Did he get a boner from me sitting on his lap?

So I'm almost 15 and my boyfriend for a month now is 16. I would tend to sit on his lap a ton because we were at sleep away camp and space was tight plus it was fun. A lot of the time when I would sit I wouldn't feel anything but then sometimes I would feel something slowly start to poke my but until i was sitting on something kinda hard. did I give him a boner? And should I address him when this happens?
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  • I know this question is old but I will answer anyway. Guys love girls and women's asses, they are very sexual for us. Pretty much every guy loves a girls ass in tight jeans and I think tight faux leather pants to for many guys. Both these pants turn guys on like you would not believe. Now think about what you're doing when you sit on a guys lap. You are taking your ass, (which us guys find very sexy) and placing it strait onto his pen*s (which is also another sexual body part). The guy gets so turned on and aroused because of the contact between his pen*s and your ass and gets a boner that pushes against your ass really hard. The more he likes your ass the more aroused he will get when that contact is made. Guys can't help this it is nature.

    • Also the more he likes your ass the harder his boner will get.

    • thank you for your answer plus one of my friends was trying to pull me up but he was holding me down making my ass move over it that prob made it worse

    • Ok do you want to know the honest truth.

  • Of course he got a boner. 16 yro guys get them all the time, especially when near girls. Take it as a compliment. Look at it and say" someone is happy to see me". He should not be embarrassed, it happens to every guy. I am sure when he gets the opportunity he will masturbate to "relieve" things so to speak.

Most Helpful Girls

  • That happens all the time when I sit on a guys lap. It's no big deal. It happens to every guy.

    • So u think he did have a boner? And should I say something or stay quiet?

    • More than likely he did. Every guy had one whenever I sat on their laps.

  • It just means he's attracted by you, take it as a compliment.

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  • you gave him a boner but dont tell him he knows lol
    you will just embarrass him

  • Yes , you have him hard on but his age you would embarrass him
    if you tell him about what you know

  • It's only natural he'll get a boner from you sitting on his lap as he's a young guy and you're his girlfriend so you'll turn him on.

    • thanks

  • Yes you probably did and no you should not address it.

  • Yes at that age, of course he is going to get a boner when you sit on his lap, if you plan to do something with it, address it, if not, just enjoy the fact you are turning him on

    • so i did actually start do something with it another time is it like a good idea to make like a comment about it while doing so or no?

    • You can whisper to him like ohh you are hard for me I like that or something. But just rubbing it or something ov er his pants will drive him wild

  • Indeed. Welcome to reality. And no, he doesn't command his boner: it happens when you turn him on. (sometimes without any reason too)

  • Yes he did get a boner. Two things will happen when you address it.
    1. He will blatantly deny it out of embarrassment, or shock.
    2. He will turn on his sexual game and get freaky towards you.

    If you do not mind either then by all means go address it.

    • What do u mean he will turn on his sexual game

  • probably he got boner because of you. but take it as a compliment he likes you and you turned him on :)