Why did he lie down and start sweating and breathing heavily?

[Anonymous]

I am a inexperienced Virgin. I really don't know much about sex or guys in general. I haven't done anything remotely sexual before and I had my first kiss only recently. I was kissing the guy I'm dating in my bed. He knew I didn't want to go far and that I wanted to keep it at kissing and cuddling for a while. I just want to take it slow physically and I made that clear with him. He lifted up my shirt a little and started playing with my boobs under my bra. He was just kissing them, cupping them, and touching them a little. I liked the way it felt so I let him continue what he was doing. At some point he seemed to be getting extremely hot and bothered. It was pretty obvious in how he started breathing heavily and he started sweating. I got kind of worried about him. He just laid down next to me and was breathing and sweating like that. He seemed like he just worked out and was trying to catch his breath or something. I didn't want to go farther with him because I didn't feel ready so I told him we should probably stop and go sit on the couch or something. He didn't want to though and just laid down for a bit and was sweating profusely :/ Is this typical of a guy who is really aroused or something? Why did he have to lie down like that? I probably sound stupid but I'm just curious what was going on here. He seemed so worked up!

[countrydude]

He worked himself up. He was Hard as a rock. He wanted to go all the way. And when You sugessted to go out to the ciuch He may have been embarrased about his hard on. He needed to wait for it to go down so others would not see it

[Asker]

I didn't mean to embarrass him or make him feel bad. I just felt like it could help for him to not get worked up. I didn't want to tease him purposely when I'm not ready to take the next step with him

[countrydude]

I didn't mean to sound as if I was bblaming you. sorry. Thats why I said he worked himself up. you did the right thing and did nithing wrong

[Asker]

No no problem at all! Thanks for the help

[countrydude]

your welcome. by the way it takes us guys a little longer to have our erection deflate. Byt we get hard very easy.. just be careful around him. he sounds like a little horn dog. lol

[Asker]

He does seem to get hard really easily.. I can tell he gets slightly hard even when I'm just sitting next to him! Why do you think that is? Is it just a high sex drive or something?

[Asker]

I definitely think that was the most hard he has ever gotten though.. He just seemed incredibly worked up and I never saw him like that before. Most of the time he will just seem aroused and look at me with "bedroom eyes". I heard the expression before and it made complete sense once I saw it for the first time in person

[countrydude]

yes I agree with bedroom eyes. It didn't make. sense till I wittnessed it. ... And Im sure latter on that night he tugged at it thinking of you as he releived his sexual urges. :)

[Asker]

This might sound dumb but I've never felt desired sexually before.. It's really different but so flattering. I like feeling wanted by a guy I care about! I like the way I look but I never really thought of myself as a desirable person until now. It's a good different

[countrydude]

Im sure your very attractive and sexy. But you dont have to give it up till your ready too. and not just to him because he desires you. take it slow and maybe no more kissing in the bed. just be safe. :)

[Asker]

Haha thank you. Good advice :)

[countrydude]

your welcome:)

[countrydude]

thanks for MHO

[AustinMan]

He was just extremely aroused and was laying there to keep from exceeding your boundaries and forcing himself on you.

[kambo_trick3y]

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[Asker]

Lol. Why do you think he did that though?

[summiter]

He was probably way turned on. In fact he might have had an orgasm just from fooling around with you. That can happen to a guy if he has not masturbated in a while.

[godfatherfan]

sounds like he got overly turned on.. if he was rubbing on you he may have cum in his pants... but that is the only explanation.

[Asker]

He did rub a little before he laid down. Is it normal for a guy to get that turned on by doing something like playing with a girl's boobs? He seemed to like them a lot.. Lol. He was literally fixated and kept saying how perfect they were

[godfatherfan]

it is possible. if it has been very long time since he had sex a guy can get turned on without even touching you so sure it is possible.

[Asker]

Maybe he is just really horny lol. He seems to get a little hard when we just sit next to each other. Do you think that type of thing is likely when the guy finds the girl to be really attractive physically? Or when they are just horny and want sex bad, from anyone?

[godfatherfan]

All guys are going to be hard when making out with a woman. how horny and worked up we get depends on how long it has been since we last had sex or masturbated, our feelings toward the woman, the situation, how we feel that day... etc...

[blazer1025]

It sounds like he just got REALLY turned on

[Anonymous]

I like the erotic story. I'm not really sure