Guys and Girls: Do You Prefer Passionate and Gentle Sex, or Rough Sex?

Question

Since I am only 15, I am a virgin. I have never had a girlfriend, and I get really nervous around girls so I never approach them.

However, whenever I picture sex in my mind, I only picture it as being really passionate and gentle. I always think of the girl I am having sex with as being fragile and delicate so I am really gentle with her.

Is this normal for a guy, and do women prefer a guy who likes passionate and gentle sex?

I know that generally guys like rough sex more than girls, and girls like gentle and passionate sex more than guys.

What do you guys think?

NovemberJoseph · Accepted Answer

Depends on the mood. The majority of the time I like to be steady and gentle, but there's always those moments when i feel it and i have to go all out and rough.
Or those times when there's tension in the room and you just wanna lash out at your gf and rip her clothes off without warning. You can't have gentle sex in those times, it has to be rough. So I say it depends on the mood.

Nico21 · Accepted Answer

Just be natural and don't overthink what you're doing. Do what comes to your mind and pay attention to her responses. Every girl is different and also the same girl may like different things at different times or even in the same session she might enjoy the change of rhythm.

Eweneek · Accepted Answer

Depends on the situation. For your first time I say go a little gentler and make it passionate. But as you get used to it, maybe you'll try something different so it doesn't get boring. I like rougher sex because it can be different. To me gentle slower sex only happens one way, and that can get boring. I'm 15 too, but not a virgin and a girl.

theirishone · Accepted Answer

I vote rough sex. I love that my guy has that feeling where he has to rip my clothes off and had to have me right there. However, certain times it's nice to just take our time and go slow. We love those but they can get boring very quickly so we do rough :)

ArielAngel427 · Accepted Answer

Definitely rough sex, it's just so much more passionate and primal!

Me1333 · Answer

Every girl likes something different just as guys do but I think I’d like gentle sex with lots of touches and kisses! Just enjoy it with that guy I love!