Guys: blowjob orgasm vs. sex orgasm. Which is better?

it seems like when my boyfriend cums from a blowjob, it's much more intense. He shakes, moans, etc. When we are having sex, he just goes faster and harder. No sounds, doesn't seem like much is taking over him! Am i just not good at sex or is my pussy not tight enough for him? :( How is it different when you 'cum' from blowjobs vs. sex?
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  • Sex for me.

    But you have to remember that when you're giving him a BJ, he only has to relax and cum. When he's banging you, he's doing most of the work physically, and he has to keep tight control over himself (to prevent cumming too quickly), has to pay attention to you and make sure you are getting pleasure, and often has to maintain his balance or position during all of this. This means his brain is running very close to 100% in order to keep up with all of this, and that doesn't leave him many "CPU cycles" left to do things like moan. Many guys are very quiet and seem to have a blank expression during sex, but it's really just that they are concentrating intently and trying to multitask, something that guys generally don't do well and doesn't come easy for us.

    If he is having orgasms, then you're fine, and have nothing to worry about in the intercourse department. His reactions are fairly normal.

    • He doesn't cum every time :( Sometimes throughout sex, its like my vagina stretches however long we're doing it. Its tight in the beginning and gets fairly wet and loose eventually. Im doing 500 kegels a day now.

    • That's normal. Vaginas are made up of elastic muscles that stretch and contract. And while Kegels are good, don't worry too much about it. If he's not cumming every time, it's likely that something else is bothering him: stress (from work, family, financial issues, etc.), being nervous (about his performance, perhaps), medications, etc. It's a rare exception that this has anything to do with the girl, but if you are worried about it, just ASK HIM. And if he says it isn't you, BELIEVE HIM, because he's almost certainly telling you the truth.

    • LOL. You really sound like Quagmire, MrOracle... you know your stuff about sex XD!

  • Blowjob is just your hand jerking it fro him or sucking it in sex he sticks it In you so I would say blowjob

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  • Um BJ all the way... When i don't have to do anything thats the life...

  • Sex. It's very rare a girl can make me cum from oral.

  • In sex we are also trying to please the woman at the same time as ourselves. A blowjob is just is getting pleasures so there is no responsibility to the other individual involved.

  • Of course sex orgasm...

  • Ear hole orgasm

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  • I prefer the bj orgasm every time, seems much more intimate

  • Sex orgasm there really is no other option

  • Blow job for me but I loooove head and always will love it more than sex.

  • depends on the mood im in. both r good depending on the girl also