Why does my boyfriend whip out his penis sometimes in front of his guy friends?

Why does my boyfriend whip out his penis sometimes in front of his guy friends? I think it's extremely weird, & I told him to stop. He got angry & said 'that's what guys do.' I would understand if he was a kid, but he's 30. Is this normal? Thoughts?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • No. That's completely immature. I'm totally cool with some out-there behaviors from my weird/edgy/got-something-to-prove friends, but I would never put up with that kind of aggressive idiocy.

    The real question is why are you still with this grade-A jackass? One of these days he's going to whip it out in view of a kid, bump one of his unwilling friends with mr happy, or not notice the security camera, and then he's going to be calling you for bail money to get his sex-offending butt out of jail. Just say no.

  • He is celebrated as the best endowed of his sexually perverted gang, my dear... should be the best guess, since you gave NO other details about IT, circumstances that might prompt this, cultural background, nothing.

    If you only seek certification that this is abnormal from many, count me in on that.
    I doubt evidence gathered here will curb his actions.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I agree it's weird, but it's his penis and not your place to try to modify his (legal) behavior. If his friends don't seem bothered by it, you just need to find a way to not be there when he's in that kind of mood.

  • That's very immature at any age I have no idea why he would do this and I wonder what his friends think when he does it or if they do the same thing too

  • That's weird... And extremely embarrassing.

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  • That's really weird!

  • The question is why do you call him a boyfriend?

  • Yeah that's some weird shit going on. We may gesture at it with our buds but none of that whipping it out actual shit.

  • that is just weird... I've never heard of guys doing this, old or young.

  • Id understand if he was like 16 but 30? I don't know that's kinda weird

    • Even at 16 I would still question it lol

  • I whip out my dick around guys just about every day. But then, it is because I am about to piss in a urinal. No! He is not normal. IT is not normal. It is not what guys do.

  • Lol- no it's not what 30 year olds do. Maybe in teens and early 20's in a locker room if they play team sports and are having a laugh or after drinks somewhere and trying to be funny, but it's very immature.

  • My guess is that this is a dude who wants to show his straight friends his weiner and is looking for encouragement. No.

  • That's not normal at all. Not cool. He should stop.

  • LOL
    I've never seen nor done that.

  • Sounds like he's sexually ambivalent at the very least.

  • What the fuck? He's probably gay.

  • We don't do such things, %100 percent honest here.

  • Guys don't normally do that.

  • he's immature, plain & simple

  • He is either real comfortable with his sexuality or he is also sexually attracted to men

  • I don't think it's normal. I have no doubt some guys do It but I'm sure to few