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Why is it bad if a girl cheats?

I mean, I know cheating is bad. If a bf fucks another girl, it's bad. But when a girl fucks another guy, the bf is not equally mad, he goes over the top. He makes a bigger deal of the fact that this other guy got to fuck his girl, than that his girl cheated. Guys immediately add this sense of manly competition in which the guy who scores more pussy, wins. We al know that phenomenon. Which makes the whole situation worse for himself since he will always be the loser and make the guy who fucked his girl (which is mostly an alpha type dude) the winner who takes the price (sadly enough, his girl's pussy in this case). Example, my friend, really cute girl, has a nice boyfriend but I think he let's her be the boss all the time cause he is so happy with a pretty girl. This is kind of the reason why she stays with him. Recently she got fucked by this college football player. Total asshole but a real macho who gets all the girls. Her boyfriend caught them in the act but just ran away and afterward chose to forgive her. But he is constantly struggling like crazy with the fact that this other guy totally owned him. This guy noticed him catching them (my friend didn't) and he just laughed in his face and got to continue fucking her after the boyfriend left. And not only he laughs, the whole town knows and laughs. I mean her bf is doing it to himself. He forgives her and decides to focus his anger and pain on this asshole who gets praise from everyone. Why do guys do this? Of course not ALL guys but most, and only few girls act like this.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • That's a very small percentage of guys who is like him. Seem like more of a TV episode than real life. He seems like a guy who lacks confidence and respect for himself. He is a pushover and some guys are like that but I would think most are not. Also one of the reason men focus on the guy has nothing to do with manly competition or pussy. It's more a territorial possesion thing I believe. Also you go after the guy because you can't go after the girl. The guy actually did the right thing leaving. Staying there would have ended with him going to jail ( he wasn't saving her from rape and cheating isn't a crime) because he would be instigating the fight. He is a loser for staying with her and your friend the really pretty girl has an awful heart and is a slut.

    • I know I give her a bad image, but she has a lot of good sides and wouldn't just fuck anyone. But i guess this one time gives her a bad name already. What you say is true guess, but I see the "pussy scoring competition" as a territorial thing. I do however not agree that you should let the guy finish up with your girl and not even letting her know you are seeing her doing that.

    • I agree he should have been more of a man and at least let him know he saw her in the act and yes that one time is a BIG one time to give her a bad name. Nothing is worse in a relationship than being a cheater especially one that knows nothing will happen if she does since she senses her bf is a pitiful pushover of a man.

  • It is because he is in pain. It has nothing to do with him being in a competition with this other guy. It is very common for a guy to cover our pain with anger. While the guy continued to fuck his girl, his girl also continued to fuck the guy. Imagine how hurt you would be if you walked in and caught your man in bed with another women, she laughed at you, and your man just kept on fucking her until you left. It would show he didn't even care enough to sacrifice a single orgasm to try and comfort you after hurting you by betraying you. She hurt him really bad, and he is trying to cover his pain with rage. He can't direct his anger at the woman, or he will lose her, so he focuses it all on the guy.

    • I guess that makes sense. She actually didn't notice him. The guy who brags about fucking her told that she had her face buried in the bed. Of course he tells a lot of detail to make him sound awesome...

    • Even if she didn't notice him, it is still because he is in pain. Finding out your partner cheated is heartbreaking enough, to actually see them cheat with your own eyes like that, seems like it would be even more painful. If he didn't dump her after this, he must have serious self esteem issues.

Most Helpful Girls

  • guys are very sensitive. and cheating is just bad in general

    by the way i did read all that because too much in one paragraph.

  • yes it is bad if a girl cheat just like it is bad if a guy cheats

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  • Penis envy. Guys can't help but feel like they aren't good enough in bed and that's why you cheated. It never crosses their minds that maybe the way they treat their girl is the cause it's all about the sex. Men are one track minded. And when a girl cheats they feel like less of a man. It's sad. But true.

    • I know right. This way the asshole will always win. It is known that girls (i admit it myself) from time to time get weak for assholes who just want a longer list of girls they fucked. And the submissive guys let them get the attention and feel good about it?

    • Sounds about right. I am apathetic. That sucks to say but it's true. I have no feelings whatsoever if a girl cheats on me or not. I just shrug everything off. Lol

    • Even if you've got the biggest cock in town, and know how to use it better than the next 1000 men, and treat her well, some women will still cheat. Some women are just their own worst enemy. I never had to worry about penis envy, and I wouldn't want more, but a cheating woman still leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I do get some satisfaction from knowing that they'll always remember what they're missing out on (they'll never get it from me again).

  • In my opinion if a girl cheats on me she's gone. Dumped and forgotten. If the guy was a friend then that definitely puts a strain on the relationship but if he wasn't then I forget about him as well. Guys like this are cowardly and lack confidence. I'm not blaming him for getting cheated on and I'm not saying he should have fought the guy, but staying with the girl is a definite mistake and hopefully he learns that if she's willing to do that to him and stay on the sidelines while he's getting laughed at that she is not worth it.

  • wooow. in my opinion the bf should have fought the football player. even though he might lose, a man just can't walk away from that

  • What do you think an appropriate response would be for

    A) The guy who was cheated on?
    B) The girlfriend who cheated on him?
    C) The college football player?

    You sound a lot younger than between the ages of 25 to 29.

    • I am 25, my friend only 22. A) be a man and dump the girl (although she's still my friend, she did a bad thing here) B) I can't say she has to do anything but what her boyfriend says. But that guy just chooses to let her continue this situation. So I can't say actually. C) He acts like expected but shouldn't get rewarded by the other guy. I mean he's put in an even better, more alpha male situation thanks to her boyfriend, who gives him more praise by focussing his anger on him, yet doesn't react and let's him win.

  • its very primitive,
    guy clams girl.
    guy has sole right to mate with girl.
    alpha male fucks girl,
    but he didn't just fuck the girl, he fucked the man... its hard to explain but its painful to know that another man was inside your gf or even a girl you've been crushing on

    • its fucked up but its the closest i can depict the feeling

    • This is true.

    • what d you mean with guy clams girl? Which of the two guys?

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  • Cauz guys have EMOTIONS just like women do.

    You seem to lack empathy for men's emotions. Why so cold?

  • Cheating is bad for both sexes.

    • true :p


  • The guys think they should be respected and cheating woman not honoring him

  • She ends up being a whore and he made a mistake.

  • Girls aren't as well known as cheaters as men... they're better at it, but guys get caught more

    • Not me

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