My boyfriend wants me to be dominant in bed?

[cupcakeluv20]

im a girl and my boyfriend wants me to be dominant in bed. how can i do that?

[ViciousVic22]

Sounds like he wants his dominance to be challenged u gotta actively seduce him, initiate things, take charge, do more of the work and be more aggressive, and sexually adventurous. Like be on top and ride his dick or sit on his face I don't know get out of yr comfort zone a little bit, guys get bored when THEY have to do everything and you just play a passive role, if you can challenge his dominance it will make it even more hot and intense...

[Roarke]

You'll have to define 'dominant' more precisely if you want much valid input here. The term encompasses many different behaviors. Add more to your description and i'll dive in when i can... oh and if you post it as a response to this comment, i believe i will get a notification that you did.

[cupcakeluv20]

like he wants me to take the lead and be more "aggressive" in bed (not sure if thats the right word for it) he told me he wants me to sit on his face but im not sure what else to do. he likes the feeling of me being in control of him

[Roarke]

As far as dominance goes, yes face sitting is a good start. Thing is, he isn't giving YOU much information to go on. He said be dominant, not a mind reader. i can think of all kinds of angles in general. For instance, the next time you are riding his jaws and you move down into more of a face to face with him, kiss him firmly but passionately. Then grab his hands as you move your mouth down his stomach toward his willy. Tease him, a lot. Tongue all around his lower stomach but not quite on the penis. Maybe a playful kiss or two, but no true insertion. So far this is pretty standard stuff for bed play. But let's say it reaches a stage where you are P to V and he wants to go inside you so much it hurts. Wiggle around there but say, 'mmm... no, i'm thinking not tonight', then go on tormenting him. This whole thing of dominance is a wide sphere, but as some posters have indicated it often comes down to you making the moves from the git-go. Any help there?

[Anonymous]

Sounds like an ex of mine. Basically he wants YOU to initiate sex, tell him you want him first, rip HIS clothes off, hop on him, ex. I would talk dirty to him (don't be shy!) He doesn't want that. Be explicit and sit on his face. When you are ready, go hop on top and go at your pace. It becomes your show, and will turn him on. Almost like you are making him have sex with you but he wants too also. Hope this helped.

[Mesonfielde]

Ye gotta be all over him and take his clothes off and start doing stuff and be on top and start ridin' rather than wait for him to be all over you, simple.

[justwannalearn]

Exactly.

[rocelot]

Well, tying him up would be easiest. Or as someone else said get yourself a strapon. Or you could just get him a leash and collar and whip him into submission. Or all of the above. Listen if your boy is being this vague; abuse it.

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

Dominant him
Be on top

[Anonymous]

Go get a strap on and throw him on the bed... using lube stroke it long and hard, then climb on top of him and rub it on his ass while kissing him deeply. Lick his ass then slowly slide your new found toy inside him and stroke his coc at the same time. He will feel dominated alright...

[Anonymous]

I don't know it's weird. I like to be in control

[cupcakeluv20]

what was the point of commenting then? lol