I slept with my gf's mom. Should I tell her?

[Anonymous]

Ok, I'm dating a lovely Cuban girl and she's kinda complicated. Some days she'll be happy and talk to me in English and other days she'll be super upset and curse me in Spanish. Recently, we just stopped having sex. She said she needed a break from sex and wouldn't give me a reason. I respect her break, but I'm her partner, I think she should trust me enough to tell me why. So I'm being patient and loyal and getting very sexually frustrated. We had a bad argument one day through text and I wanted to apologize. So I drove to her house, but she wasn't there. Her mother opened the door and greeted me and what not. She still invited me in and told me to wait for my gf. I should mention that I always found her mom attractive. She looked like a slightly older version of my pretty gf, they could pass for sisters. Anways, the mom was roasting pork loins. I did not like her cooking technique and wanted to show her how I flavor my pork loins. As I'm showing her my way, our bodies are kinda close to each other and her butt touched my crotch. A boner followed in 30 seconds. She did not move when she felt it, but I felt awkward so I moved. She did then turned around and gave me a dirty smile. Some dark magic must have took me over because I went in and kissed her and we fucked and I liked it and it was probably the best sex I ever had. The problem is, her mom kinda caught feelings for me and is threathening to tell her daughter what kind of cheating filth I am if I don't keep on fucking her (the mom). Her mom is blackmailing me because she had cameras in her room and had recorded us having sex. I'm not sure what to do. Opinions people?

[fun-weird-guy]

Her mom does not care about her and you do not care about her. If her mom did then she would not have sex with anyone her daughter is with is with. If you cared about and loved her you would not have sex with anyone else especially her mom which you did. You were wrong in the first place for being behind her mom so close that her butt could touch your crotch. Then you gave her mom a kiss. To make matters worse you had sex with you girlfriends mother. If your girlfriend finds out and gets mad at you I would not blame her because she would have every right to be mad at you and her mom. She would lose trust in you and her mom and probably will want nothing to do with you. Karma just might bite you in the ass and if it does because of what you are doing I would have no sympathy towards you.

[Asker]

I get that I'm guilty. What did I with her mother was unforgivable or maybe it isn't. I want to move on and to forget it but her mother wants me as her own boy toy and is blackmailling me. I'm getting screwed in the ass here, surely you can't think I'm the bad guy.

[fun-weird-guy]

So you want to say you are the good guy because her mom is blackmailing you. Since her mom is blackmailing you that makes you the victim when the victim of all of this is your girlfriend. She is the victim because you cheated on her with her own mother and you initiated the sex. What are you going to do if one day your girlfriends walks in on you having sex with her mother?

[Asker]

I don't think I will live through that day. She will beat the shit out of me if she ever walked in. This will be worst than Kurt Cobain.

[fun-weird-guy]

If you do not become her mothers boy toy she will tell her daughter your girlfriend about having sex with you but if you continue with her mother it means you continue to be an uncaring, unloyal, cheating scum. You need to get it over with and tell you girlfriend what is going on and then just move on.

[Asker]

Yes I did intate the kiss with her mom. The mother did not stop me and initiated the sex.

[fun-weird-guy]

If her mom initiated the sex like you say she did then you could have said no and walked away but you didn't.

[Asker]

When your gf had been with old in sex for 6 months, it's not natural instinct to say no that a woman that will offer it to you. I was thinking with my dick.

[fun-weird-guy]

@Asker Your dick does not have a brain so it can not think. You are trying to make an excuse to make yourself look good by saying your girlfriend withheld sex from you for 6 months. You had sex with someone who is not your girlfriend and most like do not have an open relationship so that makes you a cheater.

[Asker]

Well forgive me for giving in to temptation. I should have gone back home and fapped patiently until my girl finally felt like having sex. That would have probably been the best plan, but that wasn't the case. And of course my dick doesn't have a brain. I was metaphoric my dick for my sexual subconscious.

[Peter05]

Both you and the mother are grade A certified idiots. How old are you? The mother is smart and you wouldn't have gotten blackmailed if you didn't screw a old goat.

I am Sure this will end up badly. Your gf is at fault too but not to the extent you are. Sleeping with a family member is the worst thing.

Your gf might report you and her mum will stay the victim if you won't do as she says.

She should definitely put it online at least. You will learn your lesson. I am sure she won't let this go easily and she shouldn't. If she inherited the evil side of her mother as well your best bet is to run away.

[Asker]

The mother is evil. I was just lonely and gave in to temptation. She's blackmailling me because she wants me as her personal boy toy. She's fucking deranged, I would practically be her sex slave. And what is my gf going to report? I did nothing illegal, I'm 20. I made a mistake, I don't need all this shame, nobody is perfect. Maybe it is best to run away, thanks for the advice.

[Peter05]

Yeah run away but you can't expect her to forget you. She will probably chase you up and get revenge somehow. The worst thing is she will feel bad for her mother and her mother will play the victim. can't she report you for rape?

[Asker]

How she would report me for rape? The mother voluntarily fucked me. I simply initiated it. She could have said no or stop at anytime.

[Peter05]

Well her mum can say so and she can serve as witness adding the video recording. But most likely won't happen don't worry. Why don't you want to beher toy if she is so aattractive?

[Asker]

I wouldn't have a problem being her boy toy if I wasn't dating her daughter. My conscious gets too sensitive, I couldn't live two lies all the time.

[Paris13]

Not only did you show Mama how to--------Flavor your Pork loins, but Now she is going to teach you a Latino Lesson by------Cooking your Goose. And being this tough bird has all the Equipment to put you in the limelight, sweetie, you have two choices here: You can either come clean with your girlfriend, after you have said "Adios" to Mama and pray to God she forgives you and Still Even wants you in front of her face, let alone Again in her bed Or--------Break it off with your Moody mommy, and move on from Both Bonitas' lives for Good And-----For your Own good.
The way I see it, and the way I know Latinos, Chico, You're dead in the water no matter how the taco bell rings.
Good luck. xx

[Asker]

I wish my gf would act the way you said in your response and just peacefully break up. She however won't. She will get violent with me and take her mother's side believing that I have enough sway to seduce a 40 year old lonely divorced Latina woman. I'm a victim of my own mistake. There is no mercy for me :(

[Paris13]

I am diplomatic here, straight shooter, although not a murderess but however, I would be Angry as all hell if you did it to me... maybe for Now she will take Mama's side, but later on, she will turn against her, when she realizes her mom back stabbed her... Can't you see the movie now? "Mom, why? Why? Why in hell did you do this to me? You know I loved him..." She is a bit whack, and you will be too if you are not careful... I see Big time retaliation here, beware...

[Paris13]

Hope everything turns out okay... Glad I could be here for you. xx

[abundantlyrich]

Is this a Latino cultural element? One stone for two birds. You get the best of both worlds. But it's with a double edge sword. :D. And if the daughter is accepting, this could be an awkward long term relationship with the occasional temptress mother trying to get in between you two. Watch out... Jealousy reigns.

[scarygoodyr34]

At this point, you should just tell your gf. She might believe you, she might get very mad at you, she might not believe you, she might get mad at you and then break up with you.

[Asker]

If she breaks up, I get it, I was unfaithful, I get it. Except my gf gets wild when she's angry, she's crazy enough to put graffiti on my car and destroy some of my things. She feels that she's a prize woman and acts like she has a golden vagina, she wouldn't be able to calmly stand the fact that her own bf found her mother just as attractive.

[luna33]

@Asker you deserve it, next time don't play with fire.

[scarygoodyr34]

Tell her while she's in a different room then? I don't know what to tell you about how to handle your gf's temper.

[dreamondreamer]

You need to tell your girlfriend, and you also need to explain to her what her mother is doing to you.

[Asker]

I have a strange feeling that my gf woul respond by causing me a lot of physical harm. I didn't want to sleep with her mom, I was sexually frustrated and gave in to temptation. I'm not a bad guy.

[dreamondreamer]

Well I mean if you are honestly afraid she is going to physically harm you than possibly you should just end the relationship with her. That is not a very safe situation to put yourself in.

[Asker]

Maybe that's what I will have to do. I don't want to be her mother's little slut but I also don't want to get slapped non stop by my gf.

[dreamondreamer]

Does her mother realize that what she is doing to you is illegal? You might also want to try to explain that to her. And exactly nobody should be anybody's person whipping toy in a relationship

[Asker]

The mother is only holding the tape to show it ad proof to her daughter. She doesn't want other people seeing it as they would finally know what kind of woman that she really is. I love my gf, but she denied me sex for no reason. It would be unfair for her to be violent. I honestly hope she could just yell at me and then tell at her mom and then try to forgive me. But she will side with her mom who will try to act like I took advantage of a lonely divorced woman.

[dreamondreamer]

If you do truly love her than you should be 100% honest with her.

[Asker]

Would you be violent toward your bf if he told you those news? Maybe your reply can help me better expect her reaction.

[dreamondreamer]

Not at all, I would be hurt and I might say a few hurtful words. I would most likely be creeped out. And I mean you also got a look at it from her point of few, how would you feel/ react if you found out she had sex with your father or mother

[Asker]

I would probably curse a little and then peacefully break up with her.

[Shybliss66]

There is no win in the situation. You need to come clean and suffer the consequences. It's obviously not love.

[Asker]

I just hope she doesn't act violent -_-

[Paris13]

Too late... They just don't get Mad, they Get-----Even Steven...

[bdeakol]

Is this a legit story? I really need to know.

[Asker]

Unfortunately. I wish it wasn't.

[OldDinosaur]

Make a real "mom and daughter screw boyfriend" p*rno and give the daughter the money cause your a scumbag anyway.

[Asker]

Hold up. My gf denied me sex for a long time thus leaving me pretty sexually frustrated. I didn't want to fuck her mom, I was weak and gave in to temptation. Do I deserved to get made into a slut by her mother and abused for cheating by my gf because of some stupid mistake? I'm not a bad guy.

[messedupgirlyxo]

So MASTURBATE don't sleep with her mother!! you're crazy. yes, yes you do. you're a bad guy.

[SleepyChan]

Do you expect us to congratulate you? Your girlfriend deserves better.

[Asker]

I get that, but she won't just move on. She will possibly become violent and spread this on social media and put graffiti on my car. If it was as easy as me confessing and getting dumped, then I would have already done it.

[SleepyChan]

You most likely deserve it on social media but not graffiti. That's illegal. Dump her and just leave. Change your number, get off Facebook and Twitter.

[sibelcan_a]

Her mother is a fucking imbecile and I hope your dick falls off.

[Asker]

Don't worry, my gf can get violent enough to make sure it happens. I made a mistake and wanted to move on, but I'm getting blackmailed and for some reason, many people think I'm the bad guy -_-

[sibelcan_a]

Bad guy or not, you slept with her mother. As bad as this may sound, if it was a friend that would have been easier. She'd be rid of you both and move on. But her MOTHER? How the fuck will she ever get over that. I'm not judging you as a person, I just think that you obviously think more with your penis than with your brain. Also, if you genuinely feel threatened with your girlfriends violence, tell her over a phone call.

[Asker]

She unfortunately knows where I live -_-

[thisGUYknows]

she marinated the wrong pork!

[Mesonfielde]

Blackmailing means she planned it, which means you should probably do VOTE E)
RUUUUUUUUUN

to be honest, you shouldn't cheat in a committed relationship. That's kinda what "commitment" implies, you know.

[Asker]

My girlfriend had denied me sex for a long time. I didn't want to sleep with her mom, but I was sexually frustrated and gave in to temptation. I'm not a bad guy, I just made a mistake. You get that?

[Mesonfielde]

Oh... then you really just ought to break up and run now I think if they don't know where you live.

[Asker]

My gf knows where I live. I'm worried she will get violent with me if she finds out. I don't hit women so I feel that she will take advantage of that fact and cause me lots of physical harm.

[Mesonfielde]

I'm not sure what you should do at this point, get paprika spray maybe just in case? Make sure you apply sufficient distance if you use it, it's not good if you harm her physically because they can use that against you in court.

[Asker]

That sounds like a decent idea with the paprika spray. I'm 6 ft tall and muscular, she's 5ft5 and a little thick. Me hitting her would be pretty much abuse.

[Mesonfielde]

Well, it IS designed for self-defense and they can't say you were trying to murder her or anything considering it doesn't have long-term effects, it just disables the person for a bit. Use that only if it's really necessary, I really hope that no such violence will take place though.

[luna33]

Vote E, add A too. Shame on you chico!

[Asker]

It was a mistake. Nobody is perfect. I don't deserve go get blackmailed.

[luna33]

And your gf did not deserve to be cheated and with her mom. An advice : Think before you act. Tell her but don't expect her (gf) to act like nothing bad happens. Her mom will get her share eventually, I hope you learn the lesson.

[Asker]

I want to leave her mom alone, but she's blackmailling him. She just can't let that one time slide, she wants me as her personal boy toy. I worked too hard in life to be the sex slave of a deranged milf lonely divorced Latina woman.

[soccerchick4eva]

i recon you should tell the girl... what happens if one day she walked into her mum and you have sex?

[Asker]

She will probably assault me and the mom will pretend to having been raped.

[soccerchick4eva]

for which part if you tell her or if she walked into seeing that..

[Asker]

If she walked in.

[soccerchick4eva]

exactly... isn't it safer to tell her...

[Asker]

She knows where I live. She will get revenge whether I tell her or she finds out by herself. She believes she has a golden vagina and I'm just a bronze dick who she fell for. She would seriously offendes if she knew I didn't believe that she had a golden vagina.

[soccerchick4eva]

well do what everyone else says then , you're in a tough spot man, just run and hide for your life aha

[Okasdin]

What the fuck is wrong with you man?

[Asker]

Why are you taking the women sides? I'm the one getting blackmailed and screwed over. The mom is not innocent -_-

[fun-weird-guy]

@asker you are the one who initiated the kiss and the sex with her mom.

[Prof_Don]

Just tell ur gf... it sux to do that but at least u avoid being blackmailed!

[Asker]

I have this strange feeling that she just won't cry and curse, I have a bad feeling that she will want to cause me physical harm.

[Prof_Don]

This relationship seems volatile anyway. I say break up with her. Then tell her after you're broken up u got with her mom.

[Prof_Don]

Tell her over the phone.

[Terryrocks]

She knows where you live? You're screwed. If I would be her I'll fuck your friends. One by one. I definitely would get revenge. I am also pretty evil but hey? Her mother is fantastic. I admire women who know how to trick men.

[Asker]

It makes no sense in fucking my friends if she would dump me anways after finding out. Her mother is deranged and evil, she wants me as her boy toy. If she had it her way, I would be her personal sex slave.

[Terryrocks]

Oh boy you would feel bad. Trust me you will feel bad. She can also do your dad (no offence)

[Asker]

But then again, she would also be making other men think that she's a slut. Her plan would backfire and if she fucked my dad, I would question her taste in men lol. Her mom is actually pretty, my dad is average.

[Terryrocks]

I don't think she would care.

[Terryrocks]

Wow.. such hypocrisy.

[jointhepatriarchy]

You are disgusting. Seriously. So is this girl's mother.

[Asker]

I knew it was a mistake. But I'm not the only guilty one. Her mother wants me as her own boy toy and is blackmailing me. She's not disgusting either?

[Asker]

Never mind, forget what I said. I read your comment too fast, sorry.

[Paris13]

Yes, Mama is guilty as charged, you Both are at fault, and having stabbed her own daughter in her heart will surely cause her little girl a----Broken heart. And if she finds out, which Obviously Mommy Dearest could give a rat's behind about, her and her little one will never be as One again, I promise you... Grudge bearing till the day she dies...

[atomique]

Be honest with her. You have a better chance of salvaging the relationship if you take your lumps now rather than the truth comes out later.

[brianawilld]

I'm sorry but YOU and her "MOM" are both fucked up in the head... toodle lou.

[rUinSAYAN]

you know what. its already over but look at it the positive way. as Long as your gf with her golden vag. denys you, you have sex with her double, you could even try asking for a treesome. for real the chances you get things bend over now is too low to confess. get dat dirty mom, she was playing with you from beginning of (does she have a husband?). the worst thing is going to be a good row with the husband. you are fcked anyways

[Asker]

The mom is lonely and divorced. She just wants me as her boy toy and my gf has lots of mood swings and hopes to marry me someday. I probably fucked anways, I just hope she doesn't get violent if she found out -_- I'm 6ft ans muscular, she's 5ft5 and a little thick. I can't defend myself again her. I would too easily wreck her body.

[rUinSAYAN]

do what you want. she will maybe hit you know aswell as she will if she finds out later

[Endeavor]

You should get a threesome with them.

[Asker]

Part of me actually wants that but they're not that kinky lol.

[Endeavor]

If the mom had sex with her daughter's boyfriend and recorded it, that's pretty dirty. I doubt she would be opposed to having the daughter come in on it. You just have to find some way to get your girlfriend into it.

[Asker]

My girlfriend thinks she has a golden vagina that no women can compare to. She will attempt to choke me before ever saging yes to a threesome lol.

[Endeavor]

Some people find choking to be erotic. If she does have a golden vagina, don't you think her mom should taste the juices from your dick after you pop it out? Am I going to far with this? haha

[Infla772]

Great story!!

[Strider90]

damn! you're so lucky!!! Mom and daughter at the same time? I call this heaven!!!

[Asker]

These women are dangerous tho.

[Strider90]

consider the danger as the price for all the fun you're going to get. I envy you. Keep it up.

[Terryrocks]

Do you realise she can ruin his life? I think you need to get a taste of it to understand.