How long should a blow job last?

[Anonymous]

i gave a guy a blowjob yesterday for the first time and I'm pretty sure I covered the basics; no teeth, paying attention to his balls, swallowing when he came etc but I don't know if it went on for too long? I lost track of time but i'd say around 20 minutes? He came and everything and said he doesn't normally come from head so that's good but i still would like to know what sort of time frame I should be aiming for? Also any tips and tricks would be welcome.

[Peter0]

Its' different for every guy. I have a lot of trouble coming from bjs. So the time can vary wildly for me, if I can even reach orgasm.

A friend of mine can usually come in 10-15 minutes, but sometimes it takes 30.

Really, it's different for every guy, and it may not be your technique, but the guy. If you're up for going down on him for 20 minutes... well, I'm sure he won't complain *at all*! I know I might not even reach orgasm... but I'll enjoy every minute of it! ^_^

As far as techniques go, there's lots of things to try:
lots of pressure of the tongue on the bottom of the penis.
tongue going forward and backwards against the bottom of the penis
lips going back and forth past the corona
sucking
tongue going side to side, circles, etc.
hands stroking while you tongue the tip
holding his balls
a finger in his butt

There's plenty more, I'm sure. Try things out, and see what works... and ask him! He'll be in the best position to tell you what's good and what he wants!

[Plato]

Give or take 2-3 minutes, switch positions a bit, try new stuff and sometimes you could go about again.

[Johannaxo]

If you're not going to have sex then the goal would be to wait till he busts. Either way, if you feel like its been too long just stop, start kissing him and touching his body. Then let that lead to sex or just use it as a break and try again. There are no rules, go with the flow and have fun. 😉

[bri122089]

Till he's done our you can't do no more, try writing the abc's with it in your mouth, get it really wet then take it out so he can see the spot trail from his thing to your mouth, try and look at him every once in awhile, and ask what he liked most abd what he wants you to do to it

[JustinX]

damn that is hot and i'm turned on by reading those sexy statement

[warriororsomething]

that minus the alphabet for a guy or girl its better to focus on his reactions and work from that then figuring out what comes after letter Q (havent gotten to tht episode of sesame street yet). open communication tho he'll be more than happy to talk with u about it it's much more productive than what shoes you saw at the mall when you saw that one girl who said that thing to you and now you can never forgive her.

[Jennielovesyou]

I've given some that last 15 min and some that last 30 min

[truthbeknown]

I usually last about 5-8 mins.

[EvilPimp]

Until I bust.

[douride2]

Thats about long enough.