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My boyfriend wants me to wear a swimsuit for sex?

My boyfriend has asked me to wear a swimsuit occasionally when we have sex. I have no problem with this as long as it's only occasionally. What I want to ask is are there any other guys who would want this and would any other girls do it. I have lots of very sexy lingerie and he likes those but he seems to get very turned on if I'm in a swimsuit.
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Maybe I need to clarify. A bikini is a two piece. A swimsuit is a one piece.
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  • There's nothing more sexy than a swim suit date, the smaller, the better... especially on those initial get-to-know you dates.
    That said, swim suit sex usually is more typical when on/in the water and it either comes off (at least partially) or gets moved to the side - I prefer under the water = better motion than a water bed

    but

    be it swim suit, supergirl suit, whatever spices up sex life is OK

    • It’s almost impossible for me to receive consent for a woman to even wanna be with me in a relationship in order to consent that way I can’t emotionally spark with them to have sex with them wearing a one piece s-piece swimsuit there were swimmer that’s the only thing on my mind. I feel like I’m not normal. It might be normal to have That desire, but would generally prefer them naked and do all this pornographic, oral sex, and other stuff I do not want to put my mouth in anyone’s body part tbh.

  • "Women's swimsuits are generally described as one-piece, bikinis, or thongs." (Wikipedia) We now understand that you are referring to a bikini, but a swimsuit is not necessarily a one-piece.

    Generally, one-piece swimsuits are designed to ensure the crotch stays covering things. The bikini can be pulled down and moved aside easier. I really would not want to attempt sex with her in a one-piece.

    • Or at least touch her especially she had a nice one piece on or spandex, sporty, etc.

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  • Lol that's a bit off the wall

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  • Guys Like Different Things, It's Weird But iLike "Clothed Sex." iRather Slide Her Thong/G-String To The Side Than Take It Completely Off...

  • Yes. A swimsuit can be just as sexy as lingerie.

  • To each is own as they say & it seems like you two are going to the beach in the bedroom so wear your sexy swimsuit & tell your boyfriend to bring a snorkel & a wetsuit for when he goes muffdiving.

    • I prefer a woman’s body to be in a speedo one piece Hair went back in the ponytail and her body wet from the water And get hand jobed lol

  • I never had actual sex and I'm age 46 . But if i was going have my
    first time i would like the girl to wear some type of thin clothes maybe
    bikini panties, sports bra, lingerie of thin material. sex with clothing is
    awesome i like to get the feel of things. being my first actual sexual time.

  • Girls look amazing in swimsuits. If you lined up a girl in Bra and knickers and another one in a swimsuit, the one in the swimsuit just appears hotter (Maybe because it's more acceptable to be seen like that in Public)

  • Yes a lot of guys are

  • I'm assuming a two piece swimsuit; yes, swimsuits are hot. Look at Sports Illustrated.

  • I would prefere lingerie over a swim suit any day. . it is easier to access than a swimsuit. but hey what the hell.
    unless we were going to be at or near a pool. then Im sure I could access if we needed to. :)

  • I'd rather the gal be totally naked when having sex. but then I'm a very visual and tactile person. And a woman's bare body is a work of art.

    • Just because we like to fuck, a woman in a competitive swimsuit in the water doesn’t mean we can’t fuck, naked, sometimes. It’s a compromise. of what both partners like.

  • yes, i would want to have that too, very much indeed. one-piece swimsuits are such a turn on!
    your boyfriend can be very lucky that you will do that for him (even it's only occasionally).
    if tried to find a woman who would do that for me my whole life without any luck.
    so i hope you both have fun and you both can enjoy it.

  • There's something sexy about the beach and bikini clad women. I'd categorize it as a fetish for him, but I think several other men would also see it as a turn on. I've always found that when my partner (wife) wears something rather than nothing, it's more of a turn on for me. Lingerie is the standard but there's nothing wrong with trying something else. Glad to see that your a "go with it" type girl.

  • Swinsuits, one piece or two piece are tight and quite revealing and really emphasize a women's body.
    What's not to love about your boyfriend getting hugely turned on by seeing you in spandex? You have a keeper there.
    It's perfectly normal for guys to have a spandex fetish, and having one that is open and honest with you is a win, in my opinion.
    Go with it.
    Hell, get adventrous, and ask him if he wants to crossdress while having sex.

  • It isn’t about the swimsuit (or bikini), it is about being comfortable asking for what you enjoy. This goes both ways and makes for a great sexual relationship (and most likely a great total relationship). Do you always have to say yes? No. Some stuff is just outside the comfort zone in like another neighborhood. This sounds like a slam dunk. You have fun and he gets enjoyment from you wearing it. Everyone wins here. Let’s celebrate his openness and willingness to spice things up a bit.

  • What type of swimsuit? I have the same issue it has to be a competitive one piece swimsuit. I also like active bra and leggings on my partner if I had one. But dipping wet hair and body in a swimsuit by the water is a must. 👌🏼🩱🍑💦🖤

  • Me and my girl have been together for 18 years, and she loves wearing one piece swimsuits during sex. At first, it was like a novelty but it became something habitual... and I love it!

  • I couldn’t agree more, I’m extremely turned on when my wife wears a swimsuit 🩱

  • Sounds like some kind of fetish or fantasy of his.

  • A bikini is generally a two-piece swimsuit

    https://en. wikipedia. org/wiki/Bikini

    Don't go running off at the mouth if you can't prove it...

    Anyway, I mean, if that's his thing, why not? Also, why wouldn't you want him asking ALL the time? It's not a bad thing that he likes this, so, why shouldn't he be able to ask all the time?

  • Lmao. You wear the swimsuit and he provides the snorkel ;)

  • I think it is normal to get turned on by this. But if you don't feel comfortable about it, don't do it!

    • I never said I was uncomfortable with it. I'm happy to do it but just want to know if other people do it.

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