Do guys like it when a girl straddles him while making out?

well in a week or so I'm gonna have my first make out session with my bf for his birthday (he asked for it for his birthday... don't even ask just go with it) and I want it to be awesome for both of us and I was wondering if guys liked it if a girl straddles them while making out. To me straddling is sitting on his lap facing him while he's sitting with my legs either side of his legs. Do you guys like it? What does it feel like?
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also are you guys comfortable if you get a boner while the girl does this or do you try and move her so she doesn't notice
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Most Helpful Girls

  • There’s older guy that wants to kiss Me & do a passionate kiss while we are out walking. Then he wants to run his hands down My butt. & he takes viagra. I asked him if I can sit on his lap & he would welcome Me on his lap. There’s no telling if he is going to try to straddle Me. I bet he will get a boner.

  • guys love that a lot. a lot a lot. go for it.
    he probably will get a boner but he most likely won't move you. if you want you can move your hips a bit they love that.

  • my guy really likes it but it does give him a boner… it is really nice to make out while straddling him though

Most Helpful Guys

  • Definitely one of the hottest positions. If this is your first time making out though, he might be pretty taken aback. As for the boner, I might try to covertly adjust so its not so obvious, but I wouldn't worry too much about it, since I'd be pretty... preoccupied.

  • It is fun and a nice way to pet and an erection is going to happen and don't be surprised if you excite him to the point he ejaculates when a guy is young he has a harder time controlling holding back ejaculating

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  • Yes, bonus points if you wrap your legs around his side/waist at some point.

  • Guys get very embarrassed when a girl feels their awkward boners through clothing, I guess it really depends where you are, is there people around... don't be surprised if he gets hard because my ex used to do the same thing and I'm hard in seconds haha

  • From a personal point of view I really like a woman to straddle me. If I got hard I wouldn't tryand hide it. After all its a compliment.

  • Sure it's ok, just keep your shirt on! ;^)

  • I think it would be okay.

  • yes straddle him it will show him your in control and you want it as bad as he does. as far as him getting a boner I want her to know she has excited me I wouldn't hide it at all!

  • Of course why not lol.

  • I love it when my gf does it. Its the hottest and more comfortable position. Feels so good. You can also ride the D if you're both ready ;)

  • We like it and I hope you like feeling a boner.

  • No, it would make me extremely uncomfortable.

  • That's probably the best position ever for that

  • Straddling is very intimate and helps with the bond between a man and a woman when they kiss. :-)

    I personally try to reposition the girl if I get an erection, because I know that if she feels and gets aroused, things could go too far, and I want to save myself for marriage.

    • Yes, I have a penis. I was born with a defect.

    • Interesting. Do you also have female genitalia?

    • Yes, I do. Both are fully functional, albeit my penis is slightly smaller than a typical male's penis. I identify as a woman as I also have breasts and a woman's voice.

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  • Nope, it's illegal.

    • Really?

    • Yeah, unfortunately it is. You can only straddle a person when having discussions, since their mouth is free. When you block their airway AND sit on top of them, you risk injury or worse to them.

    • I wouldn't be on him as such I'd be on his lap

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  • Never makeout, if you're not putting out, it sends the wrong signals, especially if you're straddling him (in fact, the strip club I go to, they've outlawed straddling)

    • Truth tho.

    • Exactly yo

  • I would like it... if a girls is on me making out, I'm not sure I could not get a boner. I probably wouldn't try to move it, I mean she should realize what she's doing.. but maybe if I was younger I might try to hide it a bit.