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Is what my step brother and I doing wrong?

My mom got remarried. The guy she married has a son my age. We get along pretty well. He is 18 im 17. Our parents been together for 2 years. Anyway my Step brother came into my room one night when our parents were gone. We talked played the wii normal stuff. Then he kissed me. I pushed him off me then we started kissing again. The next day our parents left for the grocery store. We kissed again this time we took our clothes off we didn't do anything because our parents came back earlier the expected. My Step brother ran off into my closet and I quickly threw my clothes on. is what were doing wrong? Should we stop? Do we need help? I really wanna sex with him.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's not really that abnormal. In some cultures it seems to be quite common.
    I've had a friend who made out with her step-brother.

    He's not related either, so it's not ethically wrong or legally wrong.

    However, it doesn't really work out. It's like having a room-mate and then having sex with your room-mate. It just doesn't really go the way you want it to. There's a low chance it will go well.

    • This guy.

  • Whatever you get into with each other, don't tell a soul. This kinda shit spreads like wild fire. You better swear each other to secrecy. I'm not kiddin' here. This kinda thing could split your parents up.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Chances are if it feels wrong it is. You know you absolutely have to hide. it. from your parents which is a pretty good indicator it's wrong. Just because you aren't blood related and haven't know each other forever doesn't make it okay. You are still brother and sister would you tell your friends?

    Fight the feeling!!

  • It's not really wrong, but it would still be kinda wrong. I don't know, It would be a little weird, mother and daughter, dating father and son. But technically it's not wrong, you are strangers, whose parents, just happened to also find each other.

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  • It's not wrong by any means, but you should think about your future before making these major decisions to have sex.

  • Yes it is wrong because you are not married. Get married then you can do what you want.

  • It's not that it's necessarily wrong, but you'll never be able to pursuer a relationship with him so it's better to stop now before you develop feelings for him.

  • you're not biologically related... why would it be wrong?

  • Go for it girl

  • It's weird and abnormal but i guess it's not too bad as long as you don't do anything sexual.

  • Well, you're step-siblings, not actual siblings. So technically it isn't wrong.

    HOWEVER... You need to think about the broader picture here. Our actions don't just affect ourselves; they affect those around us.
    So, follow me here for a minute: how would you feel if you were your mom and you found out that your daughter was having sex with the child of the man that she married? You would probably be mortified; right? You wouldn't want to do that to do that to your mom, would you? You wouldn't want to cause her all of that grief. Hopefully.

    But also, consider this: what if you guys found out that you really, REALLY liked each other? What if you both decided that you wanted to have a serious long term relationship -- or even marriage? Would you even be able to go through with that? Probably not. Because society wouldn't approve. People would talk. You may lose friends. You may even be outcast. Is that a risk you're willing to take?
    And what if the relationship doesn't work out and you end up breaking up? What then? You would have to re-enter the dating market with the knowledge that your last sexual relationship was semi-incestuous. What would you tell the new guy you are dating? You will either have to tell him the truth (which will likely scare him away), or you will have to lie to him and keep it a secret, hoping he never finds out. ... But he probably will eventually. You don't actually think you can hide that from him forever, do you?

    So, in conclusion, this is a bad idea. You will be crossing a bridge that cannot be un-crossed, and opening a can of worms that cannot be closed again.

  • Legally that could probably get you in trouble. Morally No you are not related so by definition it is not incest. There is no shared genes nor a large age gap so it is cool. I doubt most parents would approve though.

  • Go get it if you want to

  • Probably something to avoid. Detection will make family life difficult and retard getting into relationships the normal way. Suggest you stop.

  • It's not wrong since it's not blood, buttttt, may be a little immoral

  • your parents will pretty much kick your ass and thats most likely not what they want for either of you

  • It's not wrong. Your not actually brother and sister therefore it's not incest and it's not illegal. Do whatever makes you happy and not whatever makes everyone else happy!

  • I slept with my step cousin. So i don't see what's wrong. Just don't say a thing to your parents unless they end up divorcing.

  • I say you two make love any chance the two of you get even if you have to go to a motel room

  • You should stop because he is legally your brother

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