bullshit question asked by a guy sat on a computer all day holding a slice of pizza with one hand and masturbating to the responses with the other…

If you're being serious though you need to educate your boyfriend a bit. He should be making you orgasm every time, its actually not as hard as everyone implies. I always go down on my girls with my tongue for like 10-20 minutes before sex, giving them at least 1 sometimes 2 or 3 clit orgasms so when I actually enter her she's so wet and turned on that she has another big orgasm while doing it doggy and another when she's on the edge of the bed with her legs over my head.

Tell your bf to read some articles online (possibly this one) and then put him to work. He probably just needs some practice, we've all been there. Just say no sex to him until he makes you come in his mouth.

[lambda5555m]

Nope. Most guys don't know how to give a woman an orgasm and if you have to use it to get yours, then do so. Sybians are great. I have one and the women I see are crazy about it and they have told me that it could replace men. See how many orgasms you can have and if your boyfriend can't give them to you, get your own. Maybe you will find you can have multiple orgasms.

[normalice]

i mean, you gotta do what you gotta do, but it sort of defeats the purpose of being in a relationship if you still have to masturbate. At least in my opinion..

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

If i had a girlfriend it would not bother me that she uses sex toys
i feel all girls should be free to explore their sexuality with
feeling comfortable without worrying whether their making
their boyfriend upset /mad.

[bifriend2013]

those costs some bucks

[Anonymous]

we could both have fun with it. let me have the controls to it

[Anonymous]

I have seen them, what are they like.

[Anonymous]

I thought you were broken up anyway?

And, sure, why notttt... though I would then see no point in having a guy (if you're secure, financially)