If the condom keeps slipping off... does the guy have a small dick?

So this is my friends situation and her boyfriend is an arrogant asshole. She says the condom has slipped off several times now and she's had to take Plan B. Well he says its slipping off because he's too big for the condoms which doesn't make sense? And he said its either that pr she's too tight. I don't see how that could make the condom slip off? Knowing the type of dude he is he probably buys giant Magnum condoms but then again I think my friend buys them and they're normal. So does slippage = small dick? I'm just curious.
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  • Yes, he must have a small dick. Using Magnums would be an excuse either, as Magnums, and Magnum XLs are actually a smaller circumference than a lot of normal condoms. Both have a width of of 54 mm, whereas a regular Durex actually has a width of 56mm. The entire marketing behind Magnum is 100% for appeal to the male ego. It's a marketing gimmick.

    If the girl was 'too tight', that would tend to keep it ON, not make it come off. Unless maybe she was really dry, and really tight, and the condoms were not lubricated, and they didn't use any lube. But that would be feeling like crap for the girl, and is about as unsexy as you could make sex feel, so hopefully that's not the issue.

    He is either really, really small in the penis girth department, he doesn't know how to put on a condom at all, or he is trying to find a way to go bareback.

    So yeah, I think he does sound like an arrogant asshole. That is a pretty accurate observation. Plan B is an extreme solution, it's not good for the body. Making her go through that just because 'whoops' is a shitty thing to do to a girl.

  • I agree with lube that got inside
    I don't agree totally with buying too large
    I am aware that when sexual positions change, e. g. from missionary to cowgirl, etc. ... there's a brief span of time prior to reinsertion when the penis can lose some enthusiasm.
    Enthusiasm loss can be attributed to some/all of these... and more effects:
    > instructing a newbie on her new position
    > taking too long to re position
    > she has some features that slightly turn some guys off, e. g. too fat, etc.
    > the new position gives her a tighter squeeze... on things
    > wild gyrations strip it off

    In any case, having only one form of birth prevention is NEVER enough.
    This story PROVES it

    • Has features that turn a guy off like being fat lol? Why are you having sex with her then?

    • OTHER things most attractive + fat is temporary and melts with a happy life

    • oh, missed the part where you said ME = put me in that picture, when nothing like that was implied... thanks...

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  • I am happy I never had an experience with condoms slipping off during penetration. But I think that the boy has a flaccid penis to early.

    Maybe you can ask some of your male friends also?

  • It just sounds like your friend is shitty for sharing this with you. I'm sure her bf doesn't appreciate it.
    But it just means they buy the wrong size condoms or that he isn't hard enough.

    • Nah they talk about it in front of us.

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  • I would most definitely say that they condom is too big for him. If he is rolling it down all the way, then a tight vagina wouldn't be able to pull it off of him.

    Condoms are sized by girth (circumference), so even if he has a long penis, it could still be too thin for the condoms they are using. Him saying that he's too big is just pure bullshit. They need smaller condoms.

  • The condom might be too big, all guys think they are the Trojan Magnums lol

  • Yes, definitely. The right size condom doesn't come off. I have never had one slip in many years of using condoms consistently. The only other way they can slip off, is after sex, and the guy is still inside, and the penis becomes flaccid. When she gets off the guy, she can pull the condom off too if the penis is flaccid. The guy sounds like he is trying to get non-condom sex and using the slippage as an excuse. STD anyone?

  • He could be buying condoms that are too big for him. In other words, his dick is too small for the condom he's using. They come in different sizes, and normal should fit a normal dick.
    The biggest I can get locally is 59 mm, and more would fit better.

    The other possibility is that he goes soft before he pulls out. Of course, his dick will get smaller when it's soft, so it can happen then.

  • He brought the wrong size condom 😐

    • are they not once size fits all? besides like magnums

    • Um.. Im going to say.. Not all guys have the same size penis

    • Yeah, but if you go to the drug store. All the condoms are the same size

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  • Most condoms are lubricated. The lubricant is on both sides (since they are rolled up). If the lubricant on the outside combined with her lubricant is lost during copulation, then it is possible the friction on the outside of the condom would pull it off due to the lubricant inside. (Yes, I know this is not common, but it can and does happen.) He should try unlubricated condoms and add lubricant after it is on. May not cure the problem, but worth the try.

  • No lol I'm in gr 10 and I know more? haha no its one size fits all.

    • Ha? Most condoms at the store don't have sizing. They're all the same. At least where I go.

    • Condoms are definitely NOT one size fits all. Regular condoms fit average girth, and there are snug fitting condoms for below average girth (as well as larger ones, too).

    • Well than my teacher was wrong?

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  • Yes !!! He should buyer a smaller size.

  • It sounds like you just dont like your friends boyfriend and you're trying to find a reason to hate on him...

    • Nah legit question. I have better reasons to hate him other than his dick size.

    • Well, if I had to guess he's using condoms that are too big... I also know they can slide off once you cum if you cum a lot, lubes up the inside...

  • The only time a condom ever came off of me is if she sucked my dick for a while first and it was covered with saliva when I put the condom on.
    Occasionally that can make a slippery situation inside the condom.
    Otherwise they don't ever come off.
    I use regular condoms.

  • That's my guess. And why do people think condoms come in different sizes? As far as i know, there's only regular and magnum. So if you're too small for regular then u gotta order special ones online

  • Yes little tinky winky!

  • Dick is small

  • Must be he prettiest cums tomuch. Precums are slimy so it some times slips of the condom when banging. 😜

  • Or she's really tight or the guy is going limp

  • I think so it’s really loose on me

  • Dam right, my friend

  • It means he's buying too big of a size.

  • Sounds like the guy is bagging his Vienna sausage in the Goodyear blimp.

  • Small or not hard
    Yeh sounds like he is being a dick

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