GIRLS ONLY: Girls, what would you do if your partners penis did this?

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a couple of months now and I think we are ready to take it to the next stage, not really sex but just showing each other what we have downstairs... wink... and getting more familiar with one another. Problem is, I have a little problem with my downstairs. Whenever I get arroused, my member gets hard, but something odd happens next. I start leaking large amounts of precum, I'm talking like LARGE amounts, to the point where it doesn't stop. It just keeps oozing out. Recently it's gotten so bad where it soaks through my pants when I'm arroused with my girlfriend, making an obvious visible wet spot. Is there something wrong with me? I know what precum is but is this natural? To the point where it literally will not stop oozing out? And if males such a mess :/ are girls into this or do they find it disgusting? And I'm very nervous about the day where I will actually show it to her, and it's all slinky from the overload. Sorry for the details but I'm like freaking out here :( please help!
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  • I've never had any problem with my mans penis or any of its fluids. He doesn't have a big precum issue but if you're worried about what she might think then just be up front about it. IF you think she is grossed out just bring it out in the open stop ignoring the elephant (not that your issue is a serious elephant in the room) in the room. If she says she's not into it then maybe its time to end the relationship, because if she can't be comfortable with your penis then she won't be comfortable moving forward in the relationship.

  • My man has the same what you call issue, for me i take it as a compliment not only is he aroused but ready for me, i get wet just thinking bout it (his not urs) So if she doesn't like it then move on cause it's always going to do that and u can't stop it like stopping your control for sex you can avoid it but will always happen

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  • That's normal. Some guys don't do it at all, some guys do it more. I like seeing something wet down there. It's more of an indicator of me doing things right. Don't worry about it. I doubt she'll find it gross.

    • Ok good :) I'm reading all of these comments and it seems that girls actually like or would like to see this happening to their boyfriend, so it's kind of making my confidence go back up

  • I wouldn't care

  • you should consult a doctor for this

    • I was really thinking about doing this because it doesn't look normal 0_o it literally just keeping flowing out! I mean it feels really good and it's kindof interesting to watch but I don't think this is normal.

    • nope its not normal

  • You should probably get that check if it keeps happening and you can't help it. Anyways i wouldn't know. Since she's your gf i doubt she minds but some girls might be uncomfortable. Good luck

  • I'd take it as a compliment. If she get's grossed out by it then... well... she's weird.

  • I think it's more than average but there is nothing wrong with it, id find it hot :)

  • No there's nothing wrong with you. You're just really turned. Just explain it to her and see how she reacts. Most girls would be turned on if a guys d*** was wet before sex. If she has a problem with this tell her it's not something you can control and if she still has a problem you probably need to end the relationship. Best of luck. Hope this helped.

  • Show it to her when you will have sex for the first time and in that situation it would be more normal.

    • Well here's the thing, we are kindof waiting on sex until marriage but I'd love to show each other what we have! But this damn thing is in the way :(

    • However, it's not a problem at all.

  • Totally normal and that means you are super horny and or super horny for her which is a compliment. Don't sweat it and don't worry precum tastes way better than cum so getting head is all good.

  • I agree with supernatural1. You should tell her. I like the thought of that happening to my boyfriend. It sounds sexy as hell.

    • Really? Even if it makes like a huge mess? And I'm talking it doesn't stop until I go flaccid 0_o

    • I don't really know, because I've never really seen it. But when I'm in the mood, everything that shows he is turned on, turns me on. Lol probably even the word"penis.". Maybe you can put a condom on beforehand? You'll probably have a lot of kids in the future. Lol

  • I honestly wouldn't care much at all... If my boyfriend told me he had that problem, I honestly wouldn't care. I'm sure there are other guys out their that have had that problem. I have never heard of it, but I know its definitely not the first time.