Please read it. It's about sexting guilt of a 25 year old guy. Do comment.

[25man]

I dont know how I can express my guilt exactly here. I can't share this with any of my real friends because of the fact that it can spoil my and my family image in the society. I am not a kind of a guy who talks dirty with every woman he meets or think sexually about them. I accept that I have a high sex drive and I masturbate regularly but at the same time I respect women a lot. I met some girls online and made very nice friends with them and never talked sexually with them. Because of the fact that I was single and never went in a relationship I got diverted because of my high sex drive and went into sex chatrooms and found some horny girls and had sexting experience with them. The thing which kills me most is the fact that I showed them dick pic in exchange of their nudes. Although it was totally anonymous and there is no chance of me getting exposed or my image getting spoiled because it was just my penis and nothing else. Not my face and no birth marks or tatoos. I told them only my first name and never shared any other facts (neither they asked). The very truth of me doing such a disgusting thing makes me feel sick about myself. I had never even drunk or smoked. But this is worser then anything in the world. Not that I raped someone or hurt someone it was all mutual and done for fun and no person was cheated as I was single only. But it still feels sick of thinking that a guy like me did such a disgusting thing. I know there is no way I can feel better but I want you to share your thoughts after reading this and if possible your similar experiences.

[Anonymous]

Hey now, don't beat yourself up over this. I've done something similar: when I was single, for a while I visited chatrooms and downloaded services like Kik - just to exchange dirty pics and naughty chat with random users. I felt sort of ashamed afterwards and it's not something I'll ever share with my boyfriend, but here's the way I rationalized my actions. I was randy, lonely, and it was all anonymous, 100%. I didn't keep any of the pictures I received and immediately stopped those online activities as soon as I found my boyfriend. If you're worried it's becoming a habit or slight addiction, try staying off the internet while you're alone, with no one around. If that's not possible, download a software that'll keep you from accessing certain websites. Or you could just promise yourself that you're gonna stop doing this stuff and maybe go out more - spend more time with friends and family. You might even meet a girl.

[25man]

I stopped it around 5 months ago. I did met a wonderful girl but I dint accept her love because she dint knew me completely (the sexting part was not known to her). I dont wanna say that you took a wrong decision of not telling your bf about your past and thats justified because being a guy its difficult to handle a girl's past. But in my case I had promised myself to be 100% honest with my future gf.

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm... well, I only did those things for a month or two before I met him, and I didn't sext with others too frequently. Maybe once a week or so. The reason I didn't tell him is because it had nothing to do with him or our relationship, just like your actions shouldn't affect your next relationship. Besides, if our partners truly love us, they can find a way to accept who we are and any things we've done that may be questionable or wrong. So don't let this harmless hobby (which you've stopped) ruin your chance at a real relationship.

[25man]

I truly appreciate your views. Mine was like in a period of 8-9 months. But it was on and off types. I used to delete everything and decide not to do it again and then same thing used to repeat. I did it around 5-7 times in all. But you are right it has nothing to do with our respective future or current relationships. So it should be cleared out from the mind. I will try finding a great girl ofline because I want it to happen that way. Just wish I find someone understanding. Thanks once again and wish you a great blessed life ahead. :-)

[Bee168]

Million of guys experience the same thing, curious, try, enjoy and wanna do again and again. If they were in your shoes, trust me, they do the same. The worst I would say is those girls who did that!!
You're fine. You've changed for your love one way. I'm proud of you👏

[25man]

Thank you for having a faith in me. But what is difference between a girl doing it and a guy doing it?

[singlegirl1992]

If anything, the difference is that girls may be more likely to get emotionally attached to the people they're sexting. But you (asker) didn't get involved with anyone and stopped sexting once you felt ashamed of it. That's a good sign - it means you weren't looking for a relationship with those girls. You obviously want something real, which you'll find once you let go of your guilt. We've all done something like this that we aren't proud of, but dwelling on it won't help you! Just remember that you actually stopped doing what you were doing - that's huge, and I think it says a lot about you as a person. Not many people would even feel the need to stop.

[25man]

@singlegirl1992 thanks for commenting. I appreciate that you support me knowing what I had done. I know its hard to get over that guilt. But I can assure this world and my family and even my future family that I will never do anything which can spoil their or mine reputation. I really hope I find an understanding girl like you and be able to give her a good life which she deserves. Regarding the relationship with girls online it was always a one time thing and it wasn't an everyday thing. It was like once or twice a month. But stil whats wrong is wrong and thankfully its over. Thanks once again for understanding me and giving me hopes. May you have a great life ahead. :-)

[Jaz1295]

Dude you need to chill shit happens, people are curious. You tired something you wanted to and now you probably won't do it again. You didn't force any of the girls to do anything they did it willingly. No judgment here

[25man]

If your bf or your future bf tells you about this as his past, will you accept him?

[Jaz1295]

Yes I would honestly

[25man]

And you won't feel disguisting about the fact that the guy who you are dating and probably marry had shown his thing to some random chicks (though anonymously)?

[Jaz1295]

No because it was his past, he wasn't with me then. I don't expect to marry a guy who's perfect

[25man]

And what about his false image in the society of being a respectable person? Won't you feel uncomfortable with such guy who was showing to be nice in front of others?

[Jaz1295]

No not unless you did something that would make you a criminal. Personal life is separate from societal life to me

[25man]

I could barely find a sorted girl like you in this world. You have a lucky bf. Thank you. :-)

[Jaz1295]

Thanks, the right girl will accept you

[25man]

Hopefully. Thanks again :-)

[BertMacklinFBI]

whats done is done. if you feel so bad you know now from experience to not do it again. i barely had a similar experience, this girl was snapping me and she wanted nudes:P and she was gonna send me some but she's a minor so i said no and i just deleted her. all sorts of people on the internet man. dont feel bad anymore just do the right thing from now on.

[Anonymous]

You have fucked up views on sex.

This is normal, natural, nothing to feel guilty about at all.

[25man]

I dont think they are my views else I won't be feeling guilty. I met a girl who was a non virgin and used to feel guilty about her experiences and then a close friend (girl) of mine got fingured and felt extreme guilt even suicidal. These made me think about my life and the direction I was heading towards.

[Opinion Owner]

They had fucked up views and pushed them onto. you.

[25man]

Yeah I think so. But its not going away. 5 months and still on.

[bearkiller]

ı have never try to chat but ı want to try it.

[25man]

Please dont share your private part pics. There is no problem in chatting.

[Anonymous]

hate how us guys have to be the initiators

[25man]

Initiator of what?

[Opinion Owner]

Dating and relationships

[25man]

Our society works this way.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I'm aware of that and I don't like how it has to be one-sided like that

[Anonymous]

I've done this but in a much dumber way. You'll be fine. The fact that you have remorse for it shows you are an awesome man.

[25man]

Thank you. It means something after someone knows me completely and still says this. Although people keep saying this about me specially my silly friends and family lol. They know nothing. And please don't feel bad if you are feeling it because of your mistakes afterall mistakes are meant to be made by humans only. Just smile. :-):-)