Kinky ways to 'punish' your boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Need some naughty ideas to 'punish' my guy. Never done anything with him before but we know something is going to happen. Any suggestions? Like good places to bite him or something?

[ThePragmaticRomantic]

Really with 'kinky punishments' it's all sold in the expectation and the delivery.

Make vague hints, get him to keep guessing, make him WANT the 'punishment' if only to find out what it is.
Build it up enough and they won't even care if its just an unexpectedly firm french kiss.

A few good ideas are
Contact denial: classic sexy dancing/trying on something sexy but he is not allowd to touch, or suddenly stopping a backrub and simply blowing gently upon him.
Attaching forfeits to things you enjoy doing: Classic example being giving him oral, while he plays say a driving game, but if he crashes the blowjob finishes (don't be to harsh, you want to keep him buzzed and a little frustraited, not annoyed).
Limiting movement: Making out with him sat in a chair either with his hands tied behind his back or him sat upon them.
Playing with sensations: Blindfold, feathers, ice, your mouth, have fun.

[Asker]

Thank you so much! The most I've ever done with a guy is kiss one... these are some great ideas and the ones I have little experience in that I can't do now I can do in the future ;) like that videogame one lol

[Asker]

I will definitely blindfold him. that will also make things less awkward or anything. maybe tie his hands behind his back too...

[ThePragmaticRomantic]

Best of luck. Take things slow. Talk and tease more than anything else. Remain open to discussion of what you each liked and disliked afterwards. And don't over reach yourself and do something you'll feel uncomfortable about in the morning.

[Asker]

Yeah, really slow lol. I'm so excited and nervous at the same time. I don't expect everything will be perfect, but he is honestly like no other guy i know. and we have liked eachother since the end of last year. Yeah, it would become awkward if we never mentioned it again or something. whatever i feel like doing at the time is what ill do. he would never make me do something i didn't want to.

[Asker]

it's goign to be at a sleepover so i get to snuggle with him afterwards! could be a very memorable night

[thewho1975]

open wallet surgery and when he's asleep go buy yourself something then wake him up and say oh my darlin thankyou! lol

[Trustme_Im-lying]

Kick his Balls?

[Anonymous]

A spanking is sexy. First, tell him to drop his pants and underwear and bend over your lap, though.

[Anonymous]

Tie him up, tell him that he has been bad and that your going to use toys on him

[Asker]

I like it

[Opinion Owner]

I used a strapon on my husband, but he likes toys. The whole prostate thing really opened up new ideas for us both.

[karentitter]

nooooo pegging gross dsgusting you n**