I really want to have sex, but can't find anyone to have sex with?

I do want to have sex, i'm horny all the time, and would love to have someone to have sex with on a regular basis.. I know that I can find a guy that is willing to have sex with me, but the problem is that i dont want to have sex with some random guy! I Want a loving boyfriend to have sex with, but I can't find or have met a guy yet that i feel is "good enough" without sounding arrogant. I dont feel my criterias are too high too how i want my boyfriend to be, and i feel i dont ask for to much. But when i think about my past about boys, them approaching me and so on, i think that maybe im to fast to judge and dont go for nice guys because their not "hot enough". I have some problems talking to guys ( a bit low self esteem), i can't really say that i'm shy, but i tend to only have confidence around shy or average-below average looking guys. If im lucky to meet and contect with a guy they normally turn out to be douchbags... So i have kinda given up and feel i just have to get use to being singel.
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  • Go for the "not so shiny popular swag badass"-type of guy. They might look better after you. Those rarely are douchebags.. I guess it's hard to find somebody who's a perfect match though.. But you have a whole lifetime for that, so why not just date some guys. Approach them and stuff. The first one will fail because you'll be nervous, but just practice it. You'll find him ;)

    Nah you don't have to get used to it ;)
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    • LOL!!! Nice pic bro.

    • Appreciated ;)

  • can't see if the problem is your appearance but I can tell half my friends would go for a fuckbuddy then a relationship and half of them go gym to keep in shape. I can say all the things we do, we still won't fuck bullshit just cause she's horny, only hoties :))

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  • With a question posted like this on GAG you won't have this problem for long...

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  • Just masturbate till you find someone decent- you'll be waiting a while for a non douche lol.

  • What type of guys do you like? What is your standards?

    • physically my dream man looks like chris hemsworth or dwayne johnson. Lots of muscles is not an "must have", but i am just really attracted to guys who like to workout and stay fit. The guy should be tall, skin color is neither a "must have", but i se myself with a white guy. And then the "Normal" stuff like being funny, loving, shows that he wants and cares for me. And ofc non-smoker

    • Oh you like a buff muscle guy? Like a gym rat? Many guys work out. Many guys are tall and white (it's the majority race in the USA). A lot of guys fit that. I don't see the problem.

  • Inbox me.. I might have an idea :)

  • Ill have sex with you

  • I don't feel with you, since you only want does out of your league.

    Find someone on our own level, and you will do just fine.

  • No guys have balls to come up to you is why. you be the man

  • talk to me, i know you are a beautiful, decent and smart girl, i won't disappoint 😉

  • virtual sex::))

  • Me to but with a girl

  • the problem is your way too picky as most girls are, which makes you impossible, and you can only get a loving relationship with nice guys but you dont find them attractive thats the biggest problem common in girls plus girls dont make moves as they should and expect guys to do everything thats also an error girls commonly do, and define what makes a guy a douchbag, cause girls exaggerate on that most of the time

  • "i think that maybe im to fast to judge and dont go for nice guys because their not "hot enough""

    There's your problem, right there.

    • Women complain about the jerks that they date, yet they find the nice guys boring.

  • When you say you want sex all the time and your horny all the time
    you know that will scare a good guy away. When you say your looking
    for a Hot guy there is another thing will scare a good guy away