I accidentally hurt my boyfriend's penis?

I was giving my boyfriend a hand job and I think I pulled too hard because he said "Ow!" and told me to be more gentle. Will he be upset about his? I feel terrible about hurting him.
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Don't worry about it. I was giving my boyfriend a handy a couple weeks ago and I guess I got too excited and I accidentally sort of jabbed my thumb into the head of his penis. He moved my hand away and we just cuddled after; he didn't say anything. I felt really bad, but I guess he was over it because the next day he asked for another handy. :P

Most Helpful Guys

  • No one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes. Farther more, not everyone likes the same thing. Some guys like rougher, more aggressive blow jobs and hand jobs. If he really likes you and is a decent person, he won't have any problem.

    Based on how he simply told you to be more gentle, I can't imagine this changed how he feels about you.

  • The penis is a pretty hard piece of meat , pardon the pun , can't really see how you can "hurt" a penis outside of pinching it or scratching it with your nails.
    If he wasn't circumcised , maybe you were pulling on the foreskin too hard?

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  • Use lube or spit.
    Hand lotion works.
    Keep dick wet with lube.
    Slide wet hand over head and stroke shaft slowly.
    When he cums, all will be forgiven

  • Don't pull on it too hard, that is painful

  • Go kiss it to make it better? .-.

  • he'll be fine. just be more gentl next time

  • That sort of thing happens all the time. It isn't something we are going to hold a grudged about.

  • As long as you finished I bet he forgot about it right away.

  • He'll get over it pretty quick. Just be mindful of friction and pinching and maybe use lube next time. It's more delicate than it looks!