Do girls really enjoy anal sex? Or do they do it just for partner enjoyment?

[zb69kos]

are there girls love anal sex more than vaginal sex? what to do to make her enjoy anal sex a lot?

[AustinMan]

Okay, let's break this problem down. I've read the answers and each needs some salt taken with it. It's a basic fact that larger things than his erection exit there regularly generally without discomfort. That demonstrates the anus can handle it, no problem.

The big problem is that very few men know how to have anal sex in a way that she enjoys. The key is letting her fully and comfortably control the initial penetration. Message me for more on that.

The other aspect for some is the dominance and submission involved. Ladies that like it, I'm confident that you'll agree that it's pretty hard to debate who's in control when you being fucked up the ass.

Finally, for the kinksters among us, some like it to hurt. They enjoy the pain and he enjoys hurting them. All this with her full, willing and informed consent--that she can withdraw at any moment and stop the action.

Comments?

[zb69kos]

I like anal sex because it has special taste not to hurt her. yes she can withdraw at any time therefor I want to do it with love without pain. now please tell me more about control the initial penetration.

[AustinMan]

Take a look at the My Take I wrote. Here's the link:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a6855-comfortable-anal-sex-for-beginners-a-guide-to-the-first-time

[zb69kos]

okay .. sure.

[AustinMan]

Thanks for the MHG. Did you try it the way I described? Did she like it? Did she say why if she did?

[normalice]

there is nothing you can 'do' to make a girl enjoy it. It's an inherent thing, unfortunately. The rare few girls who like it are going to like it no matter what you try to do to encourage it.

If you are attempting anal sex with someone who has never had it before (and thus doesn't know if they like it) there are obvious advantages to making it as comfortable as possible, but a more subtle advantage is that if you did happen upon a girl who does like anal sex, you won't build a reluctance to it by making it a painful experience.

[zb69kos]

is it like being a gay so she loves it... or... being a straight so she does not like

[normalice]

as far as I know, whether or not a girl likes it in the butt is completely independent of all other attributes.

[obiwansmistress]

It can be. It all depends on the woman. Make sure she's 100% comfortable with it first. Then for a few weeks, start putting a finger in her butt, with lube on it, and slowly get her more used to it until she thinks she's ready. If and when she's ready, use a lot of lube, go really slowly at first and keep the speed soft and slow until she says you can go faster, make sure you're in a position she's comfortable in, it'll help her relax. Also, make sure she's SUPER turned on first too. Maybe she'll like it, maybe she won't. My husband and I have done it, and I used to not mind it, not it hurts so bad I can barely have his finger in me, but we are trying to ease back into it because I know he loves it. A lot of women do it just for the guys pleasure. But I do know some women who genuinely like/love it.

Remember the vagina expands when turned on and lubricates itself, the butt DOES NOT.

[obiwansmistress]

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[zb69kos]

you give hope and good guidance. thank you. but please, can the woman achieves her orgasm during anal sex?

[obiwansmistress]

Some women say they can, I never did by just doing that. Try rubbing her clit when doing it, or have her rub her clit and that'll help her orgasm.

[zb69kos]

yes.. I will try my best to make her lead her orgasm while doing it. I will rub her clit myself. I want make her love it. from your point of view what is the best sexual position (s) for doing it.

[obiwansmistress]

The one that it made it easiest for mine was probably him just lying behind me, spooning style, or doggy style can be good too.

[zb69kos]

thank you very much. one more question please. .. my penis is slightly curved upward. does it help or odd. what to do?

[obiwansmistress]

That really won't make much of a difference I don't think.

[zb69kos]

okay thank you very much

[Anonymous]

It is 100% for the male partner's enjoyment.

It is painful, not enjoyable, it burns when he enters, and then bathroom activities are extremely painful for days. And that's doing it "right." That's with lube and going slow and doing the correct angle and speed.

My boyfriend was into it and then we were doing it (because he loves it) and I literally started to bleed and instead of the usual cuddling after intimacy I won't let him touch me after. It hurts to be touched anywhere from my hips to my knees after.

After the bleeding incident he swore he'd never put me through that again. For which I am grateful because it was NOT enjoyable. I may be selfish, but 5 minutes of pleasure for him is not worth a week of pain for me.

[zb69kos]

I want it with love not with pain.

[Bluemax]

"I may be selfish, but 5 minutes of pleasure for him is not worth a week of pain for me. " I can't see how that's a selfish statement. I tend to think it's your bf who is being selfish.

[Chasing]

First you need to talk about it before you just ehems. It's important to know if this is her first time doing anal. She might like it, she might disgust by it. If she's ok with it, then prep all u can to make her comfy with, lotsa lube and slow foreplay. Not only for anal, women enjoy long foreplay session to get into the mood.

But if she doesn't want, then respect her decision, don't even go near there. Imagine yourself do you like being touch there?

[zb69kos]

If she doesn't want sure I will respect her decision. but if she wanted to touch me there I will agree. we have to be fully open to each other and share every thing.

[Anonymous]

Some women genuinely enjoy it, some only do it to please their partner, as a way to show submission.
I enjoy it, as much as vaginal sex, if not more.
It just depends... we all have our sweet spots.

[zb69kos]

thank you very much. now I am on my way to be fully understand. there are sweet spots... I will dig for them all over her body. I will make her like it as vaginal sex.

[robertraff]

I had to girls beg me to fuck their ass and two it hated it. So it's changes between girl by girl

[zb69kos]

is it like being a gay so she loves it... or... being a straight so she does not like

[Anonymous]

most girls don't do anal and it's difficult to convince a girl to agree to do that act. now for the minority who engage in it let me tell you that most of them don't enjoy it.

[Anonymous]

If done right they SHOULD enjoy it. Spontaneous anal sex I don't recommend!

[zb69kos]

please how to make it right?

[Opinion Owner]

Enema should be used to clear out the anus. Lube should also be used generously. Google it for the full details!

[Anonymous]

Some do enjoy it if they are relaxed enough.

[zb69kos]

what to do to make her relaxed enough to enjoy it? how to know that she is relaxed enough?