Girls, what to expect when taking a bath with your boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

Me and my girlfriend are both 20, and have been going out for about 3 months. We do sleep together (like actual sleeping no sex at all) and the most we've gone is second base. We make out a LOT though, just nothing further than second base. Anyway, last night before we went to bed, we were both talking and she said she wanted to try taking a bath with me. It came up in convo like "yeah I love baths, would you want to take one with me?" And I'm like "I'd love to!" But now I'm EXTREMLY nervous for what's to come in like an hour. First off, we'll be completely naked for the first time. Secondly, how does this all start? I don't even know where to begin? Do I undress her and her me? And I'll obviously have a boner before we get undressed, but I have a problem where when I'm hard, precum just starts oozing out on its own. Will she think this is weird? While I'm excited, I'm very nervous as well. What do we do in there? Feel each other up? What's it like? Plus should I expect her to touch me and her the same? I'm looking to start a convo about this, so please only answer if you're interested in discussing this. And please answer NOT in single sentence replies.

[nkem_naexhe]

Okay firstly, don't be nervous, obviously this is gonna be a big step for her too, seeing as you've both never been this intimate. I suggest making out before you get in the tub and if you do have a bath just like you said, explain to her before hand that you'll get a boner and will probably seep a little precum but mention it's because she's the turn on. If she finds it weird, it's her issue, she shouldn't find it weird, she'll understand that it's because you're aroused. Whilst your making it, subtly start taking off her clothes, I assur you, if she doesn't want you to take off her clothes, she'll let you know. If you start undressing her , she'll probably do the same. Let her get in the tub first and get in behind, whilst you're in there, massages are a good idea and making out is cool. She'll enjoy it dw!

[Asker]

Good idea about explaining it! Do you think she'll understand? Would you? If you saw your boyfriends downstairs oozing precum out, would that be a turnoff or weird you out? I guess I'll just have to see :( but looking forward to this! Thanks again

[performerwannabe]

It will be very weird. The way you're gonna sit on the bathtab, seeing each other naked for the first time. It can be romantic by rubbing each other's back with foam as soft as possible but it'll be weird all the way. Maybe you should have sex first...

[Asker]

I was kind of thinking the same thing, maybe this would be a better idea considering we can know each others bodies a lot more then

[performerwannabe]

I agree :) Or maybe she wants to get a little further but not intercourse.

[Anonymous]

Both of you just get undressed. You don't have to undress her. Then just hangout in the bath. Sometimes me and my ex would just hangout and cuddle. Other times we'd have sex or makeout. It just depends in the mood

[Asker]

By hangout, what do you mean? Just talk? I'm ok with anything to be honest because hell I can just look at her naked lol

[Opinion Owner]

Well we just kinda cuddle and talk. Sometimes it gets deep sometimes we just good around

[Asker]

Cuddle, as in like you lay on him cuddle? What about his boner? Doesn't that get in the way? What position do you mean? Hate to be a perv haha but could you describe it?

[Opinion Owner]

Like he's sitting in the tub with his back in the tub loop. He positions his junk and when he's ready he kinda positions me. Also my back and head is on his chest. It's touching me, but I don't really see it as a big deal. I mean trees a naked girl, he probably going to get a boner

[Asker]

Bahaha but I mean what goes through your mind when it touches you? And is it pointed up or down? It's gonna be odd when I back her into it but in some awesome chance that she would actually enjoy it I'd be the happiest man in the world. Where do his hands go when he positions you? Where do yours go? What's it like?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm his usually goes up. And honestly I didn't care when it touched me. I mean we're naked in a bathtub together. There going to be some touching going on. When we positioned he'd grab his dick pull it up, and I'd have my hand on either side if the tub slowest baking into it. Honestly it's just nice. Like I said most of the time we'd just talk about anything or everything. I there was ackwardness

[Opinion Owner]

Then it quickly went away and we'd just relax. Sometimes he'd wrap his hands around me, other times just hang them out of the tub. It's really nice and intimate. And when there was sex or making out I'd just straddle him

[Asker]

Sweet! So girls actually like the feeling of it growing against them! Hopefully she does too, I mean that would be so cool lol do you think she'd like it if my hands were on her stomach lightly rubbing it or even down further into her pubic hair? Is it too soon to insert fingers down there? And what if my hands went around her boobs or something like that? What if she pees? I've read that that's a thing, is that normal? Should I do it too? Is that gross?

[Opinion Owner]

Um it depends on the mood. If you notice a more sexual vibe then you can aim for fingering. If it's just an an intimate moment vibe then keep your hands wrapped around (unless she's cool with that my boyfriend really liked my boobs and just rested his hand there). I've never peed in the bath before, but if she does and your both cool with it then just laugh it off. It's not really gross, but not preferred

[VonHoffer]

I would want to wait until I am married. If we move into a house together, I hope the bathroom has a claw foot bathtub. We'd do it naked! I'd get in first and put my feet toward the taps and then she would lay on me and I could give her a whole body massage and I could wash her. Then we'd get out and have sex with a bunch of "having sex" music. Then, we'd close it out with another bath and she would get in first and I would lay on her and she could give me a whole body massage and wash me. Then, we'd wash each other's hair and get out.

[Acadia]

You need to get in first and spread your legs, she will sit between them. It doesn't need to be sexual at all if you guys don't want it to be. Make it romantic. Light some candles, play some music, talk, and drink some wine

[KBob93]

@Asker I think I know who this is. ;)

[RebeccaSJ]

I had sex with a couple of guys in the bathtub. (Not at the same time.)

[JennieF]

I've done it and it most often becomes sexual.

[Anonymous]

Well I think you are thinking about this too much honestly. For me bath is bath. We sit in the bath and talk r hugging and feeling each other up. the purpose is to relax and be clean. Other sexual activities is on the bed not in the bath.

[Anonymous]

How did it go?

[Asker]

We are getting in in like 30 minutes hehe ^^

[fluffycute123]

How did it go?

[fluffycute123]

@asker how did it go