Want to try anal beads but need some advice first?

[Anonymous]

I'm thinking of getting some anal beads, I have 2 butt plugs a tiny one and a bigger one. The bigger one doesn't fit and I rarely use the little one. I wanna try the anal beads but am curious of a few things. Can you leave them in for a while or is it just like out them in while having sex or playing and then take them out? Can you really feel a difference during sex with them in? Do they stay in easily? My butt plug pops out all the time and not sure if these would do the same. Are they easy to put in? Are any certain ones better than others? Guys what do you think about your gf using them? My bf tried to finger me once but couldn't get his finger in so I was sorta wanting to just have something in when I go to his place and sorta let him find it as we undress.

[normalice]

they should stay in as long as you don't push them out. As to the difference during sex, I don't know.. I believe it's mostly the putting in/pulling out of them that is the stimulating factor.

Some anal beads are actually beads on a string, and some are more like a 'thin lumpy dildo'. I'd suspect the latter is the best for actual use.

Personally, I wouldn't mind if a girl used anal beads with me. But their use would cause me to prefer to simply put my dick in her butthole. I mean, if she is down with anal stimulation, why not just take the cock directly?

[Asker]

I would love for him to just fuck me because I love his cock but he's way to big, he's about 8-9 inches and very thick. I can't even get more than about 4 inches in my mouth without getting him with my teeth because if the thickness.

[normalice]

the ass has a lot more elasticity than teeth. It takes a bit of time, sure, but you can take it with patience.

[JonJames]

You'd be amazed at what you can take in your ass with no pain -- only pleasure. But you can't do it overnight. You are doing the right thing by playing around. If it takes a few months, so what? I mean you can already anally orgasm right? Imagine what that would be like with his big one up there -- jumping and pumping you so full of warm cum -- it feels like it will come out of your mouth? So -- worth it. By the way, anal beads are supposed to feel that way coming out. You are supposed to pull them out when you start your orgasm so your anus does this as you cum: * o * O * O. It opens and closes a bit anyway during orgasm for every girl -- it is involuntary as blinking. But you can take control over these muscles with anal kegels. They are as they sound, you push out and clench off these muscles so your ring opens and closes. Best to try it in a mirror on a chair until you get the hang of it. Then you can do them any time anywhere. In addition to helping you open for anal, they help make your orgasm stronger. You WANT the muscles moving -- internal and external. Many girls tend to clench off when this happens, but that kind of freezes your muscles. When you push out and he grinds that first load of semen deeply into -- so deep it does not even come out at first -- you will get it. I think you already do. Also, look up a jelly bead stick. A lot more comfortable than small hard beads on a string.

[Niceguyscumlast]

You do not want to leave the beads into too long. I have a better idea for you and your guy I call it the "Golden bullet date" buy one of those wireless vibrating egg shaped vibes insert into your pussy and when you show up at your guys hand him the wireless remote and play a game like how quiet can you be orgasming at a restaurant or at the movies

[yaddayaddayadda02]

I've never tried beads, I do know you shouldn't pull the cord like you're starting a lawnmower after you're done, though.

I would look for body-safe, medical grade silicone beads with no seam. I believe you can leave them in, but the sensation is really them coming out, I believe.

They should stay in pretty easy since they're not a solid piece like a butt plug.

[JustinMG]

I take it you like anal play? lol

[Asker]

I do and he's mentioned wanting to finger me and stuff. He tried couple different times and couldn't get his finger in so I figured if I just went over with something in I could feel the pleasure and he doesn't have to worry about hurting me.

[JustinMG]

well I say give it a try then. But if you're not used to that sort of thing, buy the smallest beads you can find and take it easy at first lol i'm sure just popping them in there would be quite painful

[Asker]

I'll have to see what they have, I don't want to get the smallest ones and not really be able to feel much but I don't want too big either. I think putting them in will feel so good, I get very wet and can almost cum just from inserting my butt plug. In fact that's why I can't get the bigger one in, I start to cum and I tighten up and it slides back out.

[JustinMG]

it would probably feel good if you try not to tighten up when you cum

[Asker]

I tried so hard to not tighten up last night, I don't know how to not tighten it when I cum. I could feel it stretching and sliding in and then when it got to the bigger part I started to cum

[JustinMG]

hmm, would you message me? and I can help you in chat so this isn't a long drawn out chat for everyone to see haha unless you want to remain anonymous to me, but it doesn't phase me either way?

[Anonymous]

Never forget that people who insist on shoving foreign objects up their kazoo on a regular basis sometimes wind up in an emergency room having them uninstalled by a doctor.
I remember a guy who came in one night with four D cell batteries up his flue. I asked him if he was trying to make his eyes light up.

[Asker]

Yikes never thought of batteries. I work at a hospital and we had a guy that had a glass coke bottle stuck up there. I'm always careful as I wouldn't want to loose it up there and I don't use those numbing lubes so I can feel everything and know what feels good and when it's hurting.