Guys and Girls: What do you think of a female who masturbates?

I remember back in high school, one of my friends masturbated and she was still a virgin. When people found out, everyone called her a desperate whore. Which didn't make sense, considering she was a virgin. She would cry because everyone called her a slut. I would defend her, and even though I was a virgin back then and had never even kissed a boy, some idiots said I was "a slut by association." Idk, so what do guys and girls here think about female masturbation? Or even guys or just people masturbating? And yes, I do have sex toys and use the shower head, but I don't like fingering myself, maybe just playing with my nipples. So go ahead and label away lol Just honestly curious about this. . Thanks in advance :)
A female who masturbates is skanky
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Female masturbation is acceptable and people who call them skanks are being too judgmental
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Just don't hate, masturbate
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Thanks for the responses so far people! I wish I could have show her these comments back then. She was a bit overweight and already insecure about herself. So being called a "fat desperate whore" just drove her self esteem lower. :(
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  • There is absolutely nothing wrong with a man or woman masturbating. I would bet dollars to donuts that the jackasses you and your friend encountered feel the same way. You see, some people will grasp onto anything -- anything! -- that would enable them to put other people down, because it is only by making themselves feel superior to other people that they are able to feel merely okay about themselves. It's a kind of predatory self-esteem. People with predatory self-esteem tend to be assholes by any means necessary to everyone, even their future wives and children, so you and all of your friends would do well to stay away from them.

  • My ex would use a massive cucumber on herself. I had to dump her she became loose as. Felt like I was having sex with a black hole in space. Just say away from over sized objects otherwise it will be harder to satisfy your partner unless he's p*rn star size

    • I don't like sticking big things in there. In fact, I prefer the small vibrators. Or there are some that just like clasp onto to the g spot and clitoris, they don't go deep into the vagina. And there's one that is like a wheel of tongues that's supposed to simulate being eaten, but it doesn't really feel the same :/ lol but I prefer the shower head, at different speeds to just focus on my clit. I've never been a fan of deep penetration, with a dildo or real penis. So my toys are smaller than what most women might prefer. Look at me, I sound like a damn perv haha.

    • haha you certainly know your toys and what you like ! Glad to hear your keeping clear of the over sized objects :) . Sounds like nothing can compare to a real tongue though !!! But you still let him go all the way in right? I hope so for his sake lol :P

    • Yea, I sound like a fucking pervert lol Oh well. It's hard to find something that feels like getting oral. No toys compare, only the shower head maybe. On a really warm setting and experimenting with different speeds and temperatures. I prefer really hot water and pulsing. Sometimes a slow steady stream does the trick too. And yea, I cannot stress out to guys how important clitoral stimulation is!!! I LOVE getting eaten. There is nothing better than having him taste and explore your vagina with his tongue, licking every single drop. Squirting in his mouth from pure pleasure of his tongue. That's so fucking hot to me. And yea, I let him go in as deep as he wants. But first he always makes sure to focus on my g spot and the opening, cuz that's where the most nerves are and that's what makes me cum. Then when I do, it's his turn to thrust as fast and deep so he can cum. We make sure to make each other cum and orgasm ;)

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  • Having a sexual appetite is a healthy part of being human. If you can't satisfy that appetite with an another person, then that doesn't devalidate having those feelings. So of course it's healthy to satisfy yourself.

    In high school, it's really political, and some teenagers look for any reason at all to disgrace others... even silly or trivial idiosyncrasies. "sluttiness" is often the generic insult to spew at girls, so it makes sense that they'd defer to that, even though it completely lacked reason or creativity.

    Your friend should have laughed at them. Few things are funnier than a poorly-thought-out insult. :)

    • Caveat: If your friend was masturbating in front of a webcam... weeeeeell, THEN she might have been considered a little slutty, lol :)

  • I guess females aren't allowed to have libidos. I wasn't sexually active before my boyfriend and he was shocked that such an innocent girl who hasn't had sex could be so horny. I am super horny but I learned to please myself. This means I enjoy sex more but don't need it to get off. Much easier to o from touching myself too.

  • Masturbation is normal those kids no nothing slut should not be associated with a woman who is into pleasing herself. I masturbate and I love being sexually liberated and not having to feel like I need a man to please me especially because I am single and not into casual sex. When I feel the urge I satisfy it myself.

    • Me too girl, I'm right with you. I don't like casual sex, so when I'm single, I have to please myself. I never saw it as anything bad, but I guess that's what happens when religious people teach the sex ed and have everyone afraid of masturbation.

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  • There is nothing hotter than watching my wife masturbate. I absolutly love it. There is something naughty about watching. After all she knows where things feel best, watching her pleasure herself is a huge turn on. And when she finally reaches orgasm to watch her whole body quiver is incredible. There is nothing wrong with masturbation and it is an incredible thing to share with your partner. My wife likes to watch me jerk off too, good for the goose good for the gander!

  • It's a healthy habit I mean we don't call guys sluts or whores and we all know nearly all of them masturbate

  • Masturbation is soooooo... NORMAL!

  • There is nothing wrong with masturbation! Probably 99% of the girls who called her a slut and shit masturbate too!!! Everyone is curious about their body and there is nothing wrong with it!!

  • Everyone masturbates just like everyone poops.

  • B without question, why would people even frown upon that? It's normal and healthy, as well a turn on to be honest. If someone is judging someone else for something as trivial as that I would think they need to really consider basic human needs/desire.

  • I learned to have an orgasm before I had sex. Women should do that too. If you don't know what feels good, how's he going to know?

  • That's always gonna be in the societys norms people are too ignorant. That's just safe sex and she takes consider of her feelings instead of going around

  • I'd have serious concerns about dating a woman who didn't masturbate regularly.

  • I like it when a girl can openly admit that she masturbates. It seems most women think it's something they need to hide. I don't really masturbate myself. Maybe every couple of months because if I don't it will happen in my sleep. But I used to masturbate quite often. Anyway it's more of a self control thing for me I enjoy feeling like I'm in control of all of my urges.

  • Female masturbation is so sexy to see and hear about. Love it.

    • Girls do it too. But unfortunately, I know in my environment, just a woman talking about doing it would have everyone consider her "dirty" or "desperate" or "slutty." I guess it had a lot to do with religious zealots teaching our "sex ed" and basically shunning masturbation, anal, oral sex, anything other than missionary after marriage they pretty much flat out and said you were worthless. Which is why most ladies I knew never spoke of it. You'd only tell really close friends that you knew wouldn't spill your secret. But I said fuck that, why do we let others judge and control our lives? Don't hate, masturbate.

    • Exactly. There is literally nothing wrong with it. Like... LITERALLY nothing. As long as you aren't doing it in an inappropriate place where everyone can see it.

    • Lol for real. She did it in her house, in her room alone. She accidentally told her friend, and some stupid immature boy overheard and began calling her desperate and dirty. I'd stand up for her, but people would call me "slut by association." We were both virgins back then too lol But idk, when almost everyone is Catholic, female sexuality is frowned upon. Now I don't give a fuck lol I can make myself orgasm and squirt, I can do the job better for myself than guys haha. My boyfriend is religious Catholic and he is not too fond of me masturbating. I told him, I can't see him or fuck him all the time, so I satisfy myself.

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  • I had masturbated with some girls mutually over the chat and once over the phone. I find it quite cool when a girl is open about her views on sex and doesn't hesitate from satisfying her desires.

  • Dudes that chide women for masturbating aren't REALLY taking the moral high ground, although they'd love for people to believe that.

    But no, no, no... what they're really doing is this: expressing a deep, dark insecurity that if a woman masturbates and gets herself off (GASP!!!), the chances that him and his dick are no longer needed magically sky-rocket, and their prospects for a va-jay-jay-less future become even greater.

    It's the same reason that SOME dudes dislike their GF's having sex toys and shit like that; it's the exact same principle, twisted as it it.

    It's silly and stupid and ridiculous, but I'll guarantee you that this is what's at the root of it.

    Anyway, who cares what they think? You've just got something that they want, and they're afraid that you're gonna hoard it all to yourself. It's just insecurity on their part. Their loss.

  • I think it is very sexy and why shouldn't you?
    If i would never masturbate in my life i would probably already loose my patience and i have no clue what would have happened as a result.

    Personally i really like it when a girl masturbates and is not affraid to be open about it but if she is more shy on the subject that is of course not a problem at all ^^.

  • There is nothing wrong with the girl she needs a
    friend like me who was made fun of and knows
    all about what she went through it wasn't easy
    i see she had people who were fake friends to her
    so what if she masturbates that was her business
    anyone calls any girl a skank needs their ass kicked
    so what if girls masturbate and that doesn't make
    her a whore or slut i smell jealousy not far from me
    i don't take no shit off of bully's and people who
    hurt others that is all bullshit i begged bully's to
    meet me on Skype/ Web-cam they hide from me

  • They're skanks and an abomination to the world and should be killed!! xD Just kidding... can't stop hormones.

  • Girl, boy, straight, gay, lesbian... whatever you may be, you should all be masturbating bc it feels good and you're just denying yourself of pleasure if you dont

  • Masturbation is healthy. It's good for you. I'd be more likely, everything else being equal, to be interested in a girl I knew masturbated than one who didn't. She'd be more likely to be in touch (literally) with her body and know how to make herself feel good. That would be great for me if we ever had a sexual relationship, because she'd be able to help me help her get off.

  • There is nothing wrong with masturbation. It isn't a sin, it isn't skanky, desperate or slutty. It is a way of finding out what pleases you sexually, and is a good way to relieve stress.

  • hey masturbation is 100% natural and there's nothing wrong with it

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